How to create sexual tension?
How do you create that tension between you and a woman to drive her crazy?
Sexual tension can be created in various ways, with verbal, so what you say, with paraverbal, "how you say things," and with body language.
The most used way is through nonverbal, so through body language and "how you say things."
It's something totally natural.
Think about the last time you kissed a girl: chances are that a few seconds earlier your eyes met, you lowered your tone and volume of voice, and you get closer and closer to her.
What we do here is systematize these behaviors so that you know how to use them better.
CREATING SEXUAL TENSION: THE PARAVERBAL
To create sexual tension with a woman through your voice you must:
- Tone of voice: lower your tone of voice, so speak in a slightly deeper tone
- Speed of speech: speak more slowly, take pauses
- Volume of voice: lower the volume of your voice slightly (also because you are getting closer to her)
- Voice timbre: the voice timbre can get softer, more seductive
CREATE SEXUAL TENSION: THE BODY LANGUAGE
To create sexual tension with body language you have to:
Proxemics: get close to her
Glance: catch her gaze then look into her eyes
Physical contact: put your hands on her hips for example.
UNDERSTANDING IF SHE'S READY FOR THE FIRST KISS
Among all these things, looking into her eyes and getting close to her also gives you a way to tell if she is ready for the first kiss.
Many men in fact are hesitant at the fateful moment because they are afraid of women, or rather they are afraid of being rejected, and inside their heads they keep asking themselves,
Should I kiss her now?
When should I kiss her?
What is the right time to kiss her?
Waiting too long for the first kiss is a very common mistake that I also discuss in the free Report: "Seduction: the 37 most common mistakes".
But back to us...
This technique, in addition to amplifying sexual tension, is useful in letting you know if a woman is ready for a kiss or not because,obviously if she is not ready,she will look away before you can get closer with your lips on her mouth.
In Practice you can follow this step once you are redy and try to kiss her:
- Look into her eyes
- Approach her slowly and see how she reacts
- You will show confidence, create sexual tension and drive her crazy!
That's all for today...
Steve