It may happen that after meeting a woman and talking for a while we exchange numbers ... but when we then call her ... she doesn't answer!
Maybe she is busy at the time of the call, and of course in that case you will have to wait to try again later, but if even after,the second call she does not answer again it means that most likely we did something wrong.
Yes, and it is a real shame when this happens because you have impressed a woman, you have attracted her, you have exchanged numbers... and after all this she does not answer the phone!!!
What could have happened?
There are two main reasons why a woman doesn't answer the phone to us, I'm talking about reasons that depend on us, if on the other hand for example she lost her cell phone... there we can't do anything about it 🙂
The first reason is not having created enough attraction, in fact in that case she has no reason to answer: she is not attracted enough.
In this case the mistake was to have gone too soon to the rapport phase, that is, not having created enough attraction to move on to the rapport phase.
As we explain in other articles the attraction phase is the time when you precisely create attraction in a woman, the rapport phase, which follows, is the phase when instead you get to know her more deeply and get to know yourself, all of this in fact,creates connection.
But in order to make rapport there must be sufficient attraction, otherwise she will not answer the phone.
How to figure these things out?
How to tell when she is sufficiently attracted?
Read this article regarding figuring out if she likes you and this other article regarding figuring out when to move to the rapport phase.
Another reason, which is often the most "bastard", is the lack of rapport, that is, not having created enough rapport.
The rapport! Oh the rapport! How important and often forgotten!
For those who have not read about the phases of seduction, I am referring to the phases in which, after creating attraction in a woman, we go on to,get to know her thus creating a deep connection.
The tendency of those who begin to improve their seductive skills is to be,so much focused on the attraction phase,that they forget about the rapport phase ... and I can understand that at first it can piss you off, because I've been there myself.
You may be think:
"But how, she was attracted! She gave me many signs of interest! Why doesn't she answer my calls?"
The answer is: because attraction decreases quickly if it is not supported by rapport.
If you create only attraction, the next day you'll just be a guy that knows how to act with girls.
If, on the other hand, you create both,attraction and rapport,you become someone she really and deeply likes, and she will definitely respond to you.
In other words: attraction is for her to like you, to identify you as a possible (sexual) partner, whereas rapport is for her to identify you as someone she looks forward to dating.
So remember: attraction is necessary, but attraction without rapport will inevitably lead you to calling her without receiving an answer.
(On the other hand be careful because rapport without attraction takes you right into the friendship zone)
Last thing: you can make a perfect attraction,a perfect rapport, flirt, talk to a girl properly, play it cool but ...
she still may not respond!
The reasons can be many, we don't know what's going on in a person's life: maybe her canary died, maybe she's back with her ex, maybe she met someone else, or maybe she was already engaged and didn't tell you anything but then regretted giving you her number and she's not responding.
You can't control everything that happens, but you can do your best.
Ok guys,that's all for today.
Steve