Today we're talking about a somewhat brash, taboo and dirty topic...anal sex.
Anal sex is something that many couples already experience but, basically, without having any idea what they are doing and:
- In addition to being extremely libidinous for you
- Many women who have experienced anal sex say that this type of orgasm is much more intense than they ever expected
- AND that it is much deeper than a vaginal orgasm
This means that even if you have no particular interest in anal sex...
if you want to become a Sex God and make women touch the paradise with one finger you have to become a master of anal penetration as well.
This is because many women are attracted to this kind of experience BUT they will never be the ones to initiate it, or almost never at least.
This means that you must learn not only how to make a woman cum anally but also how to facilitate anal intercourse.
So today you are about to read a real mini-guide to anal sex and how to make a woman orgasm with this type of stimulation.
Specifically I am about to reveal to you:
- What you need to know about the anatomy of her anus so you don't make any huge mistakes
- Why women like anal sex
- How her anus should be cleaned before intercourse
- What to do before approaching anal sex
- The best lubricant
- How to "warm her up"
- The best sequence to give her multiple orgasms thanks to anal sex
- 9 useful tips and recommendations
- 6 positions
- A little bit of her psychology as a woman about anal sex
- How to approach anal sex if it's her first time
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All about anal sex: instructions and tips
What you need to know about the anatomy of the female anus
Before we get into the specifics of the issue let me give you the reasons why you should have anal sex with your woman and generally stimulate that canal, I want to give you some basic facts about the physiology of a woman's anus.
Don't worry..you don't have to be a medical graduate to read this part but I still recommend that you don't skip it because it helps you understand everything we're going to look at next about how to relax the anus and how to have anal intercourse properly and pleasurably for her.
At the same time I want to describe this part of her body to you from a slightly more scientific point of view than in the other articles.
This is because while I'm usually pretty sure you know what you "find on the front," I think many of the men reading this article need a little more culture about what is "back there" and what it looks like.
The first is the fact that the opening of the anal canal and its interior, the anal canal proper that is, are rich in nerve endings and respond very well to stimulation.
It also allows indirect stimulation of the G-spot and the posterior fornix (in the latter case since I see you with squinting eyes, let's talk about the back of the Deep Spot which you should know instead).
So summing up and tightening to the minimum what you need:
- Her rectal canal is full of nerve endings and this results in her stimulation can be very pleasurable but ONLY if you know how to make the anus dilate and penetrate her anus in the correct manner and sequence (otherwise you risk hurting her and not entering her from behind for a very very long time)
- The very large presence of nerve endings in the anus female makes anal penetration an extremely pleasurable experience for her if done in an artistic way
- Anal intercourse allows you to indirectly stimulate the G-spot and you know how much pleasure this type of stimulation gives to women
- Anal penetration offers an excellent position and angle to stimulate her Deep Spot
So as you see, if you want to be a Sex God this is a must-have weapon when you unleash the heavy artillery.
BUT... and I stress this concept... all these benefits are completely nullified if you approach anal intercourse incompetently because you cause her pain or discomfort and to enter from behind then you forget about it if she psychologically associates pain with this experience with you..
Anal sex: do women really like it too?
In addition to these "mechanical" considerations, there are also mental and emotional reasons as to why women like it from behind..and you know how important it is to get her wet starting with her head.
Let's go through them...
The first lie in the fact is that anal sex is something unusual that she doesn't do with many partners and, therefore,this is something extremely exciting for her.
This consequently also creates a lot more intimacy between you.
In addition, anal sex is considered taboo and this is another great source of excitement for her.
Finally, women love it as it is "racy" and "scandalous" and therefore you would not be required to do it.
These are, in essence, the mechanical and psychological reasons why women like to take it from behind.
Once they try it they will not give it up because even though, on a psychological level, vaginal orgasm is more powerful ... on a physical level anal orgasm is stronger and deeper.
Of course she must be well predisposed to "explore" that area but ... once she does she will not go back.
