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The Cycle Breaking Mama

The 8 session 1:1 program for mothers who want to parent differently to how they were raised, by creating a calmer home and stronger relationship with their child.


You’ll learn how to navigate parenting challenges in a way that fits your family, and set your child up to be the emotionally healthy, well-rounded little person you want them to be ~ through a combination of parenting tools, practices, and resolving your triggers at their root by healing your own inner child.

"I wish I had this ten years ago" - Anna

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"I wish I had this ten years ago" - Anna ⋆

So many mothers set out with the best intentions only to watch themselves repeat the mistakes their parents made...


It makes sense, because that's the only version of parenting you've ever known.


You promised yourself you would raise your own child differently, but when the time comes you don't actually know how to do that.


So you push down how you really feel, you ignore your triggers, and you try your hardest to 'get it right'.


But the tension is bubbling under the surface all the time and, every so often, it spills over and you blow up, just like your parents did.


You feel guilty. You don't want to scare your child, and you don't want to use fear to control them, so you start to compensate.


You give in, you sigh and say yes, you let them lead a little too much, and then wonder how the parenting bit got lost along the way.


You want them to have the calm home you didn't have, but between your rollercoaster of emotions and theirs, it's not looking how you promised yourself it would...


Sound familiar?

This is for you, if you're done with...


  • Blowing up like a volcano over the smallest things and you don't know how to manage your tension or triggers around your family.


  • Giving in to your child to avoid their reactions, because you don't want to use fear to 'control' your child, but you're not sure how to manage their behaviour, hold boundaries, or set limits.


  • Running on an empty tank because you're trying so hard to 'get it right', that you’re physically, mentally, and emotionally drained.


  • Hearing the same old cliches come out of your mouth like 'because I said so' because that's the only model of parenting you've ever known.


  • Overwhelming yourself with information from books, podcasts, and videos... but quick hacks don't stick, or feel right, for you and your family.


MOST OF ALL this is for you if...


you're ready to understand and support both yourself and your child, meeting both of your needs with boundaries, emotional support, and more, so that you can finally relax into motherhood, knowing that you're ticking every box you always wanted to tick.


  • You'll see the difference in the way you connect and your child's confidence and independence will grow from their strengthened bond and secure attachment with you.


  • Their trust in you will increase, because you've become a consistent and predictable haven for emotional safety, they'll feel seen, heard and validated.


  • You'll feel grounded, calmer, and present instead of trying to escape the moment by doom scrolling or being ‘too busy’ around your family.


  • Your patience and tolerance will grow, leading to fewer outbursts and quicker resolutions, plus self-trust in your decision-making.


  • You'll be the rock of your family, able to lead without self-doubt, because even if you snap or blow up, you'll know how to pull it back.

This is exactly what I help you achieve in my signature course & coaching program, The Cycle Breaking Mama


Designed to help you find your way of parenting, the way that fits your family, and doesn't repeat how you were raised.


So that you have a calmer home, stronger relationship with your child, and you know you're giving them the best chance to thrive in life.


I know you feel like you can't 'get it right', you're not sure if you're giving your child too much or too little and constantly worrying what the long term impact will be.


I know how you feel because that was me too - trying so hard to make a difference for our children and parenting the opposite way to how we grew up...


So why doesn't it feel like that's working for you, or getting any easier??


Because the way any of us were raised is the only version of parenting we've ever seen and, despite our best intentions, our childhoods interfere in our adult lives (and parenting).


All you want is to have a good relationship with your child where you make them feel seen, heard, supported, and validated, not controlled or dictated to, like you were.


But you don't know where to start or what to change to make that happen...


WHAT'S INSIDE

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WHAT'S INSIDE ⋆

Here's The Breakdown of What I'll Support You With:

The majority of this program will be me supporting you through our private one to one coaching calls.


I'll be helping you implement parenting tools and practices that work for you and your family, and guiding you through your self-development and personal process to heal your own inner child.


You will also have lifetime access to supporting materials and resources, to integrate your learning and come back to whenever you need them.


PHASE 1: Understanding & Supporting Your Child 

You'll learn about your child's core needs and stages of development, so that you know what to expect and look out for, plus tools and practices, such as boundaries, repair and co-regulation, that make your child feel seen, heard, and validated as well as strengthening your connection