Hello dear vagina lovers!
Today let's talk about something really important if you want to rocket your performance in bed and that is
Hello pussy lovers, today we are going to talk about something really important,and this is:
How to lick the pussy in a way that gives her pleasure.
I emphasized in a way to give her pleasure because ... let's face it ... for most men, cunnilingus is nothing more than a fast pussy licking, that is, something on the level of minimum duty before throw their dick inside her vagina.
And that's not a good idea...
But don't worry because today we're going to see:
- Why knowing how to lick pussy changes your life
- Why if you don't know how to lick her you're forcing her into fake orgasms
- A little bit of anatomy so you know what you're doing when you lick her vagina
- 29 basic techniques for licking her pussy
- 2 advanced techniques for licking her
- 3 techniques for adding variety to lick her pussy
But.....let's get started!
How to Lick Pussy Will Change Your Life
If you are one of those men I mentioned above or you are just not 100% sure what you are doing when it comes to licking her pussy,pay close attention to what you are about to read,because just reading this article,will take you to a level of experience,that will make you look like a real Sex God compared to all the other men she has never been with.
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In fact, you need to understand two very important things...
1.Licking pussy is a real art!
2.For women, being licked properly is one of the most pleasurable practices.
This means that a man who loves to lick pussy and knows how to do it skillfully will very rarely run out of dates!
Think about it...have you ever found a woman, who may not have even been the most attractive woman you could get but.... who gave you the best blowjobs of your life?
It happened to me, and if it happened to you too, you know very well that you can hardly let her get away.
In fact whether she's not quite Miss Universe, there are very few (almost zero) men who can resist the temptation of a blowjob artfully done.
They think the same way so make sure you become a true master in the art of licking her pussy.
In fact what you should know,is that most men around,don't have great strategies when it comes to licking a woman's pussy.
Maybe if you are reading this article you are one of them.
So if you're not one of those proud men who think things like,
"But I already know how to lick pussy anyway"
(In that case you'll find a red x in the upper right corner of this page,but then don't be surprised if she trashes you just like you trashed this article)
If on the other hand if you're still here today is her lucky day.
BUT ...
Yours too! Yes indeed when you've learned everything there is to know about how to lick her vagina and clitoris she will completely change towards you... In and out of the bed.
In fact...let's face it...if you are a man you are very likely to find yourself in one of these two situations:
- You are in such a hurry to get inside her that you don't even lick her
- OR, at best, you simply doing random things with your tongue because you don't know exactly what you are doing.
Not Good!
The purpose of this article, then, is not only to take you from the position of incompetent to skilled, but to make you better than an army of pussy-hungry lesbians.
If we took her inside a Gang Bang recording room, in fact she could not finds as much knowledge on the subject as you will find in this article.
This means that you are about to become a Sex God for her.
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Simply out there-you have no more competition.
So take the time to read this article thoroughly because "I'm going to go pretty deep"...
And get ready to have an unfair advantage over all the other men who will have slept with her and entertained her beyond her wildest imagination.
Now maybe you might be tempted to skip a few steps but what I urge you to do instead is to take the time to read this article from beginning to end because the techniques follow a logical sense.
So take a few minutes to change your sex life forever.
Yes ... I said yours ...
In fact, when you learn to lick her properly you will see that she will reciprocate very generously.
Ah...a little note.
Until today you may have used only porn movies as "training" material. Good ... actually bad!
If so, forget everything you have learned so far.
In fact, porn movies are created to make you horny, not to make her wet.
Before we get into the technical part of the article let me make a very important premise.
In fact, if you don't understand this you may be perfect or close to perfect, but still find it difficult to make her have an orgasm...
Licking the vagina how to do it: don't force her to fake orgasms
If you follow me on the site,you know that,I repeatedly debunk the myth that it is impossible for many women to achieve a vaginal orgasm.
That is, I claim to be opposed to those "big doctors" who, hiding behind a lab coat and the statistics they have read in their books, thar are talking about the fact that many women have never experienced a vaginal orgasm and therefore it is most important to learn how to give her a clitoral and G-spot orgasm.