Now there is also a mindset that you must assimilate and that is being absolutely convinced that women like it from behind.
In fact it is important that you understand a fundamental rule of sex and that is...
Any time you see any sexual act,as a pleasure that she does to you,and not as something that is pleasurable for her, it will be much more complicated for that to happen.
Any sexual practice, whatever it may be, works and goes through much better if it originates as her fantasy rather than a "gift" that she gives to you for good behavior or pleasure.
How to clean the anus before intercourse
Consider that this part of the article is "optional."
Optional in that if it is the first time you are penetrating her from behind and you have not talked about it beforehand having her clean her anus can definitely kill all the romance and immersion in the moment sending your plans to the hell.
That said once she is a converted partner and for you having anal sex becomes a normal thing,here you find out how to get her to clean it properly.
In fact this is a practice that enhances the experience for her as well since she does not have to worry about the shame associated with possible spills.
In fact the rectum is full of bacteria and other stuff that are fine in there but not on you.
Having her feces on your penis, even if you wear a condom, is not the best of life.
The first somewhat counter-intuitive thing you need to know is that she should NOT use an enema unless there is a case of constipation or her doctor has given her directions to use it.
In fact, there are a few contraindications and they are:
- Water that is too hot can irritate the inside of her rectum
- The water, although it may sound strange, goes to dehydrate her colon and this makes it easier to break the condom
- If she does too many enemas without a real medical reason she may have difficulty going to the bathroom without
- If you don't let enough time pass between the enema and penetration there is a risk that she will still have water in her, which means you are going to make a big mess that will probably ruin the fun at the best time
So what to do?
Let's see how to clean the anus...
First get her to clean the outside with a damp tissue such as a scented washcloth.
If possible, don't let her eat for a few hours before sex. Eating stimulates the bowels with obvious consequences.
Finally have her use instead of an enema an ear syringe like the one you see below.
Remember that the water should be warm temperature but not hot so as not as to cause damage.
As you see this among the tips for anal sex could not really be missed but, at the same time, it is quite a complex operation that you cannot afford to have her do every time.
And now that we've seen the "groundwork" let's get into the meat of the article.
How to have anal sex
How to have anal sex, you've probably guessed by now, is a practice that if done right,turns out to be considerably more complicated than you might have imagined on your sleepless nights on Youporn.
In fact, to do it properly, you have to learn:
- How to dilate the anus starting with your finger
- How to lubricate the anus
- How to stimulate the anus (always first with your finger)
- And finally how to put it in the anus (finally we have fun :-))
That is unlike what you see in porn movies,you have to learn...
How to put it behind without hurting her and in a way that gives her pleasure!
As we have said the opening of the anal canal is rich in nerve endings and, as a result, stimulation of this area is very pleasant so much so that, as you know, for her to enjoy with the anus is one of the most pleasant sexual practices even if at first it might feel strange to her and she might have to get used to this new sensation.
This implies that even just licking this area from the outside is very pleasurable for her. Once inside,you are in the anal canal and this area is also extremely dense with nerve endings and responds very well to stimulation. Once past the anal canal we find the rectum.
This area is less rich in nerve endings but is separated from the vaginal canal by a very thin membrane. This means that we can indirectly and very simply stimulate the G-spot and the Deep Spot.
Entering from behind is in fact one of the best ways to stimulate the Deep Spot guaranteeing her one of the best and deepest orgasms she has ever had and making her touch the sky with one finger.
And this is exactly why many women report that anal sex led them to one of the best orgasms they have ever had.
Once you approach anal sex you need your partner to relax both the outer and inner muscles of the sphincter, that is, the muscles surrounding the anus.
This means that it is really important that you go extremely slow whenever you do any kind of stimulation and penetration in the anus. These muscles must compulsorily relax, and you allow them to do just that by going extremely slow as they open more and more, until both she and you feel most comfortable going in more.
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Another thing you need to understand is that her rectum is like curved on the inside, and this means that by going fast you would risk hitting its walls.
