Today let's talk about how to lick her ass...
No...I'm not talking about all those practices from paying for her dinner, to giving her presents, to moving her chair at the table and, in general, all those kinds of activities that many men do in the hope that she will reciprocate by opening her legs.
When I talk about kissing her ass, I am telling you, exactly, in a literal way.
This means that, once you learn what you are about to discover, you will probably be the only guy or man with whom she will try or has tried this experience.
In fact, unlike in porn movies, this practice is not very common in real-life couples, and as you know, women love men who brings variety to their sex life instead of the classic boring boyfriend who gives her two strokes in the missionary position after dinner once they are back from their job.
So today we are going to discover a new skill that will take you to another planet compared to all the others men and in the speicific we will see:
- What is rimming
- Whether it should be done compulsorily or not
- Why tongue in the ass is exciting for her
- Tongue in the ass in the "sequence" to have anal sex
- 3 techniques to lick her asshole in practice
- 7 positions
- How to stick your tongue in her ass in total safety Well...
let's get started...
Rimming: the erotic practice of ass-licking
The rimming is that sexual practice of licking a woman's anus.
This, as you know, is an extremely sensitive area rich in nerve endings so, stimulating her ass with your tongue creates great arousal in most women.
That is, it is a kind of foreplay in anal sex where you start from massaging the whole butt area until you move to the perineum and end up in the actual anus hole area.
The technical explanation of this practice is really no more complicated than that so I'm not going to make it too long for you.
Now though....especially if you are a little grossed out you may have a question in mind and that is...
"But do I have to lick her anus?"
If this practice is something unthinkable for you, don't worry. It is not mandatory.
Having said that in general women like to have their anuses licked, and that means that if the woman you are having sex with is one of them you should lick her anus.
Now, however, as a result of what I have said, you may have two different kinds of resistance.
Let's go look at them...
"But I do not like the idea of putting my tongue in her anus"
Now I want to make you think about this aspect...
Have you ever (I'm sure you have) had sex with one of those women who is grossed out by the idea of swallowing your cum after a blowjob?
If the answer is yes...which is very likely...you have found yourself in two situations:
- You missed out on one of the best parts of a blowjob (i.e., when she sucks your glans just after you cum, when is most sensitive)
- AND you probably (if she doesn't even have the foresight to spit into a tissue) found yourself with your cum on you, which for most men is not essentially exhilarating
All this is to make you think about the fact that even if putting your tongue in her ass is not an idea you're crazy about, this blockage of yours might make the experience associated with anal sex less exciting for her.
Not putting your tongue in her ass is not as bad as when she doesn't perform a blowjob properly, but I wanted to make you think about the fact that what we like to do doesn't always make sex more pleasurable for the person we are having sex with.
And here we come to what might be your second resistance and that is...
"But me sticking my tongue in her butt sucks and so I risk losing my erection if I do that"
This, when you become a Sex God, is a fake problem.
In fact, on this site we are also going to learn how to get it hard on command so that you will never have such problems again.
Now for some men licking a woman's anus is something almost unacceptable because of homophobic fears. What I can tell you is simply this: as long as you have a pussy in your hands, don't worry about this crap and just think about giving her pleasure.
Why tongue in the ass is hot for her
Because men like to put the dick in the ass you know 🙂
but why does she like to get her ass licked?
Licking her asshole is exciting for her because:
- It's different from the usual and brings variety
- It's something considered taboo
- Down there she has a lot of nerve endings
- It relaxes her more to get to the actual anal sex
Tongue in the butt in the "sequence" to have anal sex
As you know when it comes to anal sex the first thing to do is to start with long foreplay and take it easy before you get to her asshole..... and...
if you were wondering....
NO!
You can't immediately put your tongue in her ass as if you were a dog in heat on the street.
She would just take you for a weirdo.
Instead you have to follow the usual procedure :
- Long foreplay
- Lick her pussy and masturbate her
This part of sex is mandatory wherever you "want to go."
It's useless for me to dwell more on this topic because I've covered it in so many articles and you know why but, as a general rule, the "dirtier" what you're about to go for, the more you have to take care of the foreplay so as to make her relaxed, wet and shut up her rational part.
