The girls aren’t wearing high heels anymore and I’m over it. Like I get that comfort is all the rave now, but what happened to glamour? What happened to excess and to effort? Why are the girls prioritizing looking “low maintenance” over looking like...
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One step at a time There’s no need to rush It’s like learning to fly Or falling in love It’s gonna happen when it’s supposed to happen Then we’ll find the reasons why… One step at a time. That is the chorus of one of my favourite songs in the entire...
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You do not want to be the girl who talks about starting a business, yet spends two years perfecting a logo while never launching anything. You do not want to be the girl who speaks passionately about taking a leap of faith in her career, yet stays i...
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If you want to be an attorney, but you love to sing, go to work during the day and hit the karaoke bars at night (yes, very Hannah Montana coded). And no, it doesn’t make you unserious, confused, or behind. It makes you human. Somewhere along the wa...
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Before you roll your eyes, no, this isn’t about yachts, shopping sprees or pretending money solves everything (I mean, it kinda does lol). It’s about the energy. The way a rich girl moves through life like she knows there’s more coming, so she doesn...
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Let's talk dust. The term “dusty” was popularized by Shera Seven, and it refers to a man who has no real means to provide but still feels entitled to women’s time, energy, labor, emotional support, and access. He doesn’t have resources, stabili...
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Have you ever heard of the Law Of Polarity? The Law Of Polarity states that everything has opposite poles. Good and bad. Hot and cold. Love and hate. These opposites are not enemies, they are just two ends of the same spectrum, inseparable and const...
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Why is it that living as a woman who takes care of herself, who tries to show up fully, and who elevates herself comes with a cost? Rubs People the wrong way? Pretty hurts man. Not the feeling cute, might delete later. I mean the kind of hurt that c...
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"Whatever comes out of a man's mouth, reverse it" - Shera Seven I've taken a long break from dating because I realized I always fell for the same stupid games. Ughh what can I say! I was a lover girl at heart, I genuinely couldn't help it. I used to...
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Lately I’ve been catching my reflection and thinking… wow. I look good. And also… wait. When did that happen. I’m in my late twenties. I feel grounded in a way I never did before, more comfortable in my skin, more certain of who I am, and at the exa...
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That title might sound dramatic, but I mean it very literally. Having low standards doesn’t just cost you time or dignity. It can cost you your peace, your safety, your mental health, your money, your future. In some cases, it can genuinely put you ...
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…a pink Bentley. Obivously ;) But especially happiness, health, abundance, and prosperity for every single one of us. This holiday season, I’m taking a moment to recognize something powerful: I already have everything I’ve ever asked for. Even in mo...
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My name is Arlie. I am a recovering shopaholic. And these are my confessions... I’ve followed trends I never truly liked, gotten clothes I didn’t really need, bought bags I couldn’t afford and heels that didn’t fit, thinking one day I’d finally find...
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Close your eyes, and picture this. It’s five years from now. You are financially stable and working a career that lights your soul on fire. You wake up with purpose, not dread. Your days feel intentional, not rushed. You have your dream car, your dr...
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We all carry baggage. Some of it designer. Some of it emotional. Some of it carefully folded and tucked away so neatly we almost forget it’s there (emphasis on almost). I like the idea of asking what’s in someone’s bag, because it’s never really abo...
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