This is another important reason why you need to go really slow when having anal sex or giving her anal stimulation. In fact, this part needs to expand so that you have more space to get into it.
Let's now look at a few things you need to know about...
What to do before approaching anal sex
At the risk of repeating myself you have to go really SLOW.
I couldn't stress this concept more. If you disregard this rule in addition to causing her discomfort (or pain) she will stiffen up and you can kiss your "dreams of glory" goodbye.
Also, anal tissue is an extremely sensitive area and this turns into a double-edged sword for all those men out there who think things like....
"Oh.... But what do I care... I'm going to try to throw my dick in her ass.
In fact, the fact that anal tissue is very sensitive is a good thing because it means that it responds very well to stimulation but only if you know how to expand and penetrate the anus and that is ... very GENTLY.
In fact if you go too fast or too hard you can cause her anal tissue irritation which can be really painful.
So if you don't want to make her feel like the kid who just got into one of those maximum security prisons you see in American movies and keep "walking through that door" with her,keep reading this article.
In fact if you were to take home just one of the anal sex tips from this article the first and most important one is definitely that it should NEVER hurt her.
Not even a little bit! In fact, many people believe in this false myth that anal sex might hurt a little at first but then it becomes pleasurable.
NO!
It should never hurt her.
So if it hurts her you should not continue but stop what you are doing immediately.
However, don't worry because in this article you are about to learn how to do everything correctly and without causing her any pain.
The first thing you have to learn is how to do "warm up" this area with some "warm up exercises" in fact if you underestimate this part prepare to say goodbye to her B side.
Okay having said that let's go and see...
How to expand the anus: the best lubricant
Let's take one more small step back...
Communication and trust are crucial because the woman is in a very vulnerable position compared to you when is being fucked from behind and therefore she needs to trust and be able to surrender herself completely to you.
This means exactly what it sounds like it says between the lines, which is that I am advising against trying to enter her from behind on your first intercourse.
Even if entering her from behind is your passion and you can't help yourself you don't have to worry about rushing things because if you follow me on the Blog,and learn everything there is to learn about how to become a Sex God you will definitely have more than one encounter with her.
In fact, the best part of being skilled in bed is that she doesn't run away after going for a ride and so you don't need to rush things.
Another aspect that you absolutely cannot afford to underestimate is the manicure of your hands.
Now I don't know if you've noticed but, in all hospitals, the surgeons have a strict code of conduct on how to keep their nails and this is for a very specific reason....nails are at risk of being sharp if they are not taken care correctly.
This means that the care of your nails must be EXTREMELY impeccable because otherwise you risk going to irritate her inner tissues and cause her a lot of pain.
In cases like this, which shouldn't be the rule anyway, don't be afraid to use latex gloves even if it still doesn't turn out to be the first choice.
And yes ... that means that in your little drawer by the bed along with condoms, oils and toys of all kinds you have to stuff latex gloves in there as well.
Also because consider that to have anal sex you have to open that drawer anyway... In fact when it comes to how to stimulate the female anus the use of lubricant is mandatory...
Yes because... look at that... her ass doesn't lubricate itself unlike other areas like in the front ;-).
Now though ... since the talk of the experts in the shower at the gym I know them very well ... you might have heard things like.
"Throwing it in her ass is so cool because it's nice and tight there"
Or things like that which, for goodness sake, are true but might lead you to think that it's better not to lubricate the anus because her lubricated anus would lead you to enjoy it less.
NO!
How to lubricate the anus is not an optional step in this practice but something absolutely mandatory.
First because you will have a very hard time getting in (in fact, you won't get in at all) if you don't follow the steps I'm about to point out, and second because your first concern must be not to hurt her.
Having clarified this point... I recommend to you use a water-based lubricant for widening the anus and for anal stimulation.
This type of lubricant definitely works best for lubricating the anus.
However, I don't advise using silicone-based lubricants because they cause too much friction and oil-based lubricants because they can cause an infection.
