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EPUB: Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed: Help and Hope for Adults in the Family Scapegoat Role

[Scroll down to read Table of Contents]: EPUB 6.99 USD at online retailers - You'll save $2.00 when you purchase here directly from the author! Were you bullied, shamed, blamed, or rejected by a parent, sibling, or other relative growing up or as an adult? Have you been the target of a 'smear' campaign by immediate or extended family and been left feeling frustrated and confused? Have you tried to reach out for help and support and been told, "You need to get over your childhood"; "Quit acting like a victim"; or "But it's your family, it can't be that bad"? 

Rebecca C. Mandeville is an internationally recognized Family Systems expert, Psychotherapist, and Educator who coined the term 'Family Scapegoating Abuse' (FSA) as part of her pioneering research on family scapegoating dynamics and dysfunctional family systems. In 'Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed', she explores the roots of family scapegoating and how the scapegoated adult survivor can free themselves from 'false family narratives' and become the author of their own lives. 

In this informative introductory guide, the author clearly identifies scapegoating as psycho-emotional abuse while providing a means of understanding why dysfunctional families 'reject, shame, and blame' one of their own.  Via psycho-education, self-assessment tools, and practical steps and strategies, the author describes the abusive aspects of family scapegoating and it's relationship with complex trauma (C-PTSD) and betrayal trauma, as well as ways to dis-identify and recover from the 'family scapegoat' narrative. 

In these pages you'll discover:

  • How to recognize and identify family scapegoating abuse (FSA) signs and symptoms
  • Why scapegoated individuals have difficulty finding help
  • How complex trauma (C-PTSD), and 'toxic shame' impede FSA recovery
  • Why the family 'Empath' can end up scapegoated
  • How to establish boundaries if your trauma response is 'fawning'
  • How to recover and realign with your 'true self'
This life is the only one you'll have, and your story is precious and unique. If you're struggling to understand family scapegoat dynamics and want to recover and reclaim your 'true self' identity, this book's for you.

*FSA Self-Assessment is included but should not be used for diagnostic purposes. 

**Clinicians and Coaches may also find this introductory book helpful. Please read the 'Afterword' for more information and resources.

Editorial Reviews

"This much-needed work by Rebecca C. Mandeville provides a comprehensive introduction to the subject of Family Scapegoating and serves as a starting point for survivor awareness and further research for professionals if they want to begin filling in the gaps for this misunderstood and underserved community.  The author also offers steps to healing with a great measure of compassion."

- Lisa Marie Campagnoli, CRTC, RYT-200, Certified Trauma Recovery Coach 

"A much needed adjunct to the Family Systems model. Recommended for professional and laypeople." 

-Shellie Krick, MSW

TABLE OF CONTENTS (162 pages in Print Form]

1. The Invisible Wounds of the Scapegoat Child 
2. Family Scapegoating Abuse (FSA) Self-Test 
3. 16 Experiences Common to FSA Survivors 
4. FSA Survivors and Disenfranchised Grief 
5. FSA and Complex Trauma (C-PTSD) 
6. Lily: A Case Study 
7. Scapegoating as Family Betrayal 
8. Multigenerational Trauma and the Family
9. The Trauma Response of ‘Fawning’ 
10. Releasing the ‘Family Scapegoat’ Story 
11. The Development of the False Self
12. Recovering the True Self Lost in Childhood 
13. How ‘Toxic Shame’ Interferes with Recovery 
14. Unique Challenges of FSA Recovery 
About the Author 
Family Scapegoating Abuse Survey 
Permissions Statement 

©2020 | Rebecca C. Mandeville | All Rights Reserved

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