Today let's talk about oral sex really in depth that is...
let's go and see how to beat the competition from other men!
Yes because... even if today you still don't last longer (don't worry, stay on the site and we'll solve this problem forever 😉 ) or if you're not Rocco Siffredi's twin (pornoactor) and you were separated at birth... when you learn how to artfully eat pussy you'll never run out of second dates!
In this article we are going to analyze so many facets of this art BUT I have already written an E-Book about it.
The E-Book in question is a real guide to cunnilingus.
So if you missed it,I suggest you to check it out (you'll find no less than 34 techniques in it).
You can find it here.
In these two articles you really find more than you need to know about learning how to perform oral sex. Promise!
So today we are going to look at:
- Why women like oral intercourse and your benefits if you become a master in this art
- How much time it takes
- The 10 Mistakes to NEVER Make
- How Often You Should Do It
- The 6 Best Positions for Oral Sex
- Vibrators and Oral Sex
- How to Deal with Her If She Has hygiene Problems
- What to Do About Your hygiene Problems
- How to Get More Oral Sex
- How to Cum in her Mouth
- How to Compliment Her When You receive oral sex from her
- How Does Your Diet Affect Oral Sex
- Oral Sex and Disease
I'm not going to get too lost in small talk because, as you can see, there is really a lot to talk about to make you an Oral Sex God so let's get started.
If you want to learn all about oral sex from a technical point of view click here.
For the rest...stay glued to this article.
Why women like oral intercourse and your benefits if you become a master in this art
Women like oral intercourse!
So if you're one of those cold, selfish lovers who only needs a little stimulation to be ready for oral sex and then your only concern is to throw it in her as soon as possible think again.
That way you don't become a Sex God.
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Women want and love oral sex and their performance improves if they get good oral sex because they are more aroused and wet and, on the other hand, they are much more likely to reciprocate...that is, translated, if you give them a good time you'll have a better time too.
Also, some women can't have an orgasm if you don't do this obligatory step or, anyway, it takes them much longer and is more difficult to achieve.
So what you are about to learn is really crucial to her pleasure.
By giving her an orgasm FIRST,you increase the probability that she will have an orgasm with penetration and it will be much more intense.
This brings you into a positive psychological "loop" because it increases your confidence in your abilities and this goes to impact your performance and your duration so....
You have to learn it!
On the other hand if you are not good at oral sex there is much less chance that you will have sex with her or you will do it less often.
This is even more important if you are in a relationship because you want the sex to be good and you don't want to be cheated on or left.
Women love oral sex because it brings them to clitoral orgasm and gives them a chance to experience multiple orgasms.
Also, oral sex frees you so much from the pressure during penetration because you know you have already given her an orgasm.
At this point it is simply a matter of improve your other skills and you will be unrivaled in bed.
How long does oral sex take?
To begin... Oral sex is not about giving her a quick lick, like a dog cleaning up a bowl of ice cream, before throw yourself in. You have to keep going until she has an orgasm.
Don't try to skip or shorten this part just because you are not actively enjoying yourself.
You need to understand that being a Sex God means taking care of her pleasure in all aspects, not just the ones you enjoy the most.
But if you are still unconvinced I ask you to answer within yourself three questions below to better understand the issue...
"Have you ever encountered a woman who gave great blowjobs"?
And if yes,
"How much did this ability impact your desire to see her again"?
""Have you ever, when you were alone, made not delicates comparisons between your other partners who were decidedly less skilled in the art of blowjobs and this woman?"
""Don't you also find that hateful feeling when you are receiving a blowjob, you are aroused and you want to cum, but she stops because she is tired or bored?"
Okay I think we understand each other....
So what you have to do is become a master of oral sex, and if you're still wondering how long it has to last, there's only one rule:
YOU don't stop until she cums!
The 10 mistakes to NEVER make during oral sex
Let's go here to see the mistakes to avoid.
As I often tell you on this site, when we learn how to do something as a self-taught person, if not the first of the things we need to do, is to go and correct the mistakes we carry around with us (and this isn't just about sex).
