SEDUCTION AND FIRST IMPRESSION
Is making a good first impression important?
Let's first answer this question properly and then find out what to do in practice.
Imagine that you are going out one evening with some friends.
At some point a friend of a friend you don't know walks by, and you are introduced.
Within the first 5 seconds you notice that he is:
- Dressed poorly
- Not smiling
- A bit in mess
What do you think of him?
Just like that, on the fly?
I'll tell you: you'll think he's a person who, just on the fly, you don't particularly like.
Certainly if you were asked for an opinion about him you would rightly say that you don't know him well enough.
But,in those first few seconds an initial opinion of him has already been formed.
Afterwards certainly this man will have plenty of time to change and show himself to be the nicest, smilest, and most intelligent person in the world.
But-after that!
Immediately your brain has categorized him.
You have to know that our brain to understand the world works by generalizations, by categories.
This is normal; it is necessary to understand the world.
Trivial example: if you see a woman all dressed up in "office" clothes, what do you think?
You will probably think that she is going to the office and maybe she will have a rather important role.
If, on the other hand, you saw the exact same woman in overalls with a baby in her arms?
You would think she is a new mother.
So you have two categories in your head, and you have "put" the two women in them.
But ... maybe you're completely wrong.
Maybe the first one is so pulled,because she is on her way to her graduation, and the second one is a single top-manager who is taking a walk with her best friend's son to do her a favor.
So is the first impression the truth of things?
Certainly not, but first impression is still very important.
SEDUCTION AND FIRST IMPRESSION
Just as in everyday life, first impressions can give you an extra boost in seduction.
When you make a good first impression with a woman in the first 5 seconds, in the following minutes you are allowed more mistakes, you can dare a little more, you can create attraction more easily.
Of course, if you show,to be a nerd afterwards, rest assured you won't win her over.
At the same time, do you know the good thing of making a good first impression?
Which is damn easy!
It takes very little time 🙂
5 STEPS TO FOLLOW
Let's then go through what to do in practice.
As just said these are really simple things, but forgotten by a lot of people...
We will go in chronological order...
1. Take care of your look
This is the only one of the 5 steps that needs to be done before going out.
It mainly includes:
- your personal hygiene
- beard and hair
- clothes
A good person image can give you a crazy hand in seduction.
2. Smile (Fuc@#%$£!!!)
If I had a dollar for every time I've seen guys not smile in the first few seconds they meet a woman, I assure you I'd be the fucking king of the world! 🙂
You can't even think about studying special seduction techniques if you don't start smiling.
Trust me, it's very simple, I'll tell you how to do it right now:
- Slightly tense your lip muscles
- Slightly arch your lips upward
- And if you want you can even show a little bit of those pretty little teeth you keep hidden 🙂
And voilà , it's done, was that so hard?!?! 🙂
3. SHAKES WELL HER HAND
The handshake should be given not too vigorously, not too softly, and briefly.
In general,the rule is to do it with the same strenght as the other person use.
In particular, however, I often notice men shaking hands like sissies 🙂
When you shake a woman's hand, it is obvious that you should not shake it, and this obviously applies to
a man's hand as well.
At the same time usually be a little stronger when you meet a man, a weak shake is not well liked.
4. SAY YOUR NAME, LISTEN HER NAME, AND REPEAT IT.
First: Say your name out loud.
Second: listen to her and repeat it.
This is for two basic reasons: first because it is nice for a person to hear their name and you give them that bit of polite attention they need, and second because it is the best way to remember their name.
I imagine that,it happened to you at least one time to forget the name of a person you just met, it happens to everyone I know.
5. DON'T INVADE HER INTERPERSONAL SPACE
I am of course talking about the space that is felt by people as "private."
If,you have known a woman,in the firsts few seconds,you should not get too close to her, unless perhaps to give her the usual two courtesy kisses, those are allowed. 🙂
We have finished the first 5 seconds of interaction.
After that of course there is a world :-)
But getting off to a good start right away is something not to be forgotten.
To know what NOT to do next, so what mistakes to eliminate with women, you can download the Free Report Seduction: the 37 most common mistakes.
See you next!
Your friend
Steve