Today let's talk about a topic that is sure to interest many of you, and that is how to have anal sex the first time.
In fact as you know, if you wait long enough (this long enough depends on so many factors such as the particular girl, how much she likes you, etc.) in the long run it is not (or should never be) a problem to have anal sex with a girl, especially if she is your girlfriend or a friend with benefit you have been dating for a while.
And if you follow me on the site you know exactly what to do.
But what happens when she has never let enter anything into her cute little ass? 🙂
She might give you a hard time. In this article we are going to see how to solve this problem once and for all.
In fact today we're going to see:
- Where to start
- How to do it the first time (the step by step guide)
- And finally what to do if blood comes out
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In order to get to anal intercourse when it is the first time for her, it is essential that she is turned on like crazy.
Well... let's get started...
Where to start: anal sex tips
The truth is that anal intercourse, from a technical point of view, does not change, whether it is your first
time or you are the female equivalent of Rocco Siffredi(pornactor) in terms of experience.
So the first advice I feel like giving you is to get very clear in your head how to do anal sex properly (most men don't have an idea).
After all, the purpose of this article is to teach you how to convince a girl who has never tried this experience to take her for a spin. For a very simple reason.
When it comes to her first penetration in the ass, two things are important.
The first is that you are competent in what you are doing.
The second is that you are familiar with a whole range of concepts such as:
- What the female anus looks like (so it doesn't hurt her)
- How to lubricate the anus and the best anal lubricant you can use for your purpose
- How to dilate the anus
- The best positions
- And much, much more
In fact convincing a girl to give you her ass the first time in her life goes to add a step of difficulty to what we are going to do.
And below we go to see how to do it specifically...
How to do first anal penetration: the step by step guide
Now let me start with a premise.
Since I promise you here that I will explain how to do it even if she is still a virgin from the ass... I can already see you more or less like this...
"First time anal sex for her... Yeahhhh!!!"Â
I should warn you that there will be some things to be done first with some preliminary work.
Below we go through exactly how to do it. Let's start with what not to do....
What you should NEVER do if you want to make it happen
Many men try to gain access to their partner's ass in crazy ways that you should avoid.
Let's go and see them...
The first one is to take a woman to dinner and try to convince her during the dinner with a mix of:
- buying her by paying for dinner
- and trying to get her drank as much as possible
I know you at least thought about it that this plan was worthy but it is not.
The second failed strategy is to get you both drunk.
Basically you think something like...I'll bring her to be totally drunk...we'll start having sex and then...I'll throw my dick in her ass..On the other hand, the next day she won't be able to blame you.
When you see double and there are two holes anyone can make a mistake. It will be all the fault of the producers of alcoholic beverages.
Now let's see why this approach is also unsuccessful.
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First, most of the time all it takes is nothing that instead of having sex you find yourself holding her head while she pukes in the toilet.
Second, even if that doesn't happen, your dick is not hard enough to carry out your diabolical plan.
The third strategy, however, is my favorite.
We'll call it the one of the "fake dumb" who sprays a bit of lube here and there and "accidentally" goes in her back entrance.
Forget this!
Women love anal intercourse once they experience it with someone competent who knows how to get them there.
What women like is just that (a man who is able to lead them toward what they want even when they can't admit it themselves) and not someone who tries to cheat them out of it.
There is one thing you really need to internalize about the female sex: they are much dirtier than you are. Much more than you will ever become.
It's just that they have undergone social conditioning that you haven't and that don't allow them to express female pleasure freely.
So your job is not to fool her but simply to guide her competently toward the first time for her in taking it from behind.
Before we go on to see how to get your dick in her ass, there is something else we need to understand...
Why she "won't" give you her ass
Here the question is very simple even though many men do not understand it totally because they are blind in front of female psychology.
Any woman has fantasies about anal penetration but there are a few issues circulating in her head that you don't have.
These are:
- Many of her friends will have told her about how painful it was the first time (thanks to many unskilled men around)
- She worries about what may come out
- She worries about being judged as a not-good
Now these are all fears or doubts she has on a rational level about her first time from behind.
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I'll give you a rule of thumb: whenever you try to solve a problem with a woman on a rational level you have already lost.
Not only with regard to anal penetration but in every possible situation,having sex with her, convincing her to give you a blowjob or getting her to cum in your mouth, face and so on.
This is not because you can't be better and more convincing than her from a rational point of view but simply because they don't work that way.
Don't be discouraged, by the end of this article you will know how to get her on from behind without making her feel pain and have her first perfect anal intercourse.
Having said that, let's go and see....
How to make her love the first time in the ass
By this point in the article you should have realized that making her ass yours is not something you should talk about outside the bedroom with her.
There are essentially two reasons for this.
First, when she is aroused her rational defenses are lower.Â
Second, teasing her in bed when she is aroused is much more powerful than talking to her about putting your dick in her ass from a theoretical point of view at dinner.