In fact, oil-based lubricant can drip down and bring e bacteria into the vagina.
Similarly, don't use desensitizing lubricants thinking,
"This way I'm not hurting her"
This cleverness doesn't eliminate the problem upstream if you're not doing things the right way and she wouldn't be able to enjoy intercourse fully.
Well...now that we've seen how to lubricate the anus let's go and see...
How to "warm her up" to enlarge her anus
EVERY time you approach rectal penetration with her you must take care of her "warm up." I cannot stress more this point.
In fact, thanks to the "training" market of porn you might be inclined to think,
"Yeah whatever,but if they throw their dick in her right away,with big dicks I can go easy"
What you don't see in porn, because their job is to get you aroused and not to explain to you how to do things properly, is that the woman does a lot of preparation before the scene on the set.
That is, she doesn't take that maxi penis in her anus dry like you see :-). So ... just ... don't think you're going to look at porn and say,
"Okay with my Youporn loyalty card I know everything there is to know"
Because porn is not a realistic representation of reality.
In fact, the number one complaint women have about anal sex is that most men want to stick it in them and...don't get me wrong....it's not even their fault because how to do these things no one has ever explained to them so they do what they can.
But you are now on this site where you learn how to pleasure her from A to Z so you have no more excuses.
So what you have to do is start extremely slowly at first. Start with one finger. Give her an orgasm like this first and then "throw it in."
This principle applies especially if she is still a virgin from behind. In fact, if she is a virgin you must first give her a chance to get used to the sensation and then move on to actual anus penetration.
Give her a vaginal orgasm first and make sure she is very aroused and horny before moving on to anal stimulation.
If you want to know properly all you have to do is take a trip around the Blog and you will find plenty of resources ;-).
So let's look at the one I think absolutely....
The best sequence to give her multiple orgasms through anal sex
There are various theories on how to stimulate the anus in the best way but from experience I can guarantee you that the one you are about to read is the absolute the best sequence.
As you know if you follow me on the Blog women are multi-orgasmic.
Now many of them might argue that this is a myth and that it doesn't really work that way.
But the reality is that most of the men around do shit and not that this is a myth.
Just yesterday I was talking to a girl via text and, since the talk had gotten spicy, I told her quite clearly to stock up on spare panties (which is something I don't recommend you do if you're not yet confident).
Now, at first, she was reluctant and said that this whole multi-orgasmic women thing is not so common. After a couple of messages she is convinced even she admits that the problem is that most men are "selfish" and care more about their own pleasure than the woman's (which by the way is one of those reasons why I give you such a hard time about foreplay done well.
Now maybe I will update you in on this 😉 but the point is that if you want to become a Sex God and make them touch the sky with one finger you have to learn to care about their pleasure and do it properly.
And below I'm going to explain a sequence you can apply to give her a multi-orgasm through anal sex in 3 steps:
- Start with a clitoral stimulation and give her a clitoral orgasm
- Stimulate her G-spot and Deep Spot with your fingers, penetrate her and give her a vaginal orgasm
- Stimulate her anus with your finger, enter her and give her an anal orgasm
All this,together with the use of the 7 emotional levers during sex that you learn
how to use on this site will make her really touch the sky with one finger and see heaven like never before.
Now before we go on let me make a very important point that I am sure out there almost no one knows and you certainly don't learn on porn movies.
Anything that goes into her ass...your finger, your dick or a toy then you must do not insert it in her pussy because the bacteria in her ass could cause an infection.
So before you do something like that you want to be absolutely sure that you have washed you or your toy properly.
Well....now let's go and see..
what to do anal sex in practice
As you know you must have already given her a clitoral and vaginal orgasm and....
Almost forgot. You might be thinking,
"What if I cum first?"
In this case the answer is that in order to become a Sex God you must work on your duration and it is something you cannot neglect but don't worry.
Also for this problem, if you feel you have it, articles are coming.
