HOW TO MEET NEW PEOPLE: 4 WAYS TO SOCIALIZE AND MEET PEOPLE
Whether you want to meet new people for the pleasure of it,or you also want to have, as a result, more opportunities to meet women, this article will be very useful for you.
Yes, because getting in touch with more people definitely brings value to your life.
We are social animals and we are meant to be with other people.
On the other hand getting to know people also gives you a chance to get to know more women and approach them with the easiest and most used approach: the hot approach.
Every person has his or her own social circle, a group of people, friends and acquaintances, that he or she knows, and among them,there are surely women.
TWO STEPS To achieve your goal you will need to follow two simple steps:
1. Increase your chances of meeting new people
You can be the nicest person in the universe, but if you isolate yourself, if you just keep to yourself what are we talking about here without exposing yourself it will just be a waste of time and we don't want that okay? 🙂
You can then increase your social occasions with the ways described in this article.
2. Increase your social skills
What does that mean?
Simple: there are actions, ways of doing,and even thinking, that bring more results with people.
In other words, by adopting certain behaviors, starting with 5 new people,you can get to know 5 more, or 10 or 20, while if you don't implement these behaviors from 5 new people...you don't get to know any more.
This will be discussed specifically in the next article.
4 WAYS TO MEET NEW PEOPLE
Well, let's go now and see in practice what to do...
1. ORGANIZE SOCIAL MOMENTS...
...with people you already know.
You already know people right? Well, why not start with them?
That's right, think about it: when you get in touch with someone actually, potentially, you have the opportunity to get in touch with all the other people they know.
What does it take?
Simply a social moment, a time for different people to come together.
You do it simply like this:
- Create an event
- Invite the people you know
- Tell them to invite whoever they want
Why always be the one attending these events, and not the one organizing these events?
I'll tell you more, by organizing yourself,you will be the one who is more in the center of attention, known by everyone, who will have an easier time making connections, does that sound like little? 😉
Do you want me to say even more?
When you organize you are in a positive leadership position because you bring value into other people's lives, you train this ability of yours, plus you already look attractive in the eyes of the women present.
What?!? You want even more?! Eh no, that's enough, I think you have realized the myriad benefits 🙂 !
Let's come to practice...
To do this, to create these social moments, you need motivation.
It can be anything, the possibilities are endless, ask yourself,
"What do people like to do?"
"What is one particular thing you can do in a group, as a group?".
I'll give you some examples:
- Playing some sport ("super beach volleyball tournament on Sunday?" 🙂 )
- Trying something particular ( rafting, go karting, etc.)
- Seeing a sporting event
- Eating at a specific place ("that crazy little restaurant where they do X dish so well")
- Skiing
- Walking in the mountains
- Going to a particular venue
- Seeing a concert
- Going to visit a place city
etc. etc
Every place has its possibilities around, you could look on the internet to get ideas, search especially on sites that talking about entertainment near you, in your areas.
Then talk to your friends, see what attracts them and start organizing.
2. COURSES / ACTIVITIES
There are several classes in every city and town, and these are great ways to connect with strangers in a quiet environment.
Not only that, if you know people in these environments you will already have something in common that you can use for the next outings.
The are courses of all kinds, I'll give you some examples here as well:
- Photography
- Yoga
- Languages
- Music
- Dancing (Latin American first!)
- Cultural evenings
Here too the advice is to look for sites on the Internet that deal with these kinds of activities in your city.
3. GYM
The gym is a popular place to meet new people.
Why?
First because a lot of people go there, and second because it is really easy to exchange a few words.
How to do it?
You just walk up to someone who is doing an exercise and ask, for example,when they finish using it, or comment on how hard they work out, or how long it takes, in short any excuse is good.
In addition now all gyms have 1,000 classes, from fit boxing to Pilates, from aerobics to zumba, from step to spinning, in short, there is something for everyone, and so you still expand your social possibilities.
And ... yes, I'll add one more thing: staying fit never hurt anyone 🙂 , so look for the nearest gym, sign up, and most importantly, go and don't procrastinate! 🙂
4. ASSOCIATIONS AND GROUPS
You may not know this, but there are also plenty of associations of all kinds.
Compared to classes, it is usually even easier in associations to make lasting connections.
Here are some examples:
- General cultural associations
- Cultural associations concerning music or art
- Volunteer associations
- Associations of enthusiasts of various things (cycling, photography, fishing, etc. etc.)
NOW IT'S YOUR TURN
Now that you've read these tips...
what can you do?
Choose one of these ways and put it into action.
No, not tomorrow.
No, not even the day after tomorrow, but now.
Well, we have seen the ways to meet people, in the next article we will see in practice how to behave in these social situations to make the most of them.
See you next!
Your friend Steve 🙂