"Steve, how can I write to a girl on Instagram?"
"Look Steve, but what can I write to her on Instagram Direct?"
Guys, texting a woman on Instagram is extremely simple.
You don't have to do anything different from what you would do with regular messages on Whatsapp.
And if, on the other hand, you don't know where to start, there are plenty of free articles here on the blog about texting that I recommend you go and read,but if you want to get lots of information right away and learn how to text in the most efficient and optimized way to get the girl from phone number to date there is Sms Seduction.
INSTAGRAM VS WHATSAPP
Basically it's the same thing,the difference is just that instead giving her your telephone number you give her your instagram contact or conversely.
Sometimes girls just do it because they are not interested, and giving you Instagram is less of a commitment than a phone number.
This is especially true when you are a beginner.
And if you ask yourself,
"Why do I get less response on Instagram than on Whatapp?"
Well, the problem is not the platform, but it's the solidity behind that contact that is different.
When they give you their personal number, they are more likely to be interested.
HOW TO USE INSTAGRAM IN SEDUCTION
"However, Steve I want to meet the girl on Instagram, I don't want to meet her live."
If you thought this, we have a whole set of problems.
Unless you are a super influencer, Instagram is not the ideal place to meet girls.
Why am I telling you this?
There are a whole series of good reasons:
- on Instagram, girls are literally bombarded with validation from beta males, so it doesn't make sense use instagram with this purpose;
- on Instagram, they have much more value than you do in real life, so it's not a smart thing to pick them up there;
- Instagram is not a platform for hooking up: that's why there are dating sites and apps and so you appear as desperate;
- As a men,we have more communication and sub-communication weapons live than on social;
- You show yourself socially stupid because you try to approach her in a place where you have less statistical chance of success.
I could list more reasons why I advise against hooking up on Instagram, but those above are just to give you a general idea of it.
So Instagram is useless for seduction?
No, on the contrary, however, you need to understand how to use it.
Instagram is just a social that you can use specifically for marketing purposes.
So you have to use it,as your own Marketing tool,in this case with girls.
If optimized, it will benefit you tremendously because, if you interest the girl, she will immediately go and look at your Instagram profile, which will be designed to show her a better lifestyle and value than her own.
But first you get to know her live, then you exchange phones and finally Instagram.
Use Instagram just to put yourself in a good light indirectly, you'll see that it won't even look like you're trying.
Instagram is especially powerful because everything a woman sees on your profile was posted before you met, and she won't think it's something done specifically to get to know her.
At some point,if, you do things right, you may come to have an Instagram profile so optimized that you voluntarily exchange that with the girl rather than the phone number.
It's something that takes time and dedication but, to make it easier for you, I've created a step by step course that explains how to make the most of your profile and maximize girls' interest in you through the value conveyed by your profile.
Before than that if you still do the common mistakes that 98% of men do....
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See you in the next article.
Steve