Today let's talk about how to make a woman enjoy in bedroom driving her crazy.
In addition to the usual technical part,in this article I will also provide you with a series of unequivocal indicators to make sure that you know how to pleasure her to the fullest.
From one side you will have a lot of indications on how to arouse a woman and give her pleasure, if you don't know how to do it yet, and on the other side you will have a series of indicators that serve as a "proof" to be sure,without any doubts, that you know how to make her enjoy and reach an orgasm.
Similarly, if you see that these indicators are not present in your relations, it means that there is work to be done and you need to learn how to make her enjoy more and what techniques to use.
Specifically today we will see:
- Why making a girl cum is not what you most likely think
- Why you don't need to worry if you still don't know how to turn on a woman in bed
- How you can learn how to turn women on even if you are starting from scratch
- The 7 emotional levers
- The unmistakable indicators that you know how to turn women on and make them crazy with pleasure
- How it changes your life (sexual and not sexual) when you are able to pleasure her in bed
- The 3 mistakes you should never make if you want to pleasure her
- 5 mistakes you should NEVER make
- 12 secrets to becoming a Sex God and driving her crazy in bed
- 22 really simple techniques to apply
- And finally, where to start to learn how to pleasure her and cum
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Why Making a Girl Enjoy Isn't What You Most Likely Think
Most men after hours and hours.... and hours of "training" on Youporn,think that making a woman cum means making her moan and scream like Xena the warrior princess in battle.
This is not the reality of the situation.
The aroused woman you see "enjoy of pleasaure",cum over and over again in porn is just because she is acting to make you feel excited (as a male).
That is, she is just following a script in which the director tells her to act like she wants to drive the man crazy in bed.
But women who enjoy behave differently, and so expecting this kind of reaction from a woman in bed in the real world can definitely mislead you.
In fact, often if they behave this way, they are pretending to orgasm because having sex with you is as much fun as doing it with a pillow.
Don't get me wrong....when you get good at stimulating and pleasuring a woman in bed you shouldn't expect exactly composed reactions..
BUT
the only real indicators that you are doing your job as a man under the bed sheets,we'll see in a moment and they have nothing to do with what you see in porn.
Now, however, you may be asking yourself,
"BUT THEN IF SHE DOESN'T MOAN AND ENJOY IT LIKE A PORNOSTAR WHILE I'M FUCKING HER, DOES IT MEAN THAT SHE DOESN'T WANT TO MAKE ME PLEASURE?"
That's not the point.
The point is that just as we are different from them and therefore often analyze sex from a male perspective, they fall into the same mistake.
So it's not that she doesn't ask herself,
"HOW DO I MAKE ENJOY HIM IN BED?"
The point is that she doesn't have the tools to assess how to do it,because she doesn't watch porn overnight.
So as you see how to make a man enjoy and how to make a woman enjoy are two different things, and you need to be aware of this difference.
Why you don't have to worry if you still don't know how to turn a woman on in bed
Yes because ...
to make a long story in short, when I was still clumsy in bed, I used to play a lot of sports.
Not that I'm not doing sport today but the point is: In the shower they all looked like great experts!
All experts in making a woman horny!
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(they all seemed to have, in one way or another, owning miraculous techniques to make her cum...
if I remember correctly the most advanced was to slap her ass to show her who was in charge :-))
By the way...spanking a woman, even if is a sexual technique that works and it also works well in many cases.
Thanks in part to the help of 'alcohol everyone seemed to have cracked the secret code for making a woman horny and to know endless methods of making women enjoy..
And me, with little experience and little confidence,I had no trouble believing that I was quite intimidated because, when you are around other men, it seems that under the bed sheets they are all genetically engineered machines to make women moan and cum like a female cat in heat.
Only when you start getting really good in bed, women get into a deeper state of connection with you and what you find out is that actually most of their partners suck and they have a hard time coming, even achieving a single orgasm.
All this just to tell you that...
Knowing how to stimulate and turn women on is not a title you give yourself by self proclamation in the shower or at the bar between friends.
