How to flirt with a woman?
How to flirt with a girl in practice?
Here we are at the detailed explanation of the first item on the list regarding ways to stop ending up in the
"friend zone" and win a woman
Before we understand how to flirt, however, we need to fully understand what flirting means.
WHAT DOES "FLIRTING" MEAN?
What is the meaning of this term?
What is the definition of flirting?
Flirting refers to a form of human interaction,a whole series of behaviours that two people have with each other.
Flirting means creating a game in which we tease, 'court' each other, often, but not necessarily, without openly saying that there is interest.
In flirting there is a continuous implicit (not spoken in words) hint that the relationship between you and the girl you are flirting with may become one that starts with mutual attraction and may continue towards sex.
In other words, when you flirt with the girl you like, you are hinting that you are interested in something more and so you are teasing the woman in front of you to make her also get into this 'seduction game' and start flirting in turn.
If she does this, it can be a signal to see if there is interest on her part.
This is done by means of light and playful communication, in which body language plays a very important part.
This creates attraction,we generate the woman's interest in us.
We 'attract' her in the true sense of the word.
In fact,flirting it has to be done at a very precise moment of seduction,in the attraction phase, which is what happens immediately after approaching a girl.
During the attraction phase she will judge us on our behaviour to determine whether we are a possible partner, we on the other hand will have to judge her!
HOW TO BEHAVE IN GENERAL IN THE FLIRT
Different people behave in different ways, but at the same time there are some ways of doing things that are more effective than others.
Now we will look at some general tips, then we will look at 5 specific seduction techniques that you can use to win a woman over
1. SENDING MIXED SIGNALS
Try first to act interested in her, and a second later pretend you're not interested.
I don't know if any woman has ever done this to you, but this technique has crazy power.
The moment she thinks she has succeeded (that she has seduced you) it will be time to change her manner and be an detached person: this will literally drive her crazy.
Think about it for a second:
have you ever had a woman do that to you?
Have you ever had a woman first seem interested, then no, then yes again, and then no again, in a game that blew your mind? 🙂
Here, it's the exact same thing!
If you have already experienced this for yourself, you have already heard how powerful this technique can be.
Note that it is a game, not a way to manipulate, it is a simple game to flirt with that is very useful for you to create attraction.
You can send mixed signals in a variety of ways, either with body language or phrases (with jokes you can make, live or even in chat). To understand how to use mixed signals in practice take a look at the Ebook Instant Attraction, where I explain this fantastic technique in practice.
2. ATTITUDE OF SOMEONE WHO ALREADY KNOWS HOW IT WILL TURN OUT
Have you ever been with a woman who is resistant but so sure she's into it?
It often happens with ex-girlfriends.
did it ever occur to you that you liked your ex girlfriend again?
Maybe she was being difficult at first but you knew perfectly well that she would like you again?
But then if confidence, and especially this kind of confidence, increases your chance of conquest, why not use the same kind of attitude?
What to do in practice?
Everyone does it differently so you have to figure out what your attitude is, your attitude of someone who already knows how it will turn out.
Figure it out and use it!!! 😉
3. Plays on the unspoken
The soul of flirting lies in the fact that you both know something is happening but neither of you says it openly.
You can even allow yourself to make veiled allusions; she will surely understand them.
4. TREAT HER BY GAME AS IF SHE WAS YOUR LITTLE SISTER
How would you treat a younger sister who throws a tantrum?
With a big smile and maybe tease her a little.
And if I told you that such an attitude creates attraction, wouldn't you use it?
Let me tell you clearly:
this way of behaving, if done with class, drives her crazy!
Let me be clear: I don't mean to treat her seriously from the top down by making her feel inferior, just poke her a little 🙂 , and if you have fun doing it it becomes something very nice and funny, definitely this is one of my favorite seduction techniques.
5. PLAY A COUPLE
Don't like the idea of a little sister?
There is an alternative: playing at being a couple. You can try to create a kind of role-playing game in which you have been together for years.
To flirt, ask her fun things like, "What are you making me for dinner?" , tell her flirting phrases such as, "No sex tonight love I have a headache," call her "Honey."
This is a way of joking and creating attraction and at the same time creating complicity. Also, it allows you in a second to get out of the usual screens of conversations that a man usually establishes when talking to a girl.
Take care man
Steve