So...let's review again, so we don't get it wrong the correct and complete sequence to get to anal sex:
- Long foreplay
- Licking her pussy
- Tongue in the butt
- Finger in the butt
- Two fingers in the butt (optional but recommended...but only after good one-finger warm-up)
- Dick in the ass
I stressed this point to you because, when I was out there looking for information on anal sex it seemed like rimming could be an alternative to foreplay and that's bullshit.
Whenever you want to have anal sex with her in fact you have to take care of getting her wet properly (stimulating her clitoris and G-spot after long foreplay) so as to shut up her rational part
Well... having made these clarifications let's go and see...
How to lick her asshole 3 techniques to lick her asshole in practice
Once you have gotten to licking her anus through proper foreplay go to stimulate her anus mainly in 3 ways:
- Alternate your breath and your tongue
Alternate the cold sensation of your breath with the warm sensation of your tongue.
This area is full of nerve endings and you can exploit them to make her have extremely pleasant sensations with the alternation of these two sensations.
This among other things is a great starting point for going to use only your tongue later on.
- Use your tongue:
You should make circular motions with your tongue to go and stimulate the nerve endings around this area but you can also tap with your tongue, massage her asshole with your tongue and stretch it enough so as to stick your tongue in her ass a little bit.
- Use your lips
Use your lips to tease her by going to work all over her ass and the part between her pussy and her asshole to build a sense of anticipation in her.
When you come to her asshole you can use your lips to suck.
You can also give her some little bites as you approach without hurting her.
In addition to this, as you know, in other articles I have explained how to stick a finger in her ass and move on to anal sex making things definitely more serious.
Starting by licking her ass and sticking your tongue in her ass can be a great way to get started and move on to actual anal sex.
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The best positions to lick her asshole and the most practical ones are:
- While she's lying on the bed
- By having her sit on your face
- 69(while you're enjoying yourself too 🙂 )
- By putting a pillow under her belly (so you can raise her up) while she's lying on her stomach
- OR with a pillow under her ass while she's lying on her back
- By having her lift her legs and bring them toward your head
- With her put at doggy style against the wall
Well....
Now let's go and see...
How to stick your tongue in her ass in total safety
As I always tell you I am not a doctor so, as usual what I am about to tell you is only informative in nature but, the go to person for anything concerning about your health is the referral specialist.
Having said that, as I realize that....just after taking your blood pressure...just begin with,
"Look dear doctor, I was thinking of sticking my tongue up my girlfriend's ass.
Could you give me some information on how to do it safely?"
Maybe with the old lady outside pawing to get in after you..
1.Make her wash her ass
A shower before venturing into this type of play with special attention to the affected area is a very good idea.
Her asshole is full of bacteria and so we want to go and eliminate as much of it as possible before we start the dancing.
2.Use a dental dam
Always in order not to pass bacteria from one orifice to another it would be a very good idea to use a dental dam.
If you don't know what it is I'll leave a picture below and you will surely understand that it is a tool that you might normally find in a dentist's office and therefore probably you don't have.
You can get around this problem in a homemade way by using a latex glove. Obviously it's just a middle ground between doing it "uncovered" and a dental dam but it still makes you safer from bacteria.
3.Don't play with ass and pussy at the same time
This is something that you should NEVER do.
Whatever you stick or put in contact with her ass (yourself and your extensions such as tongue, fingers and dick included 🙂 ) must be washed before you go back to playing with her pussy.
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"But I'm there having fun... I don't have time to think about these things"
Besides the fact that safeguarding her well-being is an imperative trust me that if she gets an infection and psychologically associates pain and discomfort with having sex with you you won't be having fun for long,so do things properly.
4.Wipe your mouth when you're done
Don't get me wrong...I don't want to set myself up as your mom saying,
"Wash your hands"
After you go to pee 🙂
But, for the reasons we've seen, buy one of the many antibacterial mouthwashers on the market and use it once you're done.
Well... in this article we have seen how to lick the anus in the correct way.
Okay. Now you know everything there is to know about how to lick her anus and stick your tongue in her ass.
But, as always, remember the 7 emotional levers otherwise, if you don't, you're going to castrate her experience click here if you want more informations
As usual put it into practice and have fun.
And get her wet first in the head and then down there.
Steve