How do you learn how to turn women on even if you start from scratch
By the way how to turn a girl on is not even something you discover under the bed sheets.
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The truth is that practice is VERY important...don't get me wrong.
But the problem is that, usually, the only indicators you get from a woman to see if she is experiencing pleasure, during sex it's through her body language.
But it's very rare that she gives you clear signals on what she likes, what she enjoys most with.
There are some sort of "labels" and good manners in bed that make this sort of exchange of information rude in a couple, especially a casual one.
Let me explain further with an example.
Right now I am learning a foreign language and writing this article from abroad.
Although I certainly make a few grammatical errors when I speak, it is very rare for native speakers to correct me, because they find it a lack of politeness or otherwise think it is not their problem.
So I have to do my own theory lessons,test in real life, and when I see a weird face (an indicator that they didn't understand what I said) be the one to ask and then go back to the theory at school to not repeat the same mistake.
In bed,it happens more or less the same thing.
It happens very rarely that a woman "corrects" you while you are fucking her and gives you suggestions on how to make her enjoy in bed.
So the only thing you can do is to learn (on this site for example ;-)):
- How to arouse and make a girl cum
- The spots to stimulate to arouse and make a girl cum
- Tricks to arouse and make a girl cum
- Secrets to make a woman cum
- Techniques to make a woman cum
How to make her enjoy you more through the 7 emotional levers
There are 7 emotional levers you can use during sex that will make you better in sex compared to any men she is likely to meet.
And these are the 7 emotional levers you learn how to use on this site.
If you want to drive her crazy and you want to learn how to fuck and turn a woman on this is where you have to start because these are the basics.
In fact as you've seen in the porn videos getting a man turned on basically means getting naked, taking his dick in her mouth,and moaning like a slut while he is fucking her.
Turning a girl on means getting her wet in the head first.
This article is already very long so I don't want to add too much informations to it.
if you want to learn more about the 7 levers click here...
The unmistakable indicators that you know how to pleasure
and drive women crazy with pleasure
If you're wondering...
"OK BUT THEN HOW DO I KNOW THAT I HAVE BEEN ABLE IN THE ART OF HOW TO TURN ON A GIRL ?"
There are some specific signals, which you find outside the bed, that you are regularly able to drive women crazy in bed,so,that you are making good use of the advices you find on this site and becoming a Sex God :-).
Some of these are:
- She actively seeks you out, and you are no longer the one who has to do everything
- She writes you first
- Her texts are spicy
- She moves her ass to see you, you no longer have to bang your ass left and right
- She cancels other commitments to see you
- She doesn't think about other men
- She becomes much more submissive to your requests
- She makes an active effort to be alone with you
- She gives you gifts
- She is not interested in other men at all
- She moves around to see you
- She cooks for you
- She doesn't bother you if go to play soccer or play Playstation
- She doesn't bother you if you haven't taken out the trash
- And much more
In short,your life gets a lot easier!
So the fact that you have become a god in bed for her is not some kind of noble title to boast about in the shower, but something you earn in the field that you can evaluate yourself with specific indicators.
How your life (sexual and not sexual) changes when you are able to make her enjoy it in bed
If your woman or a woman you are dating does not enact most of these behaviors the truth is only one:
The girl in question is not satisfied in bed!
On the other hand, you might be thinking,
"BUT A WOMAN LIKE THE ONE YOU DESCRIBED ABOVE IS THE PERFECT PARTNER"
That's right.
I'll make it simple for you.
Stuff that can be digested even by a child.
When a woman is satisfied in bed your pain in the ass decreases by at least 90 percent because she feels she is with a real man and that means she starts to be more compliant in everything.
And this applies both to women you are in a relationship with and to women you decide to see occasionally.
If you read carefully you will have noticed that I used the word DECIDE.
This is because when you are one of the very few men out there who know how to stimulate and pleasure a woman in bed she has no choice and she will stick with you, even if you just want her as a friend with benefits.
On the other hand, if a woman is not satisfied in bed she will become the biggest pain in the ass on earth.
