Before to start let's understand this: what does it mean to 'be desired' by a woman?
What happens inside a girl's mind when she desires us, inside seduction?
At that moment she wants you, but somehow feels that you are not yet completely hers.
In a way, desire in seduction is similar to hunger in nutrition 🙂 .
You have emptiness in your belly, you need to eat, and your body makes you feel a strong urge towards something that can satisfy your need.
At that point, if it's food you get mouth watering, if it's women you even start drooling hahaha 🙂 .
Joking aside, desire plays a key role in flirting, desire is a factor that generates a lot of attraction.
Warning: the techniques I am about to show you are absolutely worthless if you make the most common mistakes men make with women in seduction.
Just think that 90% of men make these mistakes, and it is essential to get rid of them before even thinking about impressing a woman.
Luckily, your friend Steve, who loves you very much 🙂 has created the Free Report Seduction: the 37 most common mistakes, you can get it by clicking here.
Well, are we ready to go and find out how to be desired?
HOW TO BE DESIRED FROM BY A WOMAN
1.Showing yourself off (not as most of men do)
I know what you're thinking, you're saying to yourself
"OK, thank you very much, I know that showing off increases the desire in the other person".
Sure, but one thing it's to know that, another it's to show off in the right way, because
so many people do it in the wrong way.
What are the important things to keep in mind to understand how to make yourself desired?
- Don't make it an ego thing
Many people showing off, to feel they are the strongest in the seduction game.
Maybe,at first, she was showing off herself, and then,these men to regain some lost pride,they try to be cooler by disappearing...
This is very wrong, don't be a baby.
- Don't overdo it (watch out for achievability!)
One trap of showing off is the obtainability,so the fact that,she thinks that you are not interested in her,and that therefore there cannot be a happy ending, because she may thinks that she can't get you.
Yes it is true, in love the one who runs away wins, in the sense that being elusive increases desire but... only if there is obtainability.
In practice we only strive to achieve what we think we can get, all it takes is a chance and commitment can be triggered, which in seduction translates into 'chasing' another person.
This is why it is true that you are attracted to beautiful women you can see in tv for exemple, but you don't go out of your way to pick them up, while instead,with a girl that you know you are committed, because there is obtainability, that is, the possibility of success.
So be careful not to overdo it, if you overdo it,you risk that she will lose attraction.
- Don't overdo it (beware that she may misunderstand!)
Another very common trap of showing off in order to make yourself wanted,is the risk of be perceived as the one who is afraid!
Yes, if you exaggerate in fact,there is a risk that she will think
"He likes me, but he's afraid, he's shy, so he's actually not so cool as he was trying to be, he's running away!"
This obviously doesn't increase desire, it kills it, and you can't imagine how many men,consciously think they're showing off, but actually underneath they just have fear, shyness, fear of eventually being rejected, fear of making a bad impression.
It's basically a form of self-sabotage, you're bullshitting yourself, so be very careful, the mechanism is really devious.
2. PRESELECTION
The preselction is a very powerful mechanism, I will explain it to you by pointing out something that has probably already happened to you.
When I wasn't good with women, it happened,that during the periods when I didn't have a girlfriend (which was practically always 🙂 )... no one paid any attention to me.
Those very rare times when I had a girlfriend, or, I was dating a girl but actually often failed to have sex with her (yes I know, it's laughable 🙂 )...during those periods there was some other girls
interested in me.
This mechanism is pre-selection.
In practice a woman has many more chances than a man to have sex, or at least if she wants to, she can have a lot of sex with different people much more easily than us.
However, she tends to care a little, she rather wants a real man by her side.
She will therefore have to select various men without going with everyone :-), and so at first she pays more attention to men who already have some women around them, or are engaged, etc. etc.
Will she only go with these men? Certainly not!!! 🙂 But at the same time these men will have a few more points than others.
You don't necessarily have to have a girlfriend to be perceived as pre-selected, it is often enough for you to show masculine energy to make the woman in front of you realise and think something like:
'Damn, this man definitely has other women hanging around him'.
But... if you want to make yourself wanted even more, when you are around the woman you want to seduce, you can show yourself with other women near you as explained in the article on getting noticed.
They might even be your friends, but if they give you a lot of attentions she might get suspicious,and think that you can eventually get them or one of them,so,pre-selected.
This would increase a lot her desire and attraction towards you.
If you want to understand more about pre-selection read this article where I talk about it in more detail.
3. Mixed signals
Mixed signals are the technique whereby first you show interest, then no, then yes again, and then no.
This creates very strong emotions during flirting.
YOUR MALE ENERGY ALREADY MAKES YOU DESIRABLE
At the end of these techniques it is important to make a disclaimer so watch out!
One thing must be clear...
being a Man with a capital M already makes you desirable in the eyes of a woman.
A very simple example:
if you are a loser begging for attention from women, you may well use the techniques I have described above, but you will not get results.
If, on the other hand, you express Masculine Energy and do not use the techniques, your chances of success will be much higher.
If you finally do both,express Masculine Energy and also use the techniques, there is no stopping you 😉 .
That's all for today
Your friend
Steve