Today we are talking about the most famous of all sexual positions: the missionary position.
And now you might start by asking yourself..
"But what do I have to learn about the missionary position?"
Sex is never a simple thing and even something seemingly very simple can actually hide a myriad of variations, positions and possibilities that you would have never thought of so this article is suitable for you whether you are a beginner and want getting started the right way.
But also if an intermediate or advanced...
In fact believe me... About sex you never stop learning!
In fact, today we'll see:
- Why it's called missionary position
- The practical explanation
- 7 variations
- A secret technique to stimulate her clitoris during missionary
- 3 variations to last longer
- 11 tips to make this sex position 100 times better
As you can see even on something seemingly simple we have a lot of meat on the fire.
Why it is called Missionary position
The pure truth is that no one knows exactly.
The common belief is that missionary sex gets its name from the fact that Christian missionaries during colonization encouraged this position in converted areas.
Others claim that the name missionary sex was first created by Alfred Kinsey in "Sexual Behaviors in the Human Species."
Still others claim that the term was generically introduced in the 1950′ following a whole series of mistranslations of historical texts.
In short, after this brief historical note, the pure truth is that we do not know exactly the origin of missionary, the position of the positions... to be honest ... for our purposes we care little.
So let's cut the nonsense and get down to the practical.
Missionary Position: Practical Explanation
I decided to include this part in the article thinking that many of you, if you searched...
Missionary Position
On Google are very new to sex.
And, without you having to be ashamed of it, you might be there wondering,
"okay but how do you do the missionary position?"
Good. Take a deep breath of relief.
This position-as well as all the other positions in sex-is really easy to practice when you know how to do it.
If you are a novice today, don't get lost in reading this entire article...
"But how did I already understand that this position has a lot of variations" ?
Yes it does.
But right now you don't have to worry about that.
The part about variants for creating multiple positions from
one position is for slightly more experienced users.
If you are a novice instead, my advice is to become comfortable with this position done in the simplest possible way.
Once you realize that sex is not this big deal you can go back to the article and look at all the possible and imaginable variations and find out all the tips to make this, which is the most classic of sex positions, more pleasurable and spicy.
But if you now put too much on the fire in your head you only risk overloading yourself with a load of emotional tension that you absolutely do not need right now.
So if you are new to sex today, I'll really make really simple for you.
The missionary sex position simply consists of:
- Getting inside her effectively
- Going back and forth with your loins
Simple,right?
Well ... Now we can now move on to tips for people with a tiny bit more sexual experience, including on the various positions.
Missionary position: 7 variations
Here we are going to analyze a few variations plus a secret technique to make the missionary sex position more pleasurable through the stimulation of her clitoris.
Nothing complicated and nothing compared to nuclear science.
These are variations that...you'll see...are really simple to apply but allow you to add variety to the sex between you even on a simpler sex position like the missionary position.
If you have been following me on the site for a while you know very well how important variety is in sex. .
Let's start...just so we understand each other...from the classic sex position you see below in the figure...
So the "special feature" of the classic sex position is that here, while you are having sex, both your legs are spread out or lying down if you prefer.
Now all the variations we are going to look at allow us to go into them at slightly different angles.
The difference is not huge but, as you know...
- They help you add variety
- AND depending on the angle rub more on the clitoris during your strokes
- Work more on the G-spot
- OR the Deep Spot
In this variation your penetration is deeper so it is easier to stimulate her Deep Spot (although it is not the ideal sexual position to do as we shall see,so you have to go very deep in with your strokes if you want to do this) and the fact that you rub each other a lot from here creates pleasurable sensations in the clitoral area.
Here as you see the position of her legs helps to create more rubbing between your bodies, and as you know, this helps you to more easily stimulate her clitoris during your strokes.
Here we achieve the same effect by increasing the rubbing between you a little more because of the "grip" she applies on you with her legs.
This sexual position among other things gives you a little hand in penetrating her deeper.