When I think back to the attitudes of my girlfriends had before I learned these things,
I can only honestly say one thing...
they were more annoying than a couple of chronic hemorrhoids!
But it was not their fault. What you have to realize, even if you think otherwise now,is that women are much more sexual beings than we are as men.
This means that being with a partner who doesn't make enjoy them in bed and doesn't make them cum brings them into a state of frustration.
And what do people do when they are frustrated?
They take their frustrations out on the first person they find next to themselves.
and the person may be you.
Knowing how to arouse a woman + make her enjoy = much less pain in the ass
Satisfied woman = woman who cares about getting her man horny, enjoying and stimulated where and how he likes it
Dissatisfied woman = pain in the ass, being left and the probability she will cheats on you
As you see learning how to make a woman enjoy is not something that only improves your life in bed but improves all aspects of your life and your life as a couple in general.
Well... now let's go and see how to do it in practice...
How to make her crazy in bed
In this section of the article we will first go over:
- 8 mistakes you should never make
- 11 tips to make a woman cum.
Let's start with the mistakes because, if you are making them yourself,
you need to go and correct them immediately.
In fact, even if you're doing everything technically right, these 8 mistakes can change your result,
when it comes to how to arouse and make a woman feel pleasure.
The 8 Mistakes You Must Never Make If You Want to Make Her Enjoy
There is one thing you must understand and accept if you want to become a Sex God.
If you are reading this article today you probably still are not.
And as long as you accept that,and work your ass off to get better, that's perfectly fine.
The worst thing you can do instead,it's thinking that you can do without this stuff just to protect your ego.
Let me tell you,I have been through this before than you:
when I had to learn this stuff from scratch it was a hard pill to swallow for my ego.
Admitting to myself that I didn't know where to start to make a woman enjoy in bed was not easy.
But it's better to "admit" to yourself and work on it, than to hide the dust under the bed
because believe me...every time you have sex the dust will pop up!
As you know in fact many men out there think they are great lovers without actually knowing absolutely what they are doing.
What we are now going to look at,are the kinds of mistakes these men make,and how you can eliminate them right away.
If you find yourself in these kind of things you definitely need to change what you do if you want to learn how to fuck and turn a woman on in the bed because there is nothing worse than thinking,
"Yes...I'm a Rockstar and a Sex God"
When in reality you're not and so, and you keep repeating the same mistakes,
even though you now think you're doing everything right.
In fact there are so many men who think they are good in bed or at least decent but then run into situations like her saying,
"No look...really tonight I'm too tired"
If this is not a reaction that really happens once a year,after she's been breaking rocks,it means that,you should most likely change your perspective from:
"I'm a God of Sex"
To
"Maybe I'm closer to Mr. Bean"
And I'm not telling you this to be a braggart or to put you down but simply because I've been through these situations myself and I know what it's like to lose your virginity late, not get it hard because you're nervous, last 30 seconds, make embarrassing scenes without making her cum, etc.
But today I know everything there is to know and how to do it because, when you are very poor at something, you have the boost to improve and so now,I am able to tell you everything that you are eventually doing wrong,so that you can improve and learn how to fuck to make her crazy and how to make her cum.
So let's see what situation you might find yourself in,and why, if you found yourself in this situation,
she certainly isn't going crazy in bed.
1. You're not able to make her cum
This is something that happens when you can't make "your friend" down there come hard or,
especially in those positions that create more friction and,you cum too soon,
and you can't make her have a vaginal orgasm.
Needless to say, if you find yourself in this situation, you have a problem that needs to be solved.
It is something much simpler than you think, solve it,BUT it has to be done otherwise you cannot make her reach an orgasm and she will not experience pleasure with you.
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You may be thinking something like,
"But what if I avoid the positions with more friction so that I last longer?"
If you have been thinking that,I can tell you that,I have thought that too in the past, and that is a huge mistake.
In fact, the positions that create the most friction between you and her....
are the best positions for her to enjoy the sex.
So avoiding them to last longer is just a fake solution to the problem
as you are shooting yourself in the foot.