And going back to arousing her and making her lose her inhibitions, it is essential that you know how to give her one or more orgasms before you push for anal sex.
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As a man you will have to make the experience of putting your dick in her butt as pleasurable as possible and without making her feel any pain by first doing proper sexual stimulation.
 Good... Now let's go and see what to do in practice the...
Practical steps to deflower her ass
Step 1: Make her curious when she is aroused
When she is extremely aroused lubricate your finger and start playing with the outside of her asshole.
Nothing complicated for now. We want to go really slow here and let her slowly get used to the idea.
You don't need me to explain more because I have already written an article on how to put a finger in her ass.
Step 2: Just keep playing for 2 to 4 weeks
"Two to four weeks? But I want to throw my cock in her ass right now"
I know you are already ready but she in the vast majority of cases IS NOT.
So you have to ask yourself a question.
"When do I have the best chance of succeeding?"
The answer is: when she's acclimated to the idea and even starts fantasizing about it because, in this way, you're creating like a sense of anticipation.
And yet another question..
"Would I rather have very little chance of completing my mission and then make it an uphill climb?
Or would I rather wait a little bit and then focus my attack at the most opportune time?"
If you have considered this question intelligently it should be clear to you that the best strategy is to launch the attack at the moment when you have brought her into a state where anal sex is something you both want.
So up to now (the first time that is) you have only "knocked on the door" of her butt.
From now on you will begin to progressively enter inside with your finger.
You will make sure to gradually dilate her anus and not make the sensation painful.
You only need to have 3 cautions in doing this:
- Remember to make it a progressive thing
- Make sure she is wet properly
- Take care of your manicure so that you don't hurt her
Step 3: Ask in the right way
Now if you follow me on the site you might be confused because you know that what I tell you on the site is precisely never to ask her if you can do anything in bed but simply to guide her in a dominant way and that's it.
The first time for her in anal sex can be the exception to this rule.
It can because you actually have two options.
But let's proceed in order.
The 2 to 4 weeks we talked about above have passed (2 or 4 depends on how much she shows you that she likes what's going on back there) and you are ready to deliver your final blow.
As you can imagine here we want to get her as aroused as possible, so you can start by getting her as aroused as possible.
And then go with the usual sequence:
- long foreplay
- you masturbate her
- you lick her
- you penetrate her and make her cum
AND while you're penetrating her you stimulate her from behind with your finger.
At this point you put her in doggy style and here, as we said, there are two possibilities.
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Before I get into it let me make a premise.
If you follow me on the site you know that during sex you have to talk dirty to a woman.
Now if she is very receptive and responds particularly well to dirty talk you can say to her something like...
"And now tell me how much you want my cock in your ass/to fuck you in the ass"
In case she is less receptive we have the second possible scenario, the one in which you "break" the general rule and ask by saying to her something like...
"(Name) do you want me to fuck you in the ass now?"
After you've done everything we've seen so far you go for an almost guaranteed yes because:
- She is horny and we have taken away some of her inhibitions with alcohol
- The preliminary work of the previous weeks has given her a chance to see that this is a pleasurable feeling after all
- She is curious at the thought
A note: to put this sequence into action you will need to last quite a long time.
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Step 4: Penetrate her very slowly and gently
Regarding this point, I am not going to dwell on it too much since how to penetrate her from behind the first time is no different than what I have already explained to you in the article regarding anal sex.
One clarification: since this is the first time for her, don't make her feel uncomfortable if something comes out from behind.
Yes.....it is a possibility if you stick it in her ass, especially at this stage when she will not yet have learned how to clean her anus before intercourse.
Step 5: Take care of her
Once you are done take care of her by cuddling her more than usual and letting her know how happy you are that she has decided to explore this part of her sexuality with you.
This taking care of her is also about the next day. Write to her and maybe even call her.
Even better if you see each other.
You do not under any circumstances want her to run the risk of feeling used after she for the first time given herself to you from behind.
What to do if blood comes out during intercourse the first time
Regarding deflowering her butt in total safety there is a chance, although rather small, that she will bleed after anal intercourse.
Actually not right away, but she may find blood on the toilet paper when she wipes.
If this happens and she tells you about it it is advisable to take care of her even afterwards by recommending that she see a proctologist (or even better go with her).
On the other hand (if you are unlucky) the proctologist might also tell you that she has a prone to hemorrhoidal crisis and put a ban on the kind of sex you enjoy so much.
This case is really quite rare so don't bother wrapping your head around it before.
I simply told you about it so that you know what to do in case this eventuality happens.
Well...having read this article you now know how to initiate her into the pleasure of taking a dick in the ass in a competent way that very few men know how to do.
It will be up to you to make this experience for your woman, wife, partner...as perfect as possible.
For her first anal intercourse,use the technique I wrote to you just now,and she will never again be able to have sex without taking it from behind.
Enjoy!!

Steve