While the latter concept, that is, the fact that giving her a clitoral and G-spot orgasm is very true (in fact, women are multi-orgasmic) and there is no way to tell you otherwise...the fact that vaginal orgasm is so difficult for a woman to achieve is simply bullshit that doesn't take into consideration the fact that the vast majority of men don't know what they are doing.
In fact, it is this ignorance on their part that makes, for some women, vaginal orgasm so difficult, not the fact that it is difficult to achieve in practice if you take the right steps.
And here we get to the real point of the issue and that is....
Why you have to lick the pussy for a woman to have a vaginal orgasm
Before I give you a technical explanation let me make an important premise for your health.
While there is no question,that licking the pussy is a key step in bringing her to vaginal orgasm,as well, this practice still carries risks,so,it is up to you to evaluate to whom and after which precautions (such as having both tested) to lick the pussy.
As you know I never want to take the place of your doctor who is the first and only person you should be listening to for everything concerning your health.
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Having said that, there is no question that without cunnilingus and proper G-spot stimulation it is much more difficult for her to achieve vaginal orgasm.
And this is the reason why I go against those who say that many women simply cannot achieve the orgasm. It's not that they can't achieve it.
The fact is simply that... I'll explain it with an equation so we understand each other...
No oral sex + zero G-spot stimulation +
embarrassing performance by the man in duration =
she is forced to fake an orgasm.
Similarly...
Fantastic oral sex + proper G-spot stimulation +
duration and penetration skills like God of Sex =
the one about women not having vaginal orgasms is a big bullshit.
In fact, not only does licking her correctly make her more likely to have a penetration orgasm from a technical point, but it also helps her reach the right level of relaxation and let herself go enough to achieve this kind of orgasm.
Well...having said that let's get into the real heart of the article, the one that you are basically interested in.... And that is how to lick the pussy in practice 🙂
How to lick her vagina
Let's start with a very important, indeed fundamental, premise.
What I want to tell you is that it is basically not just about licking her,but about incorporating everything you learn on this site within your sexual intercourse.
As I explained to you above, women are multi-orgasmic and that means you will have to give her a vaginal orgasm as well.
This is to make you understand that everything we talk about in this article is:
- Very important
- You will be way different from the mass of men she knows
- Necessary
BUT not enough!
Well...
Since this is an article on how to lick pussy and clitoris let's start with....
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A little anatomy to understand how to lick pussy
First, calm down.
I'm not here to give you an anatomy lesson on her pussy like they should have given us in school.
So if you were in a cold sweat and were tempted to hit the red X in the upper right corner, calm down. There's no need to.
But it is a fact that many men who are probably reading this article don't even know where the clitoris is.
So,there are some informations I have to give you or she will be very sad.
Since a picture counts more than a thousand words...
I'll explain it to you like this...so then you can't come and tell me you didn't understand my words....
Now a woman rightly expects you to know where her clitoris is.
It is not her job as a woman to train you but it is your job as a man to know what you are doing when it comes to sex.
Now, however, you might be thinking something like this if you follow me on my articles,
"But I thought I read somewhere that I can ask what she likes best...did I misunderstand?"
The fact that it is permissible to ask her what she likes best as an individual woman, because every woman is different, does not mean that you can be ignorant about the basics...
they are two completely different things.
Keep in mind that the fact that penetration is the most psychologically powerful form of sex for her does not, however, make it comparable to penetration for us men,so you need to know how to "treat" the area of her vagina even with your tongue and fingers.
Frankly, in my opinion, the only thing that should matter to you on an anatomical level is knowing where to put your hands.
Rather than becoming a graduate student in "pussyologist" you are much better off learning the concept below.
Get her wet in the head before licking her pussy
As you know if you follow me on the Blog women need to be get wet in the head first than in the body and to do this, only on this site you learn how to use the 7 emotional levers to make sex an unforgettable experience for her compared to those experiences she has had with other men.
Having made that necessary premise this is an exquisitely technical article on how to lick her vagina.....
Well, let's get started.
29 Basic Techniques for Licking Her Pussy
1.Get in the Right Mindset
There is a very specific mindset you must acquire in this type of operation.
Most men (let's even say 99%) see licking her pussy as a job to be done as taking out the trash or tidying up the house at the end of they can be rewarded by sticking their dick in her pussy.
