If you have landed on this article it is most likely that you are asking yourself,
"Did I land on one of those classic articles that talk about positions in bed and
say only 4 platitudes put in a cross?"
If you are wondering this is most likely the first time you landed on this site but...in a word: NO!
All this is to tell you that if you are a lover of the doggy style position you better take the time to read this article all the way through as that is my promise...
Once you get to the end you will say to yourself...
"Could I really have done all that during doggy style?"
In fact, in today's article we are going to look at...
- 18 useful tips for how to make a woman enjoy in the doggy style position
(Yes: eighteen, I didn't make a mistake with the keyboard)
.. hold on.... now we're getting started and your doggy-style women won't recognize you anymore...
Doggy Style Position: 18 Tips to go from donkey to horse
"Is it possible or is it just a good title?"
You may be wondering..
it is absolutely possible and it is my goal for this article to give you the skills to do it.
And this is something you can accomplish for two reasons...
- you are doing things wrong
- OR you are not doing things that should be done
How do I know?
Because otherwise you wouldn't have clicked on an article that tells you how to get better at doggy style.
But don't worry. In fact getting better at sex is a very fast process when you know what to do.
But feel free to use my madness to your and his advantage under the bedsheets to become a master of the doggy style position right away.
Okay let's go over everything that needs to be fixed.
(It may be that some of the things I mention in this long list you are already doing correct.
If that is the case simply move on to the next one).
Find out how to give STRONG MULTIPLE ORGASMS to your woman, so strong that her whole body vibrates:
1.She is not a man
"Steve you promised me an article with a lot of interesting news that I didn't know and start by telling me that she is not a man.
Ok you think you are the god of the universe but so far I had gotten there"
Ok...I admit...it sounds like you are giving yourself away as a poor imbecile with that title but let me explain further because actually this point is crucial and many men miss it.
The woman compared to a man have a different arousal process that leads many women to think that we men are a...
Erection with two legs...
This depends on the fact that since it is your favorite position....
You want to give yourself to doggy style sex right away without take into account at all the facts that her arousal process is different from yours.
In this sense calling doggy style as Americans, is much more accurate simply because many men jump in as if they were a dog for real.
And if you do this, you simply show that you have no competence regarding how to make her feel an orgasm.
And not knowing how to give a woman an orgasm is not exactly an attractive trait for a sexual partner.
So you "have to" do a lot of foreplay before you move to doggy style.
I don't get too lost on the subject because I wrote a very detailed article on why and how to do it.
Now I understand that maybe you have been in a relationship for a long time and the passion is not what it used to be.
But... If you skip foreplay,for her you simply start doing this position with a level of arousal that is not sufficient for her, you will not bring her to feel an orgasm.
Now I know this may seem like just a little thing to you, but not doing it transforms doggy style from one of the best sexual positions,to one that will most likely only make her frustrated because you are ejaculating into her when she is still at the starting phase.
2. Make her assume the correct position
When you do doggy style, it is very important that she assumes the correct position.
Explain it to you in words is a bit difficult so I'll show you in the picture below and you'll see that you'll understand everything right away.
3. Make her work too
Who said she can go into pilot mode or do we have to do it all?
Nothing could be truer especially when we have doggy style sex.
What she needs to do is to have a Kegel exercise routine.
Doing Kegel exercises will lead to her having results closely related to this position:
- Her vaginal walls will be strengthened making penetration more pleasurable
- But most importantly she will be able to "squeeze" your dick during your strokes with voluntary contractions
Now, you may have already gotten there on your own, this will make the friction during sex more intense.
So to enjoy this position to the fullest and take sex to a whole other level you need to be able to control your duration.
Doggy style is actually one of the best sex positions for her.
If you think about it, as we have said many times, one of a woman's main needs in bed is to be dominated by her man.
And doggy style is precisely one of the positions that allow you to express this dominance and, to her, to express her vulnerability.
All this, however, is not true if you are faster than Superman.
4.Give her less deep strokes
If you think you have durability problems shallower strokes can definitely give you a hand.
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Not only that. We can drive her crazy with pleasure even with shallow strokes by going for the G-spot.
Let's see how to do it. In the classic doggy-style position she usually stands like this.
Now what happens is that many men only direct their strokes straight.
Whereas what you want to do is combine this movement that most men do with strokes that go downward,so, toward the mattress to understand us,look the figure.
This will allow you to calm down through less deep strokes and hit her G-spot at the same time so you can continue to drive her crazy.
5. Spank her
This is not the position to tell her how much you love her or for romantic sex but it is the position where you are in charge.
So show her who is in charge by spanking her.
Now don't get me wrong though. The point here is not to hurt her but simply to give her more pleasure.
So start slow and increase in intensity when she gives you signs of appreciation.
6. Make her cross her knees
Once you are inside and have been going for a while make her cross her knees.
This will add a lot more pressure and friction for both of you.
7. Masturbate her clitoris
Doggy-style girls love to be masturbated while you penetrate them, and on balance you should be able to have at least one hand free.
I don't get too lost in instructions about how to masturbate her clitoris as I wrote an article specifically on the subject.
8. And from time to time do it with a vibrator
As you know if you follow me you should not be scared of the vibrators as they might take away your masculinity because you are a man and you have to do everything yourself.
This kind of toy gives you a hand in making sex more varied and spicy.
9. Take her by the hips
When you increase the speed and power of your strokes take her by the hips.
This will help you to give her stronger and deeper strokes.
10. Make her pussy lips wet with the lube
As you penetrate her, take some lube and run your finger over her pussy lips.
This will give her a sense of double stimulation.
11. Stop and make her do everything
Stop.... You have to do it for real.The firmer you are the better and make her go back and forth.
This helps some women feel deeper penetration.
12.Pull her hair
This is also one of those movements that communicates dominance.
It is super simple and requires only one caution.
In fact, pulling her hair may hurt.
Adjust the intensity by starting slowly.
13. Talk dirty to her
We have already mentioned that this is not the position for romantic sex.
So what you want to do is to increase her psychological arousal through dirty talking.
I am not going to dwell too much on this topic because I have written a very detailed article about it.
You can dirty talk to her in two variations while she is doggy style.
In the first case,while you are hitting her with yours strokes. In the second case,when you stop.
14. Use a pillow
Simply by placing a pillow under her knees you can slightly change the angle of penetration causing her to experience new sensations of pleasure.
15. Play with the position of her legs
This is a very simple and little trick but a bit difficult to explain in words.
So I will show you a picture below and you will see that it will be immediately clear to you.
As you see from the picture she can moves one of her legs forward and the other back to slightly alter the sensation during penetration.
16. While you fuck her you take a little break to lick and masturbate her
Arrived at this point you may need a moment's respite.
No problem. simply get out and start licking and masturbating her while you calm down.
17. Don't forget about her other erogenous zones
As men when we are faced with a woman enjoying doggy style we often forget to increase her pleasure by working on her erogenous zones as well.
In fact, when she is doggy style it is very easy to stimulate her nipples or lower yourself and lick her earlobes.
18. Equip yourself with a mirror
Place a mirror over the headboard of the bed.
This will allow you to maintain eye contact even from this position that normally makes it impossible..
Looking into each other's eyes through the mirror will make the experience even more exciting for her.
In fact, as you have seen, most of the tips you found in this article are small technical things you can fix today.
The only thing that might take you a little longer is to work on your durability .
Well--as promised finished reading this article you should be a master of the doggy style position....
that's all for today.
And as usual remember....get her wet first in the head and then in the body