Many people ask me what to talk about with a girl, what topics to talk about with a woman.
There are those who are afraid of talking about the wrong topics, those who are afraid of running out of topics,and those who think that there are topics that attract and topics that do not attract.
What is the truth?
Let's find out together in this article where we will see: What NOT to talk about with a girl.
What topics to talk about?
What questions to ask How to never run out of something to say are there some topics that are more seductive than others?
Specific cases in which you may find yourself.
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And now, on to the article.
WHAT NOT TO TALK ABOUT WITH A GIRL
Before we look at useful topics for a conversation, let's look at the things you should stay away from, divided into two groups.
SPECIFIC TOPICS TO AVOID
First of all, there are topics that are best avoided.
1. FOOTBALL No, your favorite team's latest goal probably doesn't interest her, unless she's a fan, but that's another matter.
2. POLITICS First, it's something logical and cumbersome that doesn't let emotions flow, and second until you know how she feels about it, politics is a minefield. Finally, I ask you...do you really want to spend the first moments you talk to a woman talking about politic!!! π
3. MOTORS Are you all excited because the latest model of the car of your dreams came out? π That's fine, but there's no reason to discuss about it while talking to a woman.
4. SEXUAL ORIENTATION Whether homosexuality is a problem for you or whether homosexuality is okay for you, in either case avoid the discussion, you never know how a person may feel about it.
TYPES OF TOPICS TO AVOID IN GENERAL
First we went into specifics, now let's see what kinds of talks are best avoided...
1. TECHNICAL TOPICS
It sounds trivial, but some men do it. If you're an expert on how to write a program to analyze statistical data on the birth rate of bees in Indochina, that's fine, but there's no point in talking about it for an hour; you'd risk to bore. No, not the bees, the girl you are talking to ;)
2. TOO LOGICAL ARGUMENTS
We just saw this when we were talking about politics: too logical and cumbersome arguments break the flow of emotions.
3. VOLGARITY
I know, it's trite, but I've seen it happen before so I'd better repeat it: avoid vulgar topics!
18 CONVERSATION TOPICS
Before we look at the conversation topics you can cover with a girl, I'd like to make one thing crystal clear: these are cues, not dogma!
You should not take these topics as hard-and-fast rules; on the contrary, when you talk to people, conversations often follow their own fluidity that is difficult to categorize into "topics."
Consequently, if the conversation with a girl is going well, don't fixate on thinking that you have to talk about the following topics, that's absolutely not the case!
How then to use the topics we are about to talk about? Use them as a handhold, when you don't know what to talk about, when the conversation falls down here you can use them to keep talking.
Of course,they can also be useful cues for getting to know each other better, but remember that you don't have to talk about these things, use them only when they are needed.
Now let's look at them, dividing them into four categories.
TOPICS TO KNOW HER BETTER
These interesting topics and talks allow you to get to know important things about her and to get to know her in turn, especially when you go out with her and have a chance to talk a lot, or at least more than during a simple approach.
1. WORK AND CAREER
"What do you do for a living?" is a frequently asked question; it lets us know how a person spends 8 hours a day 5 days a week. π
After her answer, if you understand that she likes what she does, ask her what she likes about her job.
If, on the other hand, she says she does not like it, ask her what she would like to do. When you talk about yourself, in addition to saying what you do now, if you plan to do something else, have a career, or have particular work goals, sharing them with her is a good idea.
2. HOBBIES, PASSIONS, AND WHAT SHE LIKES TO DO TO PASS THE TIME
Not everyone has a job they enjoy, but unlike work a hobby is a free choice and talking to her can liven up a conversation. In addition to asking her if she has hobbies, ask her in general how she likes to spend her free time.
For example, she may like to hike in the mountains, but for one reason or another she doesn't consider it a hobby, so asking her what she likes to do is a broader question than "What hobbies do you have?" and one that can therefore take the conversation further.
As for you,I suggest you think about what you like to do and come up with activities to do in your free time that are interesting to you and maybe to others as well (so no now glued to TV or video games ok?! π )
3. FUTURE PLANS AND GOALS
What do you have in mind for the future? What goals do you have? These are important topics and can get pretty emotional too.
4. INTERESTING STORIES AND EXPERIENCES
Stories allow you to learn about particular and personal aspects of a girl's experience, and of course this also works in reverse: they allow you to get to know her.
The first thing to do is to think of interesting experiences you have had in your life, they can be for example: peculiar absurd scary adventurous exciting Having them already in your head will allow you to have them ready when you need them.
Then, when you are in front of a girl, a question you can ask her is something like, "Okay, let's play a game, what is the most particular/absurd/scary/exciting/strongest experience you've had in your life?" She will tell it, and so then you can latch onto the conversation to tell yours.
5. TRAVEL
Connected to the talk about experiences--travels are usually very good experiences. From the trips a girl takes you can tell what kind of adventures she likes, and you can tell yours accordingly.
TOPICS TO KNOW HER TASTES
Everyone has tastes about certain topics; you can get to know her by talking about them.
6. MUSIC.
One thing you can do is to talk about music, hoping she won't tell you she likes the latest commercial ditties and start telling you about how much the current pop star (who will disappear in 2 months) follows. π At your own risk :-).
7. FILMS AND TV SERIES
Have you seen any good movies lately? What is your favorite TV series?
8. BOOKS
She doesn't necessarily read, but you should, I'll explain why.
9. FOOD
Can she cooks? What is her favorite dish? And her favorite restaurant?
HOW DOES SHE THINKS ABOUT THE TOPIC X
Here are topics on which people can have interesting opinions.
Here always be careful who you are talking to and never go into topics that can create conflict if you don't yet know enough about the girl you are talking to.
10. MAN-WOMAN RELATIONSHIPS
Always a cause for debate.
11. TOPICS OF THE MOMENT
Usually every period has topics that everyone is talking about, pushed by the media. If they are not dangerous topics to talk about, you can bring it up to see how she thinks.
BIZARROUS TOPICS
There are some things you can ask, some questions you can ask, that are out of the ordinary and for that reason very useful.
They are bizarre topics that you can bring up with questions, they are curious and allow you to differentiate yourself of other men who always talk about the same old things.
If you have a fear that they are strange things, you can always introduce the question with a "Let's play a game" or "Ready for a crazy question?" or even a "I'm going to ask you a very peculiar question!"
This will already put her in the frame of mind that answering it is almost a game.
Note: This technique is also very good if you don't know what to say to a woman on the phone or via text.
12. FIRST MEMORY
Ask her, "What is the first memory you have as a child?"
13. JOURNEY IN TIME
Ask her, "If you could live in a historical era, which one would you choose?"
14. MOST Proudest/LAST PROUDEST
Ask her, "What is the thing in your life that you are most proud of having done? Or are you happiest to have done? And conversely-what is the thing you are least happy about, or most embarrassed about?"
15. WINNING THE LOTTERY
Ask her, "What would you do if you won the lottery?"
16. FAVORITE GAME
Ask her, "What was your favorite game as a child?"
17. WHAT OTHERS DON'T UNDERSTAND
Ask her, "What is the aspect of you that you think others don't understand well?"
18. FAVORITES AND BADNESSES
Ask her, "What are your 3 greatest strengths, and 3 greatest weaknesses?"
And...
That's all for today
See you in the next article!
ο»ΏSteve