No!
You have to completely change your point of view.
If you change this kind of selfish and distorted focus to something like:
Her pleasure is my pleasure...
You will see that,what now, seems like just a catch phrase,will soon turn into reality.
In fact, when you learn how to really pleasure a woman she will be much more willing to do the same.
Don't think she doesn't perceive it if you see licking her as a job!
So licking her pussy,from this moment,is no longer a task to be performed like checking at the mailbox in the morning when you arrive at the office.
From this moment,you are a hungry lion..
2.Get her into the right mood
Start with the basics.
For women sex is a multisensory experience,so they need to get in the right state of 'mind and feel comfortable and relaxed.
It really takes as little as a warm bath, music, incense, and scented candles.
And if you are thinking,
"Yeah whatever but this is not a technical thing about how to lick the pussy so I can skip it"
Think again.
I'll say it again.
Women are not like us,so don't make the mistake of thinking about sex from a male point of view.
While it is true that from one point of view,they want a man so you have to be dominant otherwise they would be lesbians, on the other hand they need certain attention even if you see it,as a waste of time.
3.Don't start from there
The fact that this is an article about how to lick a pussy does not mean that you can forget about the basics and what needs to be done first.
It may seem like an obvious thing to do but it really isn't for two reasons:
- It completely changes her experience
- It makes her wet and therefore predisposed to everything we are going to do next.
So don't leave out,long foreplay where you go exploring every area of her body and not just the obvious erogenous zones.
Extend this phase as much as possible.
Again, don't forget that you are not doing a domestic job, but you are literally preparing the ground for her to enjoy more.
Don't forget to kiss her with passion and keep a strong eye contact with her.
4.Talk dirty to her
While you are doing the foreplay talk dirty to her and say something like,
"I can't wait to lick you and make you cum for me over and over again"
You will see that she will have excellent reactions to this kind of language.
5.Tease her
With your movements you don't want to make it predictable for her that you are going to end up right there.
Don't misunderstand me.
If you do the right things she knows what is going on.
But what she doesn't want is,to be able to predict exactly when this is going to happen.
So tease her as much as possible before going with your tongue to her clitoris.
This will increse the sexual tension for her and this consequently will make her more excitited and wetter.
6.We are almost there...a little more preparation
We are almost there,it is time to focus on her vagina but first we want to prepare her a mentally so that she enjoys the moment more.
I know that you, from a male perspective, maybe just want to say to her,
"Suck my dick... Okay. Done. Night,"
But again-she doesn't work that way.
So learn how to love women and sex, and they will repay you in unexpected ways.
So... Warm her up a bit more...
7.Compliment
Compliment her on how beautiful and desirable you find her.
Even if you are under the bed sheets with the most beautiful woman in the world,she will still have insecurities about herself even if she does not show on the outside.
Compliment her on what you genuinely like about her and make her feel beautiful and appreciated.
This will help to let herself go and be more present in the moment.
That simply translated means that she will get wetter and it will be easier for her to achieve an orgasm.
8.What makes her special down there
When we talk about pussy every woman is different down there.
Tell her what exactly you like about her between her legs and what makes her special and different from all the others.
This is a technique that is always part of dirty talk.
You have to do it for three main reasons:
- It turns her on
- The fact that you appreciate particular aspects "of her" indicates that she is probably not the first one you have seen in your life (although once you read and study this article she will have no doubts about that)
- Women have a thousand complexes about their pussies too (shape, smell, taste, etc.)
9.Your property rights
Tell her that you are going to lick her and that,her pussy is yours and only yours.
That it is your property.
Telling her that,will make explicit a sense of territoriality during sex which makes her feel more desired, comfortable,and makes her wetter.
Actually, once you have sex with a woman, you should verbalize this sense of territoriality anyway.
10. "This stuff doesn't convince me "
I know that from a male point of view all this "verbalizing" can feel strange.
But she is not a man....
What you must realize, however, is that women are more verbal creatures than we are, especially during sex.
So don't be ashamed and get used to talking to her during your sexual intercourse.
11.Play with her
Make her "suffer" some more.
Having gotten to this point, it's obvious where you're going with this but ... play with her some more.
