DEALING WITH HURTS OF LOVE...lessons from a true life story
When a relationship that has enjoyed intimacy is suddenly severed or disconnected, it hurts and it brings pain to the heart. Disconnected romance is not the only reason for pain but the greater pain emanates from the thought that your hopes and dreams of future life together has crashed.
So if you find yourself in a relationship where your partner’s words aren’t congruous to their actions, it is your choice as to how long you are willing to put up with it. If is sounds like love but doesn’t feel like love, then it probably isn’t love. You know when you aren’t being told the truth. History has the tendency of repeating itself. If your experiences tell you that this person is unreliable, selfish and they never meant what they say, then it would appear that you have some destiny decisions to make.
Begin to believe that you deserve to be treated with the same respect and commitment as you show to them. Set boundaries and if they have no interest in showing you that they love you through their actions, then why do you want to be with someone who is all talk and empty talk at that?
I tell you there is a better life after what is that "his" or "her" name.