As I told you after the clitoral and vaginal orgasm we move on to the stimulation of her anus.
In fact we now see a whole series of techniques for anal sex.
First we need to see how to put a finger in her anus as a man and without hurting her at the same time.
The first thing you want to do is bring your index finger to the entrance of her asshole and just press against it without going in yet.
Think of it as a kind of "door knocking." Then apply pressure to her firmly with your finger.
Tell her to take two deep breaths and enter it. Just a little bit. To give you a rough measure let's say a scant quarter of your finger.
Only go in this size for the moment. Your palm should point toward her vagina.
Your palm should point tow.
You must always stick your finger in her in this manner so as to go in and indirectly stimulate her G-spot and Deep Spot.
Get to this point yet it is not the case but get into the habit of going inside her with your finger in this manner, Always take the wall of her vagina as your reference for doing so, otherwise you may run the risk of getting it wrong depending on whether she is placed lying on the bed on her stomach or doggy style.
So stick your finger in her ass as I told you,and where I told you for a couple of times and then pull it out.
Don't run.
Now stick it in her again as far as you know, tell her to take two more deep breaths, and go in as far as halfway up her finger.
You can adjust with your knuckle. The one on the finger I mean.
When you get to this point, start moving your finger slowly:
- Up and down AND
- side to side
Doing this allows her anal canal and the muscles of her sphincter to relax so that you can go all the way in.
Then after doing the two movements I described above go precisely to stick your finger in her all the way. As far in as you can go.
Once you've done that, what you want to do is curve your finger backwards in the classic gesture that many sexologists explain to you by giving you the 'example of the gesture you make with your finger to say, "Come kitty" So basically all you're doing is stimulating her in the way you would do to stimulate her G-spot. Only this time you're from behind :-).
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This way you go to give indirect stimulation to her G-Spot and Deep Spot.
She will then go and feel this really deep stimulation.
Now I'm going to make a really important point.
When you start stimulating her in this way, especially if it's the first time, don't start with two fingers.
What you want to do is teach her to appreciate the pleasure of anal stimulation.
The first time maybe it might feel a little strange to her, but once she gets used to it, she will find it pleasurable every time.
If you want to switch to two fingers, when she is ready, the process to follow is this:
- Do everything I told you to do with one finger
- Get out
- Put your index finger on your middle finger (so don't hold them together as if you were masturbating her vaginally but overlap them)
- Repeat the process slowly and following the same steps you followed using one finger.
Now let me make one more important point. Yes I know I am making a lot of these to you and they are all important but it is critical that you follow me through because it is a delicate process.
As you are penetrating her with your fingers in her ass keep stimulating her clitoris. This, especially if she is new to this type of experience, allows her to continue to be aroused and not put too much thought into it. After following this process with your fingers you can go inside her with your dick.
"Ah finally"
Yes... finally... And I can also understand your hurry but never forget to start with your fingers first.
Absolutely mandatory.
Even if you've already penetrated her with your fingers make sure you start very slowly even when you "throw it in" her and don't forget the lube, which as you know is water-based, even on the dick.
Well... That said (and before we move on to some positions 😉 ) let's go over some....
Tips and Recommendations for Anal Sex
- Make sure there is the right atmosphere
Especially if it is her first time you want to make sure there is the right atmosphere and so not to throw it in her ass during a quickie but in a situation where she has prepared the environment well, you have fucked her well as you learn to do on this site and neither of you is in a hurry for any reason.
2. A little drink is allowed
As you know if you follow me you know that I am not a lover of alcohol intended as a social lubricant (I don't even drink) and I find that if you know how to have sex properly and using the 7 emotional levers you have no need for it (in fact you are only going to make the experience worse for both of you) but in this type of situation a shot to help her loosen up is allowed, especially if you are new to it.
3.Don't forget to go slow
I really emphasized this concept in the article but I'll say it again. You are handling a delicate part, and you need to take proper care.
