Becoming Abroad: A Soulful Guide for Solo Women Craving a New Life in a New Country

A deeply honest guide for the woman who knows she’s outgrown her life and feels the quiet call to begin again—somewhere softer, freer, more true.

This isn’t just about moving abroad. It’s about who you become when you finally choose yourself.

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This book is a pouring of love, vulnerability, and deep remembering. It’s what I’ve learned through seven years of living abroad, unraveling from everything I thought I had to be, and choosing something completely different.

I didn’t want to write just another “how to move abroad” manual. You can search the logistics online. What I needed — and what I believe so many women are craving — is a guide that speaks to the real experience. The inner one. The quiet call. The part of you that’s been whispering, “Something needs to change...”

What this book offers is something only lived experience can give you. It’s not just steps. It’s not just strategy. It’s an emotional compass. A reflection. A mirror.

This is for the woman who knows she’s outgrown where she is. Who’s starting to see that the life she built might not be the life that’s meant to carry her forward. Who feels the ache for something freer, softer, more honest.

That ache? I felt it too.

And I followed it.

Not perfectly. Not without fear. But fully.

This book will help you name what’s pulling you. It’ll help you understand why your nervous system feels the way it does in certain environments. It’ll help you explore whether the call to leave is about the country you’re in, the people around you, or a deeper misalignment between the life you’ve been living and the life that wants to live through you.

It’s about more than moving abroad.

It’s about who you become when you leave behind what no longer fits.

Inside, you’ll find stories I’ve never told online. Not because I’ve been hiding them — but because I needed a container that could hold their full weight. These are the truths that shaped me. The ones I had to write down so I wouldn’t forget. The ones that might just meet you exactly where you are.

If you’re standing at the edge of a big decision…

If you’ve been feeling like you need a drastic change…

If you’re tired of pretending you’re okay when you’re not…

This book is for you.

It won’t tell you what to do.

It will show you what’s possible.

And I hope it reminds you that what you’re feeling is valid. That the dream you have is not silly or selfish. That it’s okay to want more. That it’s okay to leave.

This book is your reminder.

Your mirror.

And maybe, if you let it be, your map.

• Nat