Almost every man makes some of these mistakes but don't worry because now we are going to eradicate them once and for all.
Just avoiding these mistakes you will already be way better than other men.
- Don't use your teeth
Many people believe that using your teeth on her clitoris will cause her pleasure if you give her tiny, very little bites.
DON'T.
The only effect you'll get is to turn off her arousal.
The clitoris is rich in nerve endings and extremely sensitive as an area so forget about using your teeth in that area.
The only situation in which they are allowed is when she sits on your face and it is HER to play with them BUT at the rhythm and intensity she chooses.
2.Go immediately on the clitoris
While we men are immediately ready to start, women are different and have two kinds of needs.
The first one is a psychological one,given by the fact that they feel the arousal growing inside them and so they need a man to create sexual tension by slowly teasing her.
The second one is an anatomical one,whereby they need time to get the blood flowing to the area, where we are going to stimulate.
3.Don't target the clitoris
Many men focus too much on the pussy in general. Don't misunderstand me. I'm not telling you that you shouldn't stimulate the rest of it, but when it comes to licking it.
You have to target the clitoris.
Women don't cum for tongue penetration.
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Also, many guys keep doing one movement. It matters little whether it is:
- Circular
- Left/Right
- Up/Down
And that brings us to the next mistake...
4.Don't read her body language
Learn to read her body language to understand what she likes best.
Her moans and her arching back are good indicators of whether you are doing it right.
Don't take oral sex as a job,where your ultimate goal is to finish your work shift, but make sure you give her as much pleasure as possible.
5.Don't make a mistake when you blow
This has been told to me by several girls as an experience not to be remembered.
I don't know if some males got this technique from porn movies,or if it's one of those secret techniques you pass around in the shower at the gym from one member to the next,
but...
Some men apparently surround their vagina with their mouths and lips and blow almost as if they are trying to inflate a water balloon.
If you do it too, avoid this practice wherever you have heard or learned it.
Alternating between the cold sensation of your breath and the warmth of your tongue,because in this way you can give her pleasure if done well,but not if you treat her pussy like a water balloon.
6.Imitating actors in porn movies
They do not give a realistic representation of reality so do not imitate what you see in these movies.
One of the things you see them do, for example, is to see the actor stick his tongue (as if it were a penis) into her pussy and start rotates his head.
Instead,what you want to do is, lick her but also suck her pussy with your lips and tap her with your tongue at the same time.
These, along with other practices you can find within these movies put into practice by the actor on duty, are just harmful because....
He is there to arouse you being a man and not to give you valuable advice on how to drive a woman crazy in bed.
So if you want some of the best sex advice you can get....
Throw your porn collection straight in the trash!
Now I know you're appassionate of them, I know they're childhood memories...
BUT watching porn only makes you worse. Start having real sex instead.
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7.Sucking too hard
Sucking too hard causes pain or discomfort, not pleasure.
So if you want to give her pleasure...
Don't do it!
8."Come back up" and kiss her
Don't stop when you're performing oral sex!
Some men stop oral sex to go back up and kiss her thinking that this will increase the passion.
Now let me ask you a question.
Let's forget for a moment that many men don't like their own flavor when she sucks you off but, if this problem didn't exist,
"How would you like it if she stopped blowing you to come up and kiss you?"
No,right?
It's the same thing for them.
Stopping oral sex,to go up and kiss her decrease her arousal and ruins the moment.
Stay down!
This is a rule of thumb BUT...whenever something is working: KEEP GOING AND DON'T STOP!
9.Don't take her feedback
No matter how experienced you become.
You can take this statement as true.
After all,I would be better for me to tell you otherwise and tell you that I have found the secret formula to drive any woman crazy while licking her.
The truth is that you can make great improvements in this art BUT every woman is different.
So don't be proud and accept her feedback.
They will help you get even better.
10.Don't finish what you started
We've already talked about this above so I won't dwell too much on the subject but your job is not to stop until she has had a clitoral orgasm.
