Today we are talking about fingerbanging how to fingering perfectly.
How to finger a woman is in fact a real art,and in this article we are going to reveal it.
How to finger a woman is not something in which you are born learned in fact here we are going to see:
- Mistakes that you should NEVER make during fingering...
- How to finger her at the right time during sex
- How to finger a woman: 15 techniques
- How to make her squirt with a fingerjob
- How to finger a virgin girl
So... how to finger a woman in practice?
Let's start, as usual, with the mistakes not to make because, when we learn how to properly do something we started as self-taught, the best thing to do is always to go and avoid those mistakes we carry around with us.
Mistakes you should never make while you're fingering her
Read this chapter carefully because, even if you don't know WHAT you should do,avoiding the main mistakes (and I'm sure many of you are making them) make you a way better than the others men she finds around.
1.If you find a winning rhythm, don't change it
When you find the right rhythm to give her pleasure, don't change it. Literally the change of rhythm, when you've found the right one can bring you back and ruin what you've done so far. So when her body language, her moans or her explicitly with phrases like, "Don't stop" ... tells you that you've found the right symphony stick to it until you make her cum.
In fact, one of the main mistakes of men is to change just when they are doing it right.
2.Avoid the backside (ass)
Many men think that getting to work her asshole while they are masturbating her from the front is a good idea.
DON'T.
Take care of her vaginal orgasm first and then think about anal sex.
I won't dwell on the subject because I have already written an article on the correct sequence to get to anal sex.
3.Don't peek for approval signals
Don't stare at her for approval signals but read her body language.
She needs to know that you know what you are doing in order to let herself go (we will see this in practice in a moment) so use her body language and her noises as your only indicators.
They are really all you need.
4.Don't be squeamish
If for any reason you find the smell of her vagina rather strong remain impassive and pretend nothing is wrong.
Women have so many insecurities about the part of their body so don't make weird faces or you will completely ruin her immersion and pleasure during sex.
5.Don't "get caught up in the passion"
Many men in the 'excitement of the moment start to "rummage" down there too eagerly as if they were trying to operate a remote control with dead batteries.
What you need to do instead is to start extremely slowly and softly so you will give her time to get aroused and wet properly and then increase the rhythm .
5.Don't be "Edward Scissorhands"
I've already told you in other articles about the importance of manicures so you don't scratch her so I won't dwell on the subject but keep in mind that having long nails can completely ruin her fun.
Being okay with these small details is one of the many little things that can make a difference.
6. Don't miss her clit
Really... don't do that... or I'll take away your access to the site :-). So if you have any doubts about how to locate this area download the e-book. There you will find all the explanations you need.
7.Avoid the big mistakes you see in porn movies
As you know on this site I consistently attack many of the things you see in porn movies
because they are made to turn you on being a male and not a woman.
One of these things is seeing the actor sort of slapping the actress' pussy with his hand. If you have ever seen this and it seemed like a great idea to you think again.
You will only annoy her!
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8.Avoid changing techniques when you are doing well
Since you are on this site and learning so many new techniques you may be tempted to try them all like a martial arts student who gets into trying flying kicks even when there is no need.
This is something you absolutely must not do. When you have found the rhythm and technique that are making her enjoy it like crazy, don't change it.
I know that experimenting is a big temptation.
I've been through this phase myself, but when you're doing well, don't change.
You will experiment next time or with the next girl.
Well... Now that you know the mistakes you should NEVER make let's go over when you should masturbate her,so that you do it at the moment that causes her the most pleasure and then let's go over a whole arsenal of techniques to make her cum like never before.
How to finger her at the correct time during sex
How to finger her well also means using your fingers at the correct time during sex.
Despite the fact that on this site you get a lot of informations about that the sex for her being an emotional experience there is still a correct sequence to follow during sex.
A sort of step by step guide that if you follow it you are sure you won't go wrong.
And when it comes to how to finger her you must keep this sequence in mind so that you use your masturbation techniques at the most appropriate time to facilitate her multiple orgasms.
So let's go over this sequence just to make sure:
- Long foreplay to stimulate all her most sensitive areas (tits, ears, neck, lips, hips, belly, feet, etc.)
- You finger her with the techniques you learn here
- Penetration (don't forget the positions that allow you to stimulate her clitoris while you penetrate her with the techniques you learn here)
In case you cum before her remember that you are not done yet and if you are thinking,
"But what do I care "
Think again!
Being a Sex God also means never leaving her in the middle.
So in case you cum before her tell her something like,
"Look what you've done.Now I'll take care of you...."
And go back to masturbating her as you learn in this article and licking her until she cums.
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One note: telling her "look what you've done" and resuming your work seems like a small thing but it is very important because you act like a man without apologizing unlike all the other men who, after a rather embarrassing performance:
- They leave her halfway
- Through AND make her find herself in the awkward situation of having to find her for him excuses like "Don't worry I can see it's been a stressful day for you" when she just wants an orgasm.
Well...now that we've seen when to use your fingers at the correct time let's go over how to give the perfect finger job.
How to finger her: 15 techniques
Let's start with a basic premise: learning how to finger her well is an integral part of sex and your duty as a man, in fact, a finger job done right makes it much easier for her to have a vaginal orgasm.
Below we go over some other interesting techniques.
1. Use the 7 emotional levers and stimulate her mind and body
Combine mind body pleasure and drive her crazy with the practical techniques you find below.
Never underestimate this part because for them sex is an emotional experience unlike us and all the technique in this world are not enough.
I will not dwell on this topic because I have already talked about the 7 levers in other articles.