Don't get me wrong...it's not that I'm inciting you to use vibrators the size of fire extinguishers from the front...but from behind go slow and following the small steps I described.
4.Don't be cheap
When it comes to the amount of lube to use, don't be cheap. As you know her asshole does not lubricate itself so make sure you are well lubricated.
5.Prepare a towel Lube
and as you know you may have to use a lot of it, is slippery by definition. This means that it will go sliding all over the place a bit, With the towel you prevent making a mess of the sheets.
Also, these are attention to small details that only an experienced man has and, needless to say, she wants to make sure her ass is in good hands ;-).
6.Have scented wipes ready
Always at the expense of accidents have scented wipes ready to wipe you off. You're still sticking it to her back there-needless to say more on the subject.
7.Use a condom
During anal sex it is easier to catch sexually transmitted diseases.
That is why I recommend that you use condoms until you and your partner are both tested and trust each other. Speaking of condom use among other things, I recommend that you replace it between vaginal and anal penetration.
Sex is in my opinion the greatest pleasure in life, but nevertheless, it is still not worth the risk of endangering your and her health.
As you may have guessed, I'm not a priest 🙂 but, with the understanding that it's ultimately up to your sense of responsibility, ideally you should only have unprotected anal sex in case your relationship is exclusive, you are both tested and you trust each other.
8.Otherwise....
"And what do I risk if I want to be smarter than others?"
Let me preface this by saying, as I have told you several times before, that I am not a doctor, and so for any medical advice, I would advise you to consult the specialist on duty.
In fact, my specialty is to make women enjoy themselves but...since I have some education in the field...below you will find a bit of the risks you can run into if you stupidly think you are smarter than others.
Unwanted Pregnancies
Since I now imagine you a bit groggy thinking things like,
"Okay that she didn't bring me the stork I got here...
But now can you explain to me how I can get her pregnant out from her ass?"
Surely it's not from back there that you get her pregnant.
Even babies know this but, what most couples who have anal sex don't worry about is the fact that, if you cum inside her ass, there is a low risk that some of your fluids will slip into her vagina.
Sexually Transmitted Diseases
The diseases you can get from putting you dick in her ass are no different than those you can get from vaginal sex.
The diseases you can get with anal sex are the same as with vaginal sex such as HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, etc.
The problem comes from the fact that, as you know, the ass is tighter and does not lubricate itself, even if you are using lube.
This implies that the risk of tissue tearing in there with the friction of your dick is higher and therefore you increase your risk of contracting Sexually Transmitted Diseases.
That said, if you get tested, you are exclusive partners and you are sure
you can trust each other you are fine.
9.Kegel exercises for her
If you are two great lovers of anal sex she may have problems as her sphincter muscles are created and designed to work backwards.
Understand me without making me gross :-).
So she might find herself in unpleasant situations (she doesn't check her feces), panic, and put a ban on your favorite hole because she panicked.
If such a thing happens, don't worry, you and her ;-). You simply need to get her to do Kegel exercises for the sphincter and the problem will come back on its own.
So if you find yourself in this situation and that was your favorite hole, don't come and tell me I don't care about saving your ass with this Blog :-).
Anal sex the top 5 positions
I still remind you that before you move from finger stimulation to penetration once you "throw it in" you need to go VERY slow and use lots of lube.
Below are a few positions you can try.
- Doggy style
Doggy style is the most classic position for anal sex and also the easiest to put into practice since, being that you are in a position of full control, you can totally adjust to your liking what is your speed of penetration so that you penetrate her very very slowly.
In this position you can clearly try variations such as having her rest on a pile of pillows
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or do it from a standing position while she clings to some handhold you have in the room or leans her hands against the wall. Below you will find a couple of pictures just to get some cues.
Also from this position, with the uprising lying on her stomach on the bed, she can simply achieve an even deeper orgasm by indirect stimulation by going to better stimulate her G-spot and Deep Spot.