Only by avoiding these most common and serious mistakes about how to lick a woman,you will become much better than most of the men you've dealt with.
How often should you perform oral sex
Some men are quite confused on the subject and wonder things like,
"Should I lick her all the time?"
"Or should I just put my dick in her vagina this time?"
The answer is: ALWAYS.
Do you get the same kind of pleasure during intercourse if she doesn't blow you?
Well,now you know that oral sex is even more important to her.
And if your question is something like,
"But if I give her an orgasm by licking her,will she still want to have sex?"
Don't worry.... because she wants your dick, too, and she's not going anywhere.
But you simply have to have sex with her in a certain way.
It's like going to dinner...first there's the starter and then the main course.
That's the way it works in restaurants and it's the same thing under the bed sheets so get over it and don't worry about it.
Women are multi-orgasmic and don't make such a big deal about it.
Well... having cleared that up let's look at...
The 6 best positions for oral sex
When we talk about how to perform oral sex the position itself doesn't matter compared with the technique you use.
The technique has a much greater importance.
BUT, as you know, one of the important thrills to give a woman during sex is variety.
And changing the position from which you lick her pussy is definitely something that adds variety to your sex life.
Below are the 6 best positions to lick her pussy.
I'm not going to get too lost with it.
I'll show you them first with a picture and there's really nothing to understand.
1.The classic position
2.She sitting on your face
3.The bow
4.The doggy style
5.The 69
6.The side 69
As you can see, it doesn't take a degree in astro-nuclear physics to understand these positions.
Just keep in mind that in the last two,the pleasure of oral sex is joined by the feeling of connection created by your joined bodies.
Vibrators and oral sex
Many men are scared of using a vibrator as if it would take away part of their virility.
If you are also one of these simply think again.
Using this toy for them is fun and enjoyable and adds variety to sex with her.
I'm not telling you to use them all the time.
And if you're still worrying that if you use a vibrator you're not manly enough as a man then I'll tell you this:
The only thing that possibly can take away your virility is not being a God at Sex and making her enjoy it like crazy.
Everything else are bullshits.
What to do if she has hygiene problems
Here I am referring to a sporadic type of problem that may happen from time to time.
If the problem persists simply let her know or change girlfriends because, just as you have to worry about cleaning your penis before to use, so she should too.
It may happen, however, that from time to time exceptionally her hygiene is not impeccable "down there."
So what to do?
Since telling her,
"Go clean yourself!"
In such a way, may be indelicate... Simply tell her something like,
"I've changed my mind...Today I'll take care of you in the shower.
Let's go play with the bubbles"
And just to leave her no chance to reply,you can pick her up and carry her on your shoulder.
And if for any reason this strategy doesn't work out simply start masturbate her off with your hand.
Problem solved!
BUT..
Don't start sniffing her like a dog because you will only make her nervous by doing so.
Simply if you find yourself in this kind of situation start masturbating her with your hand then look her in the eyes and say something like,
"I can't wait any longer. I really need to get inside you"
The point is that you must not do anything to INCREASE her insecurities because otherwise it becomes much more difficult for her to have an orgasm.
What to do about your hygiene problems
Just as you want her to be washed and perfumed, the opposite is also true.
This means that in addition to washing yourself (which should be the minimum) you must also remove your pubic hair.
This is for a number of reasons:
- Your dick looks bigger
- She doesn't want to find your hair in her mouth while she's sucking you off
- The less pubic hair you have the less it smells
How to get more oral sex
Now I don't want to take away all the romance with a couple of trivial mathematical equations but the fact is...
The more you give her oral sex the more you'll get!
The more skilled you become in oral sex the more you will receive.
Or...being more scientifically... More cunnilingus = more blowjobs :-).
Diversify what you do by involving her or try positions you don't usually do like 69 position.
The point here is:
if you're good in bed you'll get a lot of blowjobs...
if you're not,she really won't care as much about giving you pleasure.
The truth sometimes hurts but better to know it than not and ...
