Let's get started:
1. Flirt
Start flirting right away, don't wait for her to start. The man must be the one who directs the games. With a woman you can be two things: friend or lover (excluding relatives and colleagues of course). If you don't start creating attraction by means of a winking atmosphere you will end up with a nice "we are too friendly."
2. Create tension
Slowly, generate that climate of subtle excitement. Look into her eyes for longer, smile in a certain way, etc. etc. When you have a friendship with a woman surely there is no tension between you right? That's why if you don't want to end up in the friendshipzone anymore the tension has to be created.
3. Don't treat her as if she is superior to you
Women do NOT want to be put on a pedestal. They want a man who can lead them (but not subdue them of course). You must be assertive, not macho, but at the same time avoid acting like most men, avoid treating women that superior beings!
4. Don't treat her as if she has to "give you something"
-the relationship must be a mutual exchange of value. Whether you are talking about just sex or creating an actual relationship.
It is very common to say, "She gave it to me!" this implies that she gives a few things to you and not vice versa, as if you have to do some special trick to get a few things. Seduction is about giving and receiving value, not just receiving.
5. Be nice only if she deserves it
When two people are mutually nice to each other then it is fine, but it often happens that men in order to win a woman overdo the cuteness.
If she misbehaves do not run after her, if she is not nice to you why should you be nice to her!
Don't let her put you down! (Side note: too much undeserved niceness is also one of the main reasons why a woman leaves a man, resulting in him running after her afterwards to win her back!!!)
6. Dose the gallantry
Gallantry is perfectly fine only AFTER she has begun to see you as a possible partner, before it is very dangerous because you seem to make gallant gestures to beg for her approval. Do you know how many men do this? Do you know how many men try to seduce her by being "nice." So many so many! If you really want to make gallant gestures, make them together with a certain amount of confidence so that she will sense the contrast between your tender side and your assertive side.
7. Don't give gifts until the spark has been ignited
Gifts and cuteness are perfectly fine AFTER she has begun to see you as a possible partner, otherwise you are just one of dozens of people who give her gifts and are supergentle just because they think they are "buying" her feelings.
Just think that there are even women who keep "friends" just because they know that these people occasionally give them gifts to try to win them over.
8. Be firm!
Each of us has what I call masculine energy inside of us, we just need to bring it out. I repeat: be assertive but not macho, that is, confident but with full respect for her.
9. Don't sell yourself for little
Don't be willing to do anything to win her over. Keep your value high in her eyes.
10. Create an image of abundance
Act as someone who has options when it comes to women, as someone who can choose who to be with.
Don't make her feel like the only option for you. Understand: creating an image of abundance is not a pretense, it is also and above all a way of conditioning yourself to create abundance in your life when it comes to women.
11. Don't agree with everything she says
Do you have your own ideas? Make them count! This doesn't mean arguing, it just means not trying to get into her good graces by responding to everything, "Yes, you're right." Do you think a woman doesn't notice if you pretend to be interested and agree with her just to win her over! She definitely notices and immediately loses attraction.
12. Don't necessarily look for commonalities I
t's okay to have things in common, but not the obsessive looking for them, if you don't like something say so!
13. Kiss her as soon as possible
The longer you wait to kiss her the more she will think you don't have the balls to do it and put you in the friend zone.
There are men who wait months to give the first kiss: nothing could be more wrong!
14. Don't make excuses for how you look If she points out certain things about you that she doesn't like, don't start with the usual hangdog excuses.
If you are indeed in error apologize, but do it with dignity-she will surely appreciate it.
15. Don't let her tell you about the guys she likes If you do, you become her confessor,
thus her friend. If she tries to bring it up cut it off immediately. I repeat: you are not her confessor; if she talks to you for hours about the boys she likes, that's a red flag!
16. Commit to her but don't show it too much
You don't have to be on point all the time when she's around, you don't have to be perfect. Women have the radar for this kind of thing, they have an uncommon intuition.
If you always try to be "more" to her, she is sure to feel it.
17. Lovingly tease A little healthy teasing, done gracefully, makes both of you laugh and shows that you don't see her as superior to you.
Be careful, though: don't overdo it; you both need to have fun.
18. Make physical contact
Start by making very light, fleeting contact, then more and more until you inevitably get to kissing. Physical contact should be increasing so that you arrive at the kiss naturally.
19. Don't be ashamed of your purpose You are a man, you like a woman.
Your purpose is, among other things, to get her into bed. Be proud of your needs; they are healthy and natural.
20. Don't be too nice guy Be nice just the right amount,
don't think that being a nice guy will help to win a woman. Being too nice is one of the basic mistakes with women.
See you next
Steve