Rub your face on her pussy from top to bottom.
By the way...
12.Come prepared
If you are a man with a beard take care of it,to make it as soft as possible with a conditioner so you don't irritate her while you play with her.
"Eh,but all this stuff?"
This is a very quick thing to do,so don't protest.
You want to make her enjoy it, don't sting her pussy wit your beard.
13.Kiss her in progression
Kiss her "there" first slowly and then a little harder while, with your lips always lubricated with your saliva you separate her "lips" as soon as her pussy will be open,
you can take care of her clitoris.
Meanwhile gently spread her legs with your hands.
14.Be careful with your saliva
When it comes to going to work in that area be careful.
It is important that you have enough saliva inside your mouth and remember to lubricate your lips as well.
Saliva works as a lubricant and needless to say how essential this is.
15.Use your fingers too
Just because you are licking her pussy doesn't mean she doesn't also enjoy being masturbated with your fingers.
It is the opposite,in this way her pleasure literally doubles.
Again, remember to lubricate your finger with the saliva before you enter in the vagina.
The vagina is sensitive so take it slow. Start slow and then increase in intensity.
Put a second finger inside her as well.
What we want to do now,is to stimulate her G-spot and her clitoris at the same time.
I won't dwell here on explaining where the G-spot is since I've already talked about it elsewhere.
16.Really... use two fingers
Don't be selfish at this stage by thinking:
"Whatever but even if I use only one finger it doesn't change anything"
After an initial preparatory phase use the second finger, also wet,so as not to cause unpleasant sensations inside her.
17.Do not forget the inner lips
Do not think that the inner lips simply does not exist.
As in fact happens to 99% of men.
Before you focus on the clitoris, start there.
Lick it with the center of your tongue as if you were eating an ice cream cone.
Start from the bottom to the top.
From both sides.
Repeat again.
Then lick all over.
Remember that she loves to be teased,so don't go immediatly,to focus on the clitoris.
18.And now... Breathe
Immediately before you focus on her clitoris breathe gently on it.
Afterwards, lick it.
This alternation of cold sensations (of your breath) and warm sensations of your tongue should make her enjoy it even more.
I know these are small details ....
But I can assure you that when it comes to pussy licking the little details make all the difference in the world.
Remember that through sex with you,what you want to do,is to give her an experience that she cannot have with other men.
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Then follow what I tell you step by step.
19.Start from the tip of your tongue
Now that you have opened her "lips" concentrate with the tip of your tongue on her clitoris.
After all this level of stimulation,she should be ready...
20. Back to school
Having reached this point, 99% of men don't know what to do with their tongue.
Here I explain a simple technique for never running out of ideas while you lick her pussy.
If you are able to read this article, you should have no problem with the technique I'm about to explain..
in fact, it just involves "writing" the letters of the alphabet on her clitoris with the tip of your tongue.
First in cursive, then capitals.Don't take this too seriously..
It's just about not running out of ideas on how to move your tongue while licking her.
21.Increase the speed
Different women have different tastes when it comes to being licked.
This means that you will have to do some trials and errors and, by reading her body's reactions and figure out what rhythm she prefers,you can give her as much pleasure as possible by licking her.
If you feel that she is not enjoying it enough,increase the rhythm and if you feel it is too much slow down.
22.Fuck her with your tongue
This technique is really very simple to use. It involves simply using your tongue as if it were your dick.
Remove your fingers inside her, stiffen your tongue as much as possible and penetrate her.
This create tension for when you come back to lick her clitoris.
Penetrate her for a couple of minutes and return to focus on her clitoris.
23.Suck
At this point she should be stimulated enough to start sucking her.
Start first by sucking her lips and then gently suck her clitoris.
Open your mouth as if to form an O and then suck her clitoris gently.
24.Put your face on it
Stimulate her with the rest of your face now, too. Nose. Cheeks. Chin.
Do it gently but do it. Don't worry while you do it. Later you can wash your face.
25.Have her sit on your face
Have her sit on your face with you,lying on the bed and lick her from this position .
Changing her position increases the variety in sex and makes the experience more exciting for her.
26.Have her use your teeth and gums
From this position you can use this other technique.
