When you are around people, friends, colleagues, relatives or even girls, are you that funny and nice person who can make jokes and make others laugh ?
If your answer is NO , you are probably also wondering how to be funny in these situations.
Perfect: now we will go and see it together but first one important thing ...
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BEING FUNNY: A VERY FAVORABLE ABILITY
Being funny is as important in everyday life as in seducing a woman, but why?
I remind you of a fundamental difference ...
A man looks mostly at beauty, and that is enough for him to sleep with a woman.
For a woman this is generally not enough, because she looks mostly at character.
You must know something very important: a man who knows how to make people laugh part with an edge not only in seduction, but in every other field of life.
Knowing how to be funny and knowing how to make people laugh doesn't mean becoming a comedians 🙂 do not try to be funny at all costs and preparing the right jokes.
Knowing how to joke, make people laugh or be funny, means being an ironic person with others but also with oneself, brilliant and with great confidence.
Well, I'll tell you the first secret about being funny,
How funny you are depends a lot on the context: the more comfortable you are, the more you tend to laugh and joke.
If you think about it, it's not really a secret :-),
indeed it's trivial: do you joke more with someone you just met or with friends?
Great, so you understand what to do to be more funny: treat people as you already know them.
We come here to the second secret: in order not to get into problems with people and treat them as if you already knew them ... you need the right security.
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7 WAYS TO BE FUNNY
Coming back to us, do you think there are ways to be funny and know how to joke with people?
Of course yes! Otherwise what would this article be for ?! Ahaha :-).
1. SELF-IRONY
First of all it is important not to take yourself too seriously , because if you are the first to "make fun of yourself", you will also be the first to be able to laugh at other people's jokes and to know how to joke
So don't be too touchy, or take other people's jokes too seriously, you will make the situation worse and make a fool of yourself!
Self-irony is a sign of great self-esteem.
2. BODY LANGUAGE
Have you ever seen those serious people with a stern expression walking down the street or you meet at the supermarket or bar?
Do they look like nice people?
But above all, would you like to go to them and have a chat?
I don't think so, and do you know why?
Because they have body language that pushes people away instead of bringing them closer.
They express seriousness, severity, and even boredom :-(, they certainly don't have the air of being the funniest people in this world!
Maybe your shyness can make you appear that way sometimes, and even if you don't do it voluntarily, it's important to notice and change your body language .
So be sunny, give a nice smile to the people you meet , even just to the supermarket cashier, by doing so,you will totally change the perception that people (and even girls!) Might have of you, appearing as a funny and sunny person.
Not only that, since your body language influences how you feel, you will eventually feel more open and sunny.
3. BE NICE
After changing your body language, you will also need to be able to be likeable.
How?
In this case I can show you some "rules of comedy" that you can follow:
a.Target :
As you will also read in the example of point 4, in each measure there is a target that can be anything or a person.
As long as the audience you are addressing can refer to the "target" of your joke, which obviously does not concern them (otherwise they could be offended ..).
b. Hostility :
As in a joke there is always a bit of "positive" hostility, which must not be translated into malice.
This means that if the joke goes against a person or an idea, but even if it comes from a little hostility it ends up being funny without being an offense.
c. Realism :
While you are talking to a person, you can try to make a couple of jokes, that have to do with the talk you are having (so something real) and could therefore be funny.
d. Exaggeration :
You have to exaggerate a little bit to make a joke funny, because if you talk about something normal instead, how do you make people laugh?
e. Emotion :
Arouse emotions through your jokes, and I'm not talking about making them cry or move, but another kind of emotion.
You can do this through a mid-measure pause to create suspense, or through a fun question that they have to guess.
f. Surprise :
Always talking about emotions, as in the previous point, to make your joke with more effect surprising other people, for example with a surprise ending to the funny anecdote you are telling.
4. MAKE FUN WITHOUT EXAGGERATION
Teasing, as you have already read in this article , can also be a seduction technique, so it can be used with a woman.
But can it also be used with other people?
Of course, as long as you do not exceed the limit and become an offense , as explained above, because in this case you would look like a bully and you would be unpleasant.
Of course, you also need to be confronted with someone who isn't touchy, but generally no one takes offense at an innocent joke used only to joke.
For example, if you see that your friend is dressed strangely that day, you can joke on that, jocking on the fact that probably he didn't even look in the mirror before he went out.
As you can see, they are completely simple jokes, not constructed, complicated or prepared in advance.
They are spontaneous jokes , borned from the situation you are in.
5. CHEERFUL TONE OF VOICE
How do you distinguish a joke from a simple sentence in a speech as well as from the words themselves?
From the tone of voice a person uses.
If your jokes are spoken in a funeral tone, you will surely end up boring a person instead of making them amused.
Your tone should be cheerful, funny ,not too serious.
So it is important that you know how to differentiate the various tones of voice and use them in every situation.
6. PREPARE IN ADVANCE
Earlier we talked about the fact that jokes don't have to be prepared at home, so why do we talk about
"Prepare In advanced now"?
In this sixth point I recommend that you prepare some speeches to make,if you know that you will meet new people and you would like to be able to start a conversation.
Especially when you have never been a very outgoing person, and maybe a little shy, you may miss speeches when you meet a new person, even a girl for example, and if you don't know what to talk about you won't even be able to make a few jokes..
So if you know you're having trouble I highly recommend doing the conversation exercises you can find in Magnetic Conversation
7. ALWAYS BE YOURSELF
Here we are at the classic phrase that is used in every context, in seduction as in other fields.
But this does not mean it has little value, indeed, it has a very high value!
Being yourself doesn't go against your desire to change , or to be more funny with people, in life as well as in seduction.
Being yourself does not mean pretending , so showing yourself as someone else,to get attention, and it is very important to know this limit.
Being yourself is also being able to develop those skills in which you see yourself lacking or in difficulty about your personality, and those aspects that may already be within you but that you cannot bring out.
You may find that you are a bright and nice person, capable of being funny and making people laugh, but your shyness, for example, has obscured this ability.
So YES to improving yourself more and more and to develop certain skills while always remaining yourself, but NO to pretending or showing yourself what you are not.
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The difference is a fine line, but the more you go on with your improvement process, in life as in the seduction of a woman, the more you will be able to understand this line ...
And by staying yourself and developing these skills, you will also be able to be more fun and ironic with other people ;-)!
Steve