Before You Commit: How to Spot a Red Flag That Ruins Relationships
Before You Commit is not a book about fixing relationships.
It is a book about avoiding the one mistake that quietly ruins them.
Many people don’t end up miserable because they loved poorly.
They end up miserable because they chose a partner whose personality could not bend.
This book focuses on one powerful red flag that often looks like strength at first:
the inability to be wrong.
Confidence that cannot be questioned.
Certainty that turns disagreement into battle.
Pride that slowly replaces connection.
Written for people who are dating and thinking seriously about commitment, this book teaches you how to recognize this pattern early, before attachment clouds judgment and leaving becomes painful.
You will learn:
- Why some people turn every disagreement into a power struggle
- How defensiveness predicts long-term emotional stagnation
- Why silence is often resignation, not peace
- How reckless words during conflict permanently change love
- When walking away is wisdom, not failure
This is not a checklist.
It is not about diagnosing people.
And it is not about trying harder.
It is about learning to choose wisely before you commit.
If you want a relationship built on peace, respect, and emotional safety, this book will help you see what truly matters when it matters most.
Because dating is not a test of endurance.
It is a filter.
And avoiding one wrong pattern can change your entire life.
Ref: B708. It contains 67 pages, 8,849 words.