Keep in mind that you will have to train her for a moment for this type of technique because most women don't even know what it is.
In any case, don't worry.
It really is something very simple.
Now that she is on top,keep your lips open while you keep your teeth closed.
Now let her move as she likes on your teeth and gums.
As you can imagine there are many different points of different pressure that she can touch,by moving her hips and rubbing herself against your face,and this makes this kind of experience very pleasurable even though it may take her a moment to figure out,the way she needs to move to create the right friction.
27.Do not stop
Until she has reached orgasm do not stop.
And when she comes still stay where you are but making all your movements much slower and lighter.
This also applies to your fingers,if, as they should be, they are still inside her.
28.Get to know her
As you know every woman is different so...
Read her body language and learn what she likes best.
29.After she cums continue to take care of her
Now I know you might be tempted to think something like,
"Well now that I've done my dirty work it's time to put my penis down there"
And be tempted to get inside her as soon as possible.
I understand that,but it is exactly the opposite of what you need to do.
Now that she has cums give her time to calm down for a moment before penetration so that she feels taken care of herself.
Again you have to understand that sex is different for her and that certain mechanisms work on an unconscious level.
That is, just as you have to cuddle her after sex you have to give her time to recover for a moment after a clitoral orgasm.
What if she didn't cums? What to do?
If you apply what we have seen in this article it is very difficult but it could still happen.
If something like this happens there can only be two kinds of problems:
- The first is the fact that she was not in the right state of mind to have sex
- Or you did not stimulate her properly
In the first case something may have happened during her day and she, has so many problems in her head,so, she cannot relax and let herself go and consequently feel an orgasm.
In the second case, don't worry.
It's just a matter of practice and if you follow all the steps I described here in site,you are still better than any other man she might find...
Now before I finish I want to tell you about a couple of more advanced techniques that you can use to add variety to your oral sex.
2 Advanced Techniques for Licking Her Pussy
Actually these two techniques are not advanced because they are difficults than the others.
They are simply a little more hardcore than the others.
And the only way to know if she likes them is to try them.
Since you are giving them a try, though, my advice is not to use them on casual partners.
1.In front and back
Some women like, while they are being licked, to be stimulated outside and inside the anal canal as well.
This means you need to learn how to lick the anus.
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2.Tap and Suck
This is a "high intensity" technique because it causes intense stimulation that not all women like but if she is one of those who likes it it will give her really intense orgasms as you lick her.
What you need to do,is move her clitoris hood with your fingers and then,surround her clitoris with your mouth.
At this point start tapping it with the tip of your tongue.
If she can sustain this kind of stimulation bring her to full arousal,and then suck like you are a vacuum cleaner. This will bring her to cum really really intensely.
Good.
Given these two techniques let's go over a few techniques that you can use to make the experience a little different and add variety to your sexual relations.
These are three techniques that I recommend you use only infrequently otherwise the variety element loses its relevance as you can imagine.
How to add variety when you lick her pussy
Here are 3 techniques to make your licks a little more different.
1.Blindfold Her
As you can imagine blindfolding her makes this kind of experience much more fascinating for her since she can no longer rely on her eyesight to follow your movements.
Plus...and most importantly....
When you can't use one of your senses our brain is programmed to make the others more intense in a kind of compensatory action ;-).
This means that the experience will be much more exciting for her.
2.Use an ice cube
For this technique you have to try it.
For some women to feel rubbing an ice cube on their clitoris, even if gently, is a bit too much.
For those who like it, however, the alternation of the cold of the ice with the warmth of your tongue is an extremely pleasant sensation.
3.Lick her pussy in the shower
This kind of experience for her is exciting for two reasons.
The first is because it brings back memories of her first experiences when she touched herself in the bath. The second is because you can stimulate her, in addition to all the techniques we have seen, with the sprayer from the shower hose.
Just pay attention to the temperature of the water.
Remeber TO ALWAYS USE the 7 emotional levers when you want to lick her pussy.
If you want to know which are them and discover the potential of them,I suggest you to have it in your arsenal because is a MUST if you really want to became a sex god.
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And remember to get her wet first in the head and then in the body...see you next time.
Steve