So the solution is not to avoid these "dangerous positions" but simply to learn how to last longer so that you can quietly enact the positions to make her enjoy more.
Make sense right?
And consider that, from her point of view if you have a problem with duration and premature ejaculation, she simply will not want to see you again because she is not sexually satisfied,she will cheats on you.
I'm warning you....
But ... you may be asking yourself,
" Why would she cheat on me?"
What you have to realize is that she is not a slut and cheating on you is not her fault but,
simply, it may be that she is attracted to your certain qualities such as the fact that she is comfortable with you as a person ... or she is simply the kind of woman who needs a partner in her life and at that moment she found you.
But, even if she doesn't want to cheat on you, when you don't know how to turn a woman on in bed ...
That you like or not things always end up that way.
In the past I have made this mistake of blaming any cheating or breaking up on her,or on the fact that she didn't care enough,when the reality was that...
I should have simply examined my conscience and learned what turns women on and how to turn a woman on.
So my advice is that you have to learn from my mistakes so that you don't make them too.
In fact this can be a really frustrating problem because sometimes happens that a woman that likes you, at first seems to be infatuated,and after you have had sex with her once or twice she totally changes her attitude.
But I repeat.
Is not her fault because she is a slut.
The point is that sex in relationships is something really fundamental, and so if you find yourself in this categories you have to run to solve them because:
- It's humiliating for you as a man when you can't get "your friend down there" hard or cum too soon because you're nervous
- It's also humiliating for her because she finds herself thinking it's her fault that you can't get hard.
2. You are emotionally impotent
This is a problem that many guys have and it is a disaster for your sex life.
In fact, for her, sex is an emotional experience and that means...
You can't learn how to drive a woman crazy with pleasure if you can't give emotions to her!
And although this from a male point of view may seem "incomprehensible" ,but the truth is that she needs to feel emotions while having sex with a man like an heroin addict addict needs his dose of heroin.
- The truth then is that you can learn:
- All the positions that make her cum more
- How to touch a woman to make her cum
- All the tricks to fuck and make women cum
- have in your locker an arsenal with all possible and imaginable tools to make a woman cum
But if you don't learn to unlock your emotional part during sex
you will never become a master in this 'art.
The problem is that we men are mainly focused on the physical part.
And women notice this in fact they spend a lot of time and money shopping and buying provocative clothes, going to the, hairdresser, getting their nails done, putting on makeup and making themselves beautiful in general.
But the point is that men go crazy for physical features while women go crazy for emotions.
And that's exactly why I'm stressing you on this site about using the 7 emotional levers during sex--because what you have to do is give her a wide variety of emotions.
You have to incorporate emotions into sex.
Women want to have sex as much as and more than you in fact but they don't simply want a penis going into their pussy otherwise they would use a vibrator instead of sleeping with you.
So how to make a woman feel pleasure is not something you can do just technically, it's not just about positions and techniques. Sorry.
I know men like patterns and systems to simply follow to the letter but that's not how it works with them.
3. You are a pussy
Being a pussy in real life means that you most likely carry this kind of problem in the bed as well.
By pussy I mean the kind of man or guy who will do anything to please you and then not act like a man and constantly come up with phrases like,
- "Where do you want to go for dinner?"
- "How was your dinner?"
- "Do you want anything else?" Etc.
Don't get me wrong.
There is nothing wrong with being considerate BUT this has to be just one of the character traits of a Sex God because if end up being the 'only one,she doesn't feel guided and dominated by you.
And don't think that I want to bring you down but I am convinced that if you are in this situation, even though the truth may hurts,it is better to know it and change your behavior instead of going on making the same mistakes over and over again finding yourself failing without understanding why.
I used to behave like this myself and.....you have no idea how many women I liked and I literally flushed down the toilet because of this problem.
Women want to be driven and so if you're this kind of man you simply have to change because you can't drive them crazy in bed,also because,if you're like this in real life,you can't immediately turn into a bull in the bedroom because, as soon as you try to be dominant with her, you might be faced with responses like:
"What the heck are you doing?
" Okay...