2. Don't watch the clock
Take your time.If you want to learn how to finger well one of the first rules to internalize is that you are NOT in a hurry.
She is not a slut who starts checking the watch if you go over half an hour.
3.Start right
Don't mess it up in the beginning.
Therefore, NEVER start by stimulating her genital area right away.
Us men, as you know, are different and immediately ready to start once we are aroused.
She is different both psychologically and anatomically.
In fact from the psychological point of view she needs to be stimulated more.
From the anatomical point of view, on the other hand, you have to give time for the blood to flow to the area we are going to stimulate.
4.Slide her pussy
Lubricate your finger with your saliva and slide her pussy from bottom to the top with your finger.
This is a very simple thing to do.
I show you in the picture below.
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5.The Elevator
Move your finger over her clitoris as if it were precisely an elevator moving up and down in a building. Really super simple but if you're still not sure how to do it I'll show you below in picture.
You can give her the same type of stimulation also with your dick 😉
6. 3 O'clock -9 O'clock
Stimulate with your finger her clitoris, back and forth, as if forming an imaginary line from 3 o'clock to 9 o'clock on either side of her clitoris.
Again, all simple and you can accomplish the same stimulation with your penis.
7. Combo
Use in combination the two movements you saw above and the circular movement you discover in the E-Book.
Discover the movement and type of pressure that gives her the most intense pleasure.
7.Double grip
This movement is extremely simple but very difficult to explain in words so I'll show you with pictures what to do in practice.
Bring the thumb of your right hand to the bottom of her vagina as you see illustrated and, again as you see illustrated, bring the index finger of your left hand upward until it reaches her clitoris.
As you see your finger slowly goes up from the bottom of her vagina until it reaches her clitoris.
Now stimulate her clitoris the way she likes it more by keeping your other finger applying pressure to the bottom of her vagina as you see in the picture.
9.Stimulate her U-Spot
Yes I know that between G-Spot, Deep Spot and U-Spot I'm making you very confused but now I'm going to clear it up right away with pictures. You will see that it is so easy.
The only thing you have to do is to locate its U-spot, which is a very sensitive area. You can't go wrong, it's simply indicated below in the figure with a slightly darker color.
Now you just need to do two things: Make sure she is wet thoroughly before you start this type of stimulation Perform the movement ,you see in the figure below
Stimulate her U-spot and clitoris this way and drive her crazy of pleasure with your finger.
10.Stimulate her G-spot
Once you have given her a clitoral orgasm penetrate her with your finger and stimulate her G-spot.
I am not going to dwell more on this topic because I have already talked about it in other articles and you can find everything in the E-Book.
11.Stimulate her Deep Spot
Again, same topic as above. Find out in the E-Book and show her the paradise.
And if you are wondering-"But what is the Deep Spot?"
Most men do not have an idea so don't miss your chance to make her enjoy it like no other man knows.
12.Talk to her
Yes.fingering is not only about getting your fingers moving but also getting her more aroused by talking to her.
Remember that women are much more verbal creatures in bed than we are . Turn her on by dirty talking and whispering to her:
- How much you like her pussy
- How much you like what you are doing and the fact that she is going to cum for you
- That her pussy is your stuff
13.Use toys
Masturbate her with a vibrator as well as with your fingers.
If you have a vibrator (if you don't it's a great idea to buy one) with one hand you can stimulate her G-spot and Deep Spot and with the other you use the vibrator.
For now make this information your own but I will be writing an article soon on how to use a vibrator the correct way.
Whichever toy you choose remember to lubricate them well.
14.No pity
If you are still inexperienced maybe it might take you a while but you will see that slowly as you learn and internalize these techniques and learn how to finger her and make her cum it will be as simple as tying your shoes.
15.Now it's your turn
Now that you've made her cum like crazy... it's your turn!
Well... now that we've seen all these techniques on how to masturbate her let's go look at one of the most powerful of them all...
How to make her squirt with a fingerjob If you didn't know, squirting is the equivalent of male ejaculation for a woman she has a real spray ejaculation.
This is one of the most powerful orgasms she will ever experience and one that she will most likely not experience with any other partner in her life...so it is definitely worth learning how to do.
For this technique you need nothing but your hands and fingers. The only disadvantage is that making a woman squirt is not super easy so you will need some practice to learn how to do it on a regular basis.
Since the topic is complex, I wrote an article specifically about it. And now let's go over the last question you might have been left with about how to masturbate a woman and that is...
"What if my girlfriend is a virgin? How to finger her?"
Here my friend, if you have this problem, I have to give you good news and bad news. The good news is that usually the fear a girl has about her virginity is the rupture of the hymen.
Now the hymen may have ruptured, from non-sexual causes (or because she broke it by masturbating herself), before your intervention and that makes it easier.
In fact, all you have to do is apply the techniques you find on this site simply by using a little more care towards her and taking more care to get her to relax because, because of her experience, she will be more tense than a normal girl--as she normally is.
The bad news, on the other hand, is that if her hymen hasn't broken yet, there are no magic pills.
That is, you have nothing to do but apply all the information you find on this site more slowly and gently.
In general you simply have to:
- Set the atmosphere
- Make long foreplay by complimenting her and relaxing her
- Show confidence in what you are doing and reassure her
- Penetrate her more gently than you would with a normal girl
- Have towels under her so that she doesn't have to worry more than she has to about any bleeding
- And in general don't make a big deal out of it...in a little while you will both be laughing about it.
I know you would have liked some magic tricks but...sorry there are none.
Anyway soon I will write an article on how to make love to a virgin girl so you can relax her as much as possible and make her enjoy the experience to the fullest. For the rest.
Good luck ;-).
Steve