And if you feel the friction starting to get too intense you can change to this variation.
As you see here, her "squeezing" you with only one leg instead of two, and has a twofold benefit.
First. It decreases friction because you are no longer within the double grip of her legs.
Second. Her pussy is more open, which gives you time to recover if you are about to cum.
These are simply small touches as you see,but sometimes small details make a difference.
And now let's look at two positions that allow you deeper penetration and therefore
will help you hit her Deep Spot.
As you can see these two positions (you can start with the first and move to the second) are very helpful in penetrating her deeper and going and creating more friction on her clitoris.
And if you have been paying attention so far you might rightly ask yourself?
"What about the g-spot ?
How do I stimulate it during these positions?"
Very simple.
Stimulating the g-spot during sex is simply a secret of angling your strokes.
In fact what we men instinctively do is to give straight strokes.
On the other hand, when you want to go for the G-spot you have to direct your blows toward the front wall of her vagina.
Let's try to understand better what that means.
As you see from this sketch we men, in sex, tend to go deep with our strokes.
What you want to do instead to hit her G-spot is to direct your strokes upward (toward the pubic bone just so you understand).
This will result in shallower strokes that:
- They will help you last longer
- They will be at the same time very pleasurable for her
And now as I promised you here ...
A secret technique to stimulate her clitoris during missionary position
Also here the secret is in the angle.
We have seen that in fact,men in sex, instinctively give straight strokes.
What you want to do here is to make a conscious effort to move your body downward and upward during your strokes as if you want to go and hit her clitoris with your pubic area with each stroke.
Guaranteed fun for her.
3 variations of missionary to last longer
Let's start with a premise.
Positions are never the ultimate solution to last longer in sex when you train yourself to last like a real stallion.
1.Circular strokes
Give her "circular" strokes by moving mainly your glutes instead of your loins.
This allows you to subject your glans (your most sensitive part to lower stimulation) and the circular motions make her enjoy it a lot because you are rubbing against her clitoris.
2. With 2 pillows under her back
Put two pillows under her back and rest her bottom on your legs.
She will also be able to support herself with her feet resting on the bed.
This little trick:
- Change the angle of penetration
- Makes you work less hard
- AND decreases your muscle tension
Making you last longer overall.
3. Put a pillow under her ass and penetrate her
Here the title says almost everything.
After doing this what you want to do, however, is to find the variation
that causes you the least trouble in sex.
Try:
- Push her legs against her chest
- Join her legs together
- Join her legs together and push them up
- Spread her legs
So,it's just a matter of trying out the various possible combinations and seeing which ones you are best with.
Missionary position: 11 tips to make it 100 times better
1. Elevate her
With a pillow as we have seen also allows you to make sex more varied, among other things
2. Squeeze her legs
This little strategy allows you to apply more pressure on her clitoris
3. Make her hug you
This will create more connection between your bodies and generally a greater sense of intimacy
4. Make her help you control the rhtym
Have her grab your hips so that she can help you keep the rhytm that she likes more
5. Double the stimulation
You can double the stimulation by masturbating her clitoris by hand or with a vibrator.
6. Maintain strong eye contact
Of all the positions this is the most romantic position for excellence so take advantage of this feature to make it more intimate with strong eye contact.
7. Blindfold her
Despite what was just said once in a while that of blindfolding her can be a nice strategy to make her focus more on the sensations of her body.
8. Kiss her more
Many men forget after a while but this is very important.
9. Spank her
Here clearly you can only spank her hip but the psychological effect will be the same.
10. Whisper her in the ear
This position is perfect for things like this.
Remember that they are more verbal creatures than we are in bed.
11. Make her cum before penetration
Last but not least.
If you've been following me on the site for a while you know that you have to make her cum before actual penetration because they are multi-orgasmic.
Well...as usual if you finished reading this article now you know how to perform the missionary position better than any other men.
That's all for today and as usual remember...
Get her wet first in the head and then in the body,
Steve