We've got the three types of lovers you DON'T have to be to drive her crazy in bed.
Now let's look at
4. Thinking she doesn't want sex as much as you do
This more than a mistake in the bed is a mindset of some men.
But don't underestimate it just because it is not something strictly technical.
In fact, if you think she doesn't want to fuck you, you will approach sex with her in an insecure and pleading manner and this will ruin her experience.
How to turn a woman on is not just about using the 7 levers or being good at a technical level but also knowing that she wants to have crazy sex and it's not something you have to beg or put her on a pedestal for.
She wants to get laid!
She wants to have sex and enjoy herself as much as you do but, if she perceives that you see sex as a reward or a gift from her to you, she will lose so much of her natural sexual drive.
There is nothing less horny for a woman than being the man of the couple.
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5.Go straight down there
To make it simple for you, we men when it comes to sex are like switches.
On or off.
Women are more like those volume modulators you find on radios.
This is to tell you that if your approach to sex is to stick a finger in her pussy right away instead of going through foreplay, you are not only getting it all wrong on a technical level but you are also proving yourself to be a man of little sexual value because you show in one that you have little experience and a poor ability to understand the needs of the opposite sex.
Don't get me wrong...Learn:
- How to lick the vagina and have great oral intercourse
- How to finger her
- How to give her an amazing clitoral orgasm
- How to make a woman cum with great vaginal sex
These are all basic things and if you don't know how to do them you're finished...
BUT you should never make the mistake of jumping on her pussy right away.
And I'm not just talking to you about foreplay.
Even when she's already nice and ready, it's not yet time to throw your dick in her pussy.
Tease her as much as you can.
Especially when she already wants you.....women love to be teased and to feel pleasure!!
6. Treat her pussy like your dick
Don't make the mistake of thinking that she will be aroused the same way you are.
Men and women are different.
Find out and learn on this site how to pleasure a woman with your tongue and read her body language so you can finally do what she likes best during oral sex instead of trying to throw your dick in her too quickly.
Get her wet first before you throw your dick in her pussy,and remember to always use your saliva as a lubricant when you start touching her pussy and clitoris.
These are very sensitive areas and you don't want to cause her pain or discomfort, you want to get her aroused and cum!
If you think you have trouble licking her however, don't worry, an article dedicated solely and exclusively to the topic of oral intercourse will be coming very soon.
7. Skipping foreplay or spending little time on it
Whether you are on this site to learn:
- How to make love because you want to satisfy your woman to the max
- Or how to have good sex because you want to drive all your lovers crazy
You should NEVER skip foreplay.
For female sex, foreplay is a must.
Skipping foreplay indicates that you have no awareness of her needs and desires as a woman and since, as you know, your first goal is to get her wet in the head , you want to make her feel understood in her sexual needs...
Because guess what? The more she feels understood in her needs, the more she feels a connection with you.
And the more she feels a connection, the more she enjoys during intercourse.
8.Do Everything in Your Way
When I tell you about dominance in bed you might be led to believe that you must act like a captain.
Nothing could be more wrong!
Just because you are dominant over her doesn't mean you don't take care of her needs in the bed.
So ask her what she likes best.
Don't make the mistake of thinking that because you read this Blog, and therefore know more than other men around, you know everything.
Knowing what to do is better than not knowing at all.
But don't make the mistake of thinking you know everything because every woman is different.
If you don't keep these things in mind very soon she will get bored and start looking around.
Knowing everything about how to stimulate her private parts, knowing arousing phrases to unleash at the right time while you talk dirty to her, how to give a woman great oral sex, and knowing the positions that help women achieve orgasm will make you outperform better than most other men.
But if you want to become a sex god you have to take an even next step that is how to drive that single woman crazy in her uniqueness.
I will explain this with a very simple example.
Imagine you are a martial arts expert.
You know all the techniques at your disposal.
But during combat with an individual opponent you will use the ones best suited to beat him ... which in this case translates into using the best techniques to arouse and bring any woman to orgasm.
Good.Now let's go see....
