If you have come to this article it means that you are looking for a way to get a girl to notice you.
It can be a girl that you don't know or a girl you already know, the good news is that you can do it in both cases.
But first you have to pay attention to one thing:
There are two reasons why a guy/man may wants a girl to notice him.
The first:
You unconsciously need her approval, to understand what I'm talking about read this article.
The second:
You want to get a girl.
If yours is the second case then keep reading,because I am about to reveal 3 practical ways to get a woman to notice you.
LOOK TO MAKE YOU STAND OUT
The right look can make a woman notice you?
Can it make you more beautiful?
Yes, because it is the first thing a woman notices.
We all have categories in our heads, "types of people," and we often define them by how they dress.
But is it essential to be well dressed?
No, however, it makes your life much easier, but,you already start with extra points.
"But Steve, what should I do?
Do I have to buy everything branded?"
Ha ha 🙂 , no no, if you like do it, it's fine, but don't do it to impress others.
What matters, especially to get noticed, is to stand out, but always with class, or at least in relevance to where you are.
If, for example, you are in a chic club, you would certainly be noticed if you dressed like a punk, but not in a good way!!!
if you were dressed in line with the club at the same party,you would be dressed well,but you wouldn't stand out.
If, on the other hand, you always dressed well, but with clothes that are a little bit different from the others, always with style, you would be immediately noticed, positively noticed!!!
The same thing works the other way round, If I were you,I would not go to a rave party in a tuxedo!
Not sure where to start to dress better?
Here are some tips:
Start by going around the stores without being in a hurry to buy like many men do.
Take a walk around, try things on, and start thinking about your new look.
- Buy men's fashion magazines, go around the websites that talk about it, get inspiration.
- Start looking around and notice the best-dressed guys: what are they wearing?
- Start noticing what garments really fit you and which ones don't.
- Throw away things that you no longer need,throw away things that ruin your style.
GET TO KNOW MANY PEOPLE
Humans are social animals, consequently they tend to stay in group and get to know each other.
In prehistory, it was very important to be part of a tribe, because with all the dangers around, being without a tribe could have meant death.
As a result, we are inclined to assign a high value to people who know a lot of people.
To take advantage of this instinct of ours, one thing you can do is to socialize with many people, even if only by exchanging a few words.
In this way, the girl whose attention you want to attract will ask,
"But who is him that knows everyone?!" 😉
You can do this both in contexts where you go often (school, college, gym, etc.) and in contexts where you arrive for the first time (a new locale for example).
Let's look at some more specific examples for different situations.
GYM
To win over a girl at the gym a great thing you can do is simply start by greeting everyone, even if you don't know them, as a courtesy gesture.
Then when you get a chance talk to as many people as you can, in that way you will meet a lot of new people and also make new friends....and of course she will notice you.
AT SCHOOL AND UNIVERSITY
Be sociable with everyone.
In college, every time someone sits next to you,talk by talking I mean that you can speak about anything, how boring class is, how difficult the exam is, etc. etc.
If you feel that you are shy this by the way will be a great exercise to overcome your shyness.
If you find yourself in this situation,I create an E-Book with practical exercises to overcome your shyness, becoming self confident in 60 days, you can find it here.
PARTY OR FESTIVAL
How to get noticed at a party or in a new enviroment?
In both cases the method is the same.
For example, at a nightclub (bar or disco), even if it's your first time there, you can give the impression that you know everyone ... by talking to everyone. 🙂
With men:
You might ask for sports scores, or make a comment about some woman who passes by, or ask about the club.
With women:
You could always ask for information, or opinions about the club,the music,yours outfits.
Of course it may not be easy at first, it takes some practice, but with practice you will improve your social skills and succeed.
If you think your shyness might be a problem, I suggest you look at this.
A girl who sees you will think that you know everyone and she will notice you ...
or maybe she will realize that instead you did not previously know all the people you are talking to, and then she will think you are a person of high social skills, a strong attractive quality.
In either case, you have made yourself positively noticed by girls and have already begun to impress them.
TAKE ADVANTAGE OF PRE-SELECTION
How to get a girl to notice you with preselection?
As I explained in the article on preselection, showing that you are surrounded by many women in life is very powerful and attractive.
This can be done either in a context where you often go,such as college,or in new context, such as a new club.
In college:
You can focus on getting to know a lot of women and making friends with them, so others will notice you.
In a club:
If you are with girls, before you enter, take two of them under your arms and make your entrance.
Instantly and without doing anything else you will have already acquired many points in the eyes of all the women who see you.
To recap, ways to get a girl (or girls in general) to notice you are:
- Look
- Get to know lots of people
- Preselection
You can use them all together, a couple, or just one: the choice is yours.
That's all for today!
Steve