- Her lying on her back bringing her legs toward herself
If she is in this position (you can help her keep her legs open toward herself so that she relaxes as much as possible) it guarantees really really deep penetration.
You can do this by having her bring only one leg to your shoulder as you see below in the figure
OR by having her lift both legs up.
- Her on top
This position has the advantage that she is in control and therefore can control the speed so that it is pleasurable for her (which it should be all the time because you should be able to read her body language) but I would advise against starting here.
It is definitely not the best position to start anal intercourse.
There are mainly three variations of this position.
In the first she is sitting on you and you are both sitting on the bed while you are doing it and you are facing each other in the condition of looking into each other's eyes.
In the second she is sitting on you while you remain lying on your back on the bed.
And In the third you are still lying with your back on the bed but she turns this time.
- The Butterfly
To practice this position you have to be lucky because you need a table of the right height.
In this position she is lying with her back on the table while you are standing at the foot of the table.
At this point you lift her up by her buttocks and bring her towards you, she rests her legs on your shoulders and you penetrate her from behind.
This position works very well but if you are not trained you risk not being able to hold it for a long duration.
- The Cross
In this position she is lying with her back on the bed and you are sitting at her feet somewhat as if you are about to enter her in classic missionary.
At this point you bring her left leg over your shoulder, and still seated you bring your left leg to the outside of her right leg so that they cross.
At this point the game is almost done.
You just have to enter her from behind as you see in the figure.
Well--now that we've seen a few positions for entering her from the B-side what I want to talk to you about is the psychological part.
Female Psychology Behind Anal Sex
What you have to realize is that while for you anal sex is a new and fun opportunity to throw it in, for her the situation is slightly more complex.
Out there you will find many women who are totally open to the subject and others who are less so.
Imagine that she wants to stick a finger up your ass.
This is a sexual practice that, if she knows what she is doing, can be definitely pleasurable but I imagine that many of you reading this do not feel exactly the same way.
So you can't help but consider that this may be a problem for her.
A problem that you can easily overcome but still may come to you.
Another aspect that you cannot underestimate is that, she has already tried anal sex (which is likely although the opposite might also be possible), there is a high possibility that she associated a memory of pain with this experience because her partner did not know what he was doing.
Now what you need to understand is that with these girls it is better to wait for anal sex until they are perfectly "convert" partners of yours.
In fact, as you know, by taking advantage of the 7 emotional levers during sex and with the techniques you discover on this site, she will never again break away from you as she will not be able to find outside, the same kind of physical to emotional pleasure.
And a "converted" partner of yours becomes much more malleable to your demands.
Nevertheless, you must understand that anal sex should not only be a time of pleasure for you but also for her.
What you need to do at this point is simply get her excited about the idea and reassure her in case she is worried about feeling pain.
Anyway if you apply what in even on this site she already knows that you know what she is doing.
In this case she just needs to be guided with thoughtfulness and dominance.
The situation can be a little more complex if it is her first time taking it in the anus.
How to have anal sex the first time
If it is her first time taking it in the anus the situation, as you can imagine, is a little bit more complex.
This is definitely not a bad thing ... let's understand each other but the fact is that, being a new experience she will have more fear, doubts and insecurities.
The most important thing to understand, which I have already told you about, is that when you want to get something in bed from a woman you should always make sure that it comes across as her fantasy and not something you are trying to force her to do.
In the first case everything is easier.
In the second you will always meet a lot of resistance whether it is anal sex, whether you want to have 3-way sex or whether you want to make her swallow your semen finished a blowjob if she doesn't like it.
Now since I have already put so much on your plate in this article, I have written an article specifically on the subject, which, as you can imagine, also has psychological implications, and it would get really long to cover it here.
Get her wet first in the head and then in the body.
Steve P.s. If you have read this article so far it is clear that anal sex is something that is interesting for you.
However, if your woman is afraid to start doing it you could help her win this fear with the use of a sex toy specifically for dilating the anus how I explain in this website.
For today it's all!
Steve