12 Secrets to Becoming a Sex God and Driving Her Crazy in Bed
Good. We got to the purely technical part.
That is, here you find a whole series of tips on how to stimulate and arouse her passion and make her feel pleasure.
Being a sex god essentially means having the ability to:
- Make her have multiple orgasms
- Make her have extremely intense orgasms
- Last as long as you want
- Make you dick hard WHEN you want
- You no longer have to worry about the correct positions and techniques because you know them and it becomes like riding a bicycle for you
- How to drive her crazy on an EMOTIONAL level
And that is, about this last point...
- When to be the classic BAD BOY
- When to be romantic
- AND when to use the 7 emotional levers
Start from here
By following me on this site you will slowly learn how to do all these things but, for now, there are a few tips I feel like giving you.
1.Be present in the moment
Being in the moment means that you don't have to have anything else on your mind.
That is, while you are fucking her, there is no thinking about Sunday's game, referee mistakes, or tomorrow morning's meeting in the office.
Getting her crazy in bed and having great sex means not thinking about anything, and I know you might be thinking...
"But how can I do that if I'm not thinking about what I'm doing?"
Don't get me wrong.
It's clear that at first you're going to think about what you're doing because you have to internalize what you're learning but, in order to get her hot and crazy, you want to get to a point where you completely make everything you learn on this site on your own,and do it without thinking about it anymore just giving vent to your most primitive instincts.
Kind of like when you learn to ride a car.
At first you have to think about every single thing but, when you have learned, you can drive safely while talking on the phone or, even better, she is bent over giving you a blowjob.
And...
without going into a sermon on how to acquire a new skill and staying on the subject of sex, I'm sure that today you don't have to be thinking about how to get inside her in the missionary position but you can just let go and fuck her.
But I'm equally sure that the first time you had sex it wasn't like that.
So it's just a matter of learning new skills and putting them into practice.
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2.Stop thinking about the size of your penis or your performance
Thinking about these things only makes it worse.
There are definitely times when you need to "worry" about these things and that is when you are working on your skills to improve them BUT the time is not in the bedroom.
Thinking about it when you are having sex only makes you lose your erection and last less.
You have to understand that sex is an experience IN THE MOMENT so to drive her crazy you want to use your primitive instincts and desire.
Besides that the woman CANNOT reach an orgasm if she is not in this kind of mood and it is your job to bring her there.
3.Don't be a pussy
Women in bed want a Man.
This means that during your sexual relations you must be dominant and authoritative with her.
Women don't want another woman in bed otherwise they would be lesbians.
This means that you have to guide the sexual interaction and that is:
- Do not ask her what position she wants to do
By this I do not mean that you can never ask her what she likes.
This is give attention for her.
But there is a big difference between asking her what she likes one time and having her wear pants.
You don't need to ask her what position she wants to do.
If you see, from her body language, that she is not enjoying it enough or that she is not enjoying it simply take her and change position.
- Talk dirty to her
Now if you are like I was you might be say,
"Aaaarggghhh... But do I really have to tell her this kind of thing?"
Yes you have to because when you talk dirty to her it creates a feeling in her like she is submissive to you and it is really a very strong emotion and it makes her feel that you are in charge and that you are driving the sexual interaction.
It's not about being a jerk or an asshole but showing her that she is in bed with a man.
A good example can be telling her,
"Tell me how much you want me to fuck you"
This is a very powerful question because it is as if in her mind it reaffirms that she really wants you to fuck her and have sex with you.
Also, talking to her dirties this strong male-female sexual tension.
You are not two "friends" having sex but a man and a woman.
If she doesn't answer you right away, don't worry.
It doesn't mean she doesn't want you to fuck her.
It just means that maybe she is a little bit shy or, since she is not used to this kind of attitude with other men, she doesn't want to say something wrong.
So keep telling her until she answers you.
You'll see that she does and...if she really doesn't (rare case) that means it's going to be a pretty boring fuck and she's definitely not the kind of woman you want between your bed sheets.
But you might be thinking,
"But I want a good girl"
Just because she is a good girl in "real life" does not mean that she is not willing to be carried away by you when she enjoys during intercourse.
