Here are finally some approach phrases.
I often hear myself asking,
"Steve, what are the best phrases for approaching a girl?"
The question is not so simple, because there are no absolute best phrases, but best phrases for you, as we will have a way to see.
What I advise you to do,is to read the phrases first and then go and read the article on the two most important factors in the approach phrase, so that you have a good understanding of how to choose phrases.
Ready to get started?
PURE INDIRECT APPROACH PHRASES
With this approach we do not directly make our intentions clear, especially we do not make them clear verbally. In the pure indirect approach you can use, for example,
- "Hi, can you point me in the direction to place X?"
- "Hi, can you recommend a good place to go?"
In short, simple information.
PHRASES OF INDIRECT APPROACH
In the indirect approach we do not say our intentions openly, but they are often understood.
That is why the line between indirect and pure indirect is not so well defined, but to tell the truth it is not even that important 🙂 .
- "Hi, do they make good cocktails in this bar?"
- "Hi, what do they make good in here?"
- "Hi, what do you think about this t-shirt/shirt/tie etc. etc. looks like on me?"
- "Hi, in your opinion dressed like this do I look elegant or do I look gay?" 🙂
- "Hi, would you kindly tell me what colors are going this year that I don't understand anything about fashion?"
- "Hi, there's a friend of mine who always says that women like men with X and Y characteristics, I don't think it's true for all of them, what do you think?"
The rule is: the more sincere your request the better.
SEMIDIRECT APPROACH PHRASES
With these phrases you can tell immediately that we are trying, even if we don't say it verbally.
It's a huge category, and it includes many funny phrases that go great in many situations but especially in nightclubs because they make people laugh.
Let's start,
"Hi, you believe in gender equality don't you?" (she will definitely answer yes)
"Well, then you try it with me for once" 🙂
"Hi, can you cook/iron/ wash the car/ do housework?" 🙂
"Hi, do you consider yourself an independent woman? " (she will definitely answer yes) "Well, then here's the plan: you work and bring home the bacon while I sit on the couch all day watching TV, what do you say?"🙂
"Wow, you have a beautiful shirt/shirt/dress/jeans, would it look good on me in your opinion?" 🙂
"Hi, you like to receive sincere compliments right? Well, so do I, you start it come on!" 🙂
"Hi, I'll warn you right now that I don't want to do anything with you, I don't want to ruin the friendship" 🙂
"Hi, can you buy me a drink?" 🙂
To do to very beautiful girls: "Hi, can I stay here with you 2 minutes so I feel watched a little bit too? " 🙂
DIRECT APPROACH PHRASES
This is the type of approach that,what you say matters less absolutely, what matters is the relationship you have with the sentence you say, so I recommend being especially sincere about what you think of a woman.
For example, if you think she is gorgeous,
don't say
"You are beautiful"
but
"You are gorgeous."
You can also be more specific, for example,
"You know, that dress particularly enhances your beauty."
Do not copy these last two sentences if it is not exactly what you think, instead ask yourself,
"What do I think of her?"
and your brain will answer.
All you have to do is say what you really think.
See you next
Your friend Steve