"Being a targeted individual can be an incredibly isolating and painful experience. The emotional toll of being lied to, manipulated, and abandoned by people you thought you could trust leaves you feeling cold and empty. When perpetrators pretend to care, only to leave you out in the cold, it creates deep feelings of betrayal, confusion, and sadness. It’s hard to make sense of why someone would purposely hurt you, and the emotional scars from this kind of treatment can take a long time to heal."
-Artemisia Lore
When I first entered the online spiritual community, I was excited to share my journey, but I quickly realized it wasn’t all light and love. What surprised me most was that some people I thought were close to me turned out to be faking their friendships. This wasn’t just a gut feeling—I could sense it in my spirit. Sadly, this issue isn’t uncommon. Many people in spiritual communities are pretending to be something they’re not, and some are outright predators.
The Hidden Dangers of Spiritual Platforms
In spiritual circles, the idea of predators might seem odd, but they’re very real. These people target highly gifted individuals—those who are naturally empathetic, intuitive, or in tune with spiritual realms. Predators seek to get close to these people, sometimes for power, influence, or even financial gain. They might present themselves as mentors, fellow lightworkers, or guides, but their true intentions often reveal themselves over time.
For example, I’ve encountered people who initially showered me with praise and support, only to later try to manipulate me into sharing personal information or getting involved in toxic dynamics. At first, they seem like trusted friends or colleagues, but eventually, the red flags start to appear—constant flattery, unsolicited advice that feels manipulative, or even subtle demands for loyalty.
Why I Took the Risk
Many might wonder why I stayed in these toxic environments for so long. Honestly, I wanted to understand why these predators act the way they do. Whether they claimed to be life coaches, lightworkers, or dark practitioners, I wanted to dig into the psychology behind their behaviors. I needed to see how they manipulate people, not just to protect myself but also to warn others. It's easy to dismiss people who fall victim to spiritual predators, thinking "how could they not see the signs?" But the truth is, these predators are skilled at mind manipulation. They use emotional blackmail, sabotage, and even gaslighting to make their targets question their own sanity. It’s a twisted game, and many don’t realize they’re in it until it’s too late.
Common Ploys and Tactics
Predators in spiritual communities often use a few common tactics. One is blackmail, where they use secrets or personal information against you. For example, I’ve seen predators ask for vulnerable details during private readings or spiritual consultations, only to use that information later to control their targets.
Another tactic is mind manipulation. They might plant seeds of doubt in your mind, make you feel unstable, or spread rumors about you to isolate you from others. This often happens when they feel their control over you slipping. In my experience, when I began standing up for myself, predators would twist the narrative, telling others I was mentally unstable or had ulterior motives.
Who Are These Predators?
It’s important to note that predators aren’t always men; women can be equally dangerous in these spaces. We often think of male figures when it comes to manipulation, but I’ve encountered women who were just as toxic and controlling. The real issue lies in their intentions, not their gender. For example, there was a woman I once considered a mentor. She seemed wise and caring but later began asking for things in return for her “spiritual guidance,” like money or access to my clients. When I refused, she turned others against me, claiming I was the one taking advantage of her.
How the Universe Exposes Them
The thing about predators in spiritual communities is that they don’t stay hidden forever. One of the most fascinating aspects of my journey has been watching how the universe eventually exposes them. Not through personal attacks or sharing their secrets, but by allowing their true nature to surface. People begin to see them for who they really are.
For instance, I’ve seen spiritual predators rise quickly to popularity, only to fall just as fast when their manipulative behavior became too obvious to ignore. Whether it’s through public conflicts, failed relationships, or negative reviews, the universe has a way of ensuring that these predators are exposed.
Protecting Yourself in Spiritual Spaces
If you’re part of an online spiritual community, it’s important to stay alert. Not everyone who offers spiritual guidance has good intentions. Trust your intuition, and don’t be afraid to question people’s motives if something feels off.
Here are a few signs to watch out for:
- Excessive flattery or praise: If someone is constantly telling you how amazing and gifted you are but seems to have hidden motives, be cautious.
- Requests for personal information: If someone asks for vulnerable details about your life in ways that feel intrusive or unnecessary, trust your gut.
- Attempts to isolate you: Predators may try to turn you against other people in the community, claiming that only they truly understand you.
- Gaslighting: If someone makes you feel like you’re the problem or tries to twist situations to make you doubt your own sanity, that’s a major red flag.
To heal spiritually, people can use a few simple techniques:
- Meditation: Spend quiet time focusing on your breath to calm your mind and release negative thoughts.
- Grounding: Walk barefoot on the earth, or sit in nature to reconnect with natural energy and feel more balanced.
- Cleansing: Use sage, incense, or salt to cleanse your space and remove negative energy.
- Visualization: Imagine a protective light surrounding you, healing your emotional wounds and restoring your inner peace.
- Affirmations: Repeat positive statements like “I am healing” or “I release the past” to reinforce your mental and emotional strength.
These practices can help restore your emotional and spiritual well-being over time.
In addition to spiritual practices, it's important to have a support network. Surround yourself with friends, family, or a trusted community who can listen, offer encouragement, and provide emotional support during difficult times. Talking through your feelings with others who understand, or care can speed up the healing process and help you feel less alone. Combining spiritual techniques with the strength of a supportive network can make your journey to healing much smoother.
My Final Thoughts
I’ve reached a point in my spiritual journey where I’m ready to move toward more positive and uplifting spaces. I’ve learned enough about the dark side of spirituality to protect myself and help others. But I want to leave you with this: if you ever feel like you’ve been manipulated, tricked, or caught in a game by someone in a spiritual community, don’t hesitate to reach out for help.
We all make mistakes—it’s part of life and spiritual growth. What matters most is learning from them and staying open to the lessons the universe has to offer.
If any of this resonates with you, or if you feel you’ve encountered a spiritual predator, feel free to contact me. Together, we can navigate this journey toward a healthier, more authentic spiritual experience.
I hope this blog helps shed some light on the dangers of online predators in spiritual communities. Stay aware, trust your instincts, and remember that you are protected by your own intuition, ancestors, and guides.
#Stay Safe- Artemisia Lore
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