The truth about conversation:
Now, before I reveal to you the ultimate solution to your conversation problems with women, I must tell you something very important. In fact, it is likely that...
EVERYTHING YOU THINK YOU KNOW ABOUT CONVERSATION WITH A WOMAN IS WRONG!
I realize I just made a pretty strong statement, so let me explain what I mean...
"So why would everything I know or think I know about conversation be wrong?"
You might rightly ask yourself...
The reason is very simple...
Almost all men think that when sustaining a conversation with a woman, all the work must fall on their shoulders, and this very often and inevitably leads them to fall into 3 terrible traps:
Trap number 1 :
is where they start bragging about their job, their car, etc.
Trap number 2
is where they start doing all the work they do to keep the conversation going.
And trap number 3
is where, feeling pressured, they simply don't know what to say and they end up in the lurch, blowing it all, even though, at first, the woman may have been interested.
Now let me explain why these traps, if you fall into them, kill the attraction a woman may feel toward you in an IRREMEDIABLE way.
Let's start with a burning truth...
Whether you like it or not, on average, a woman has more choices than a man when it comes to choosing a sexual or romantic partner.
This means that women are ONLY interested in men they PERCEIVE to be of equal or greater value than they are.
And conversation serves us precisely to make you perceive you as being of equal or greater value than her.
Let's go back to the 3 traps so I can better explain what happens in this regard.
Let's start with:
trap number 1:
The man starts bragging to you to impress her...
The moment a person needs to brag to the other person in front of her, he is communicating an inferior value.
Think about it, imagine you meet your favorite singer or actor, do you think he would start bragging to you about his professional achievements or would you be the one who would head him off like a balloon?
The latter, right?
And this happens because, in front of your idol, you perceive yourself to be of lesser value.
Now let's move on to
trap number 2:
the man does all the work to keep the conversation going with a woman.
Basically, in this case, the man in question "invests" much more than the woman does in the conversation.
Imagine for a moment the girl you like, and, although it may be painful, imagine her on a date with George Clooney.
Do you think George would be grasping at straws all the time to keep the conversation going with her or would she instead have to do most of the work with George listening to him and, in between jokes, deciding whether this girl is good enough to end up in bed with?
Still the second!