Guys, many of you have asked us how to meet girls on Instagram .
So let's start with one thing: I understand that when you spend a lot of time on social media,and little or nothing is known about the seductive dynamics, meeting girls on social media may seem like a good idea .
Unfortunately, however , there is nothing more wrong and now let's go and see why.
MEETING GIRLS ON INSTAGRAM IS WRONG
First of all, what we are about to see is true if you are not an Instagram star,as a Gianluca Vacchi or Dan bilzerian or an Instagram influencer.
If this is your situation, and you have a large follower base, in the most absolute way meeting girls on Instagram is fine, but the pure truth is that most of you will have a profile with very few followers and maybe have more "following" than "followers".
"Why is this a problem?"
- You might ask yourself.
Because women on Instagram are bombarded with validation by beta males.
If you present yourself with yet another undifferentiated profile , you are neither more nor less than a number.
One among many.
What's more, trying to get to know her on Instagram signals:
- That you are desperate and lack other options.
- That you are socially inactive, otherwise you would understand that the proper place online to meet girls are dating sites and apps and that Instagram should be used for other purposes.
- That you are socially incompetent because you don't understand that Instagram has a very low return rate and so conversely you should meet the girl live.
There is a huge disproportion between your value and her value.
Etc, etc...
Simply in this way you will just show yourself as a desperate.
So do we just flush Instagram down the toilet in our interactions with women and forget about it?
Absolutely not.
What you want to understand, though, is that Instagram, as well as Facebook, is nothing more than a Marketing window.
In other words, Instagram does not serve you to get to know the girls, but, when you already know the girl and, at this point, if you do the work to optimize Instagram, it can become a great window to show the girl your value in an indirect way.
SHOW VALUE ON INSTAGRAM
Why is this important?
Usually, when we try with a girl by making a cold approach on Intsagram,we are forced to follow her and this is not the best, even if sometimes we have to do it.
For example, we send a photo to a girl to rekindle the chat and in that photo we show something that gives us value.
While this is sometimes necessary, it's actually a bit try hard , meaning you're trying too hard.
Instagram, on the other hand, gives us the opportunity to show to the girls our value indirectly because, if there is at least minimal interest on her part, she will go and spy on your lifestyle on Instagram .
In practice, Instagram allows us to show our value without showing that we are trying, in fact the profile was already there and existed before the girl's existence.
If you do a lot of work to optimize Instagram, there may even come a time when it is worth exchanging Instagram instead of the phone number.
But in any case you must always first get to know the girl in person or online and Instagram only use it afterwards.
If you want to deepen about how to meet girls on instagram/facebook and know how to best use social media in seduction,I advise to check this E-Book.
Steve