After you've met a woman, created attraction and some rapport, it's time to ask her for a date.
Some men shy away from such a thing,I understand them because I was like them too, but it's actually nothing complicated, you just need to follow some simple points.
First though, one very important thing!
I have to tell you the truth, you can be great at asking her out but, if you make the mistakes that 90% of men make,and in that case you will fail anyway.
But luckily I bring gifts like Santa Claus 🙂,so I have prepared a gift for you: the Free Seduction Report: the 37 most common mistakes, you can get it by clicking here.
Well, are we ready to go?
So here it is...
4 STEPS TO ASK HER OUT.
DON'T THINK OF IT,AS A DATE
I use the term "date" only because it is in common usage, but honestly it makes me very 1950s or romantic movies.
Beware because it is not trivial: the way you view something affects "how it makes you feel" about that thing.
What to do in practice?
Look a date simply as ... an outing, something very quiet, I assure you that you will feel much looser and she will be looser as a result.
ATTRACTION AND RAPPORT SHOULD BE DONE FIRST
Some people ask a woman out before there is attraction.
But,forgive me..I ask you...
why would a woman go out with you if she has no attraction to you?
Excuse me? Do you want to go on a friend date?
Hmmm, let me think... how can I explain this as politely as possible?
Let's see...
Okay: take your right hand and bring it to the junction of your legs.
Do you feel something small (okay big 🙂 ? Well, that's your penis, first of all get acquainted with it and secondly if you are going to use it before the new millennium it's time to start not being ashamed of your sexual desires and needs anymore ok?
That's right, the reason why some men want to go on a "friend date" is because they are afraid to show interest, as if there is anything wrong with getting to know a woman better and wanting to do some healthy up and down! Crazy.
Get this through your head: the "friend dates" you do with your friends or girlfriends (real friends, not girls you're actually interested in).
The dates, the effective outings are the ones where you have already created interest, attraction beforehand.
You certainly don't have to make her fall in love :-), just some simple interest in you is enough.
Not only that, you must have also created rapport, that is, that basic knowledge necessary for seduction.
NO PRESSURE WHEN YOU ASK HER FOR A DATE
She should not feel pressure of any kind, what does that mean?
First of all she may feel pressure if, as you ask her out on the date, she realizes that you are overly attached to your goals that you want to have with her, if you have a scarcity mentality and she is your only salvation.
If you communicate this she will feel enormous pressure and will most likely say no, that she does not want to date you, often making up an excuse.
Secondly she may feel pressure if you choose an exaggerated date in which perhaps you are forced to be together for a long time.
So no restaurants or anything like that, better to prefer:
- A coffee together
- Drinking something in the evening
- An aperitif
- Taking a walk to eat (or an ice cream).
There will be time for the 300 dollars romantic dates at the restaurant...
When it's 6 months that you're together and you didn't have sex you can play this tactic
(haha just kidding 🙂 )
GIVE SECURITY
The moment you ask her out, or the moment you ask her number, already tell her what you're going to do, where you want to bring her for the date.
This is really important for the following reasons:
1. She will already know what you are going to do and this gives her confidence.
Maybe she knows you very little so these information can be helpful.
2. You give a rational justification for asking her number
If you already say what you are going to do,the phone number just seems like a way to organize something together,and by doing so,you don't even put pressure on the number request 😉
And now: everyone should ask at least to 3 beautiful girls to hang out !
Have Fun!
Steve