The point is that if she doesn't suck you off as much today as you'd like she probably isn't satisfied enough.
Now though you might ask yourself,
"Okay but what do I do if despite all this she doesn't want to because she doesn't want to do it for multiple reasons or just doesn't like it or finds it disgusting?"
Once in a hundred times I have come across such a type of woman.
Now what I can tell you is that there is a practical solution but there is also a but.
Let's start with the practical solution.
With these kinds of girls the more you are romantic the more you will get oral sex.
This means that, precisely, with these kinds of girls you have to be more romantic, and not grab her head and take her to your dick.
Don't be shy about being romantic when appropriate.
As you know you have to use all 7 emotional levers during sex.
Having said that,the point is that if you are on this site today you may find yourself in two situations:
- You're totally or almost inexperienced and so you're looking for helpful tips to improve quickly
- You're already good at it but, because sex is important to you, you want to get the most out of your sex life.
Now ... if you are in the first situation the fact that she is not a lover of blowjobs is not a card that plays in her favor, but you need to practice and gain experience so you may as well give in to the compromise.
But if you are in the second situation the question is: it is true that you can slowly "educate" her, if sex is a very important part of your life, is it worth keeping a girl or a woman who is cold under the bed sheets?
It's your decision ;-).
How to cum in her mouth
As you know some girls don't like it when you cum in her mouth but for us it's great because:
- Her moving to the last and forcing you to cum on yourself is pretty shitty...let's face it
- When you cum your glans is much more sensitive and having it sucked in that moment is a great feeling
Also here you can make this moment more romantic for her by explaining that you love this feeling just as she loves it when you make her cum while you lick her clit.
But...the same consideration applies here as before.
Obviously there are exceptions but, the world is full of women and if she is cold in bed frankly she is a woman I do not want in my sex life.
Why waste time educating a partner with whom you are not sexually compatible?
In any case since the decision is up to you the general rule of thumb is:
- By making it romantic for her and talking to her gently you can get her to do something she initially does not want
- More you push aggressively for something she does not want to do the less chances you have that this will happen.
Why compliment her when you receive oral sex
We human beings have a constant desire for validation which means...
hearing how good and beautiful we are.
This means that if she is giving you something pleasurable like a blowjob you need to reward her by telling her how good she is and how much you like it when she sucks you off.
"Okay but what do I do if she is not able and is she there biting it off ?"
How to train her to give you blowjobs is a fairly complex topic and I will write an e-book about it.
Having said that everything about training her to do something better when she is starting from scratch or close to it is something that, in my opinion, you should only do if you are in a relationship that you want to maintain.
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Training a girl from scratch when she doesn't know how to do something,takes time,and you'll sooner go out and find another one.
It's not about being assholes.
They simply do the same thing.If you suck in bed, they dump you.
How does your diet affect oral sex
I'm not a nutritionist or a biologist and,I can't even explain why this happens but it seems that:
- Pineapple juice sweetens your sperm
- Celery "increases the range of your load"
Oral intercourse and disease
Now you may still have one more question and that is,
"Can I get diseases from licking her pussy?"
As usual I remind you that I am not a doctor and that the best thing to ask this kind of question is to consult a specialist but I can tell you right now that the answer to this question is yes.
By having oral sex there is a risk of contracting chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes types 1 and 2, human papilloma virus (HPV) and HIV.
Decide to have an exclusive relationship (in which you can hopefully trust) and get tested first.
Well ... I've given you enough information for today to implement in your sex life.
In fact, if you have read this article you now should know more than any man about how to give a woman great oral sex.
Now all you have to do is put them into practice ;-).
BUT.... if you want to take it to the next level here you can discover a lot of advanced techniques to give her crazy orgasms just with your tongue. 😉
In fact you can now get the E-Book "The art of licking"
which will allow you to discover unusual techniques to give every woman multiple orgasms that she has never experienced before,using just your tongue plus the 13 basic techniques and 44 advanced techniques to give her the best oral sex ever.
And remember to get her wet first in the head and then in the body.
Steve