On the contrary, good girls, when you learn how to lead them and
how to drive them crazy are great in bed.
This is precisely because being a good girl in private life has nothing to do with what her primary desires and instincts are.
The important thing when you talk dirty to her is that you do it with conviction.
Talking dirty to her does not mean learning a few phrases and repeating them to her when you are in bed but it means doing it in a convinced way looking her straight in the eye and really believing in what you are doing.
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So don't worry (like I did :-)). If you talk dirty to her the right way, you won't get rejected.
- Fuck her from behind
Some men think doggy style is too hardcore.
Women like it,so simply do it and do NOT ask.
Of all the positions this one gives her the most feeling that you are in charge.Simply turn her around.
4.Be "possessive"
When I say be possessive I mean let her know that she and her pussy are yours.
This has nothing to do with whether she is your girlfriend or not but it is something that has to do with every sexual relationship you have even if it is the first time you have sex together.
While it would be a lot of crap to tell her that she is yours on your first date and you would just make her run away under the bed sheets you establish a different kind of dynamic.
The more you make her feel like she is yours and you are hers the better the sex will be.
- "You're mine"
- "This is my stuff down here" (while touching her pussy)
These are the kinds of things you want to say to a girl.
5.Little pain
I am not telling you to tie her to the bed and start whipping her :-).
What I am telling you, however, is that women like this feeling because, once again it makes them feel like you are in charge.
So what you can do is:
- Slip her panties off firmly
- Throw her on the bed
- Throw her against the door or the wall
- Slap her ass (in a playful way and if she enjoys it and says she likes it you can do it harder)
As you can see it's not really about making her feel real pain but simply, with these little gimmicks, letting her know that you are in charge.
6.Make sex varied
Even when you become able to last as long as you want,fuck it may not be exciting for her because it is always the same.
And as you know to drive her crazy in bed you have to get her excited and give her an emotional experience...
To do this through variety there are some tricks you can use such as:
- Penetrate her from different angles even if the position remains the same (and this literally means that even if you don't change position, the feeling she feels inside changes)
- Give her variety of emotions during sex
- Don't do the same things ( sex should not become a routine whereby first you have dinner and then you have sex with your partner but something always different.
Change times and places where you do it)
- Realize that you can do the same position in a thousand different ways by using different emotional levers or combining them (by this I am not telling you that you should not change positions but that you can make one same position different each time)
In addition to all this you need to understand something that is very important but for many men is extremely difficult to understand.
And that is that even if you work on your durability and get good at lasting a long time you may still not make her cum.
"But how....if I fuck her for 45 minutes and she doesn't cum? Then what do I do?"
That's exactly what I'm telling you.
Even if you last for 45 minutes during missionary position but the sex is boring and you don't change her emotional state she might not cum.
Otherwise if you send her into different emotional states all the time during sex she will cum a lot.
7. Have sex with her in multiple places
Really for a woman there is nothing worse than turning sex into something to be "boring activity" with some sort of "to do list".
Many men often ask what places women get the most aroused and experience the most pleasure.
The most honest answer I can give you is simply...
I don't know!
Don't get me wrong...
it's not that I don't have some ideas about it, but when it comes to choosing a particular place to give her pleasure and turn her on we enter the realm of her fantasies and, as such, they are subjective.
This means that in this case the best thing to do is to explore them together.
Constantly change the place where you make sex.
Don't stay in bed with her all the time.
Do it everywhere. Bathroom, shower, kitchen, in the elevator, etc.
8. Emotions are the key to being a God in bed
I really can't stress this point more.
If you want to drive her crazy, emotions are the key.
It's not the size of your dick, it's not your fitness (although you should work on that because it affects your durability).
For her, sex is an emotional experience, and when you are able to give her all the emotions she needs in bed the road to pleasure and to making her see heaven is really downhill.
Not only that...emotions create connection, and that means it not only improves your life in the bed but also improves your relationships.
9.You have to talk during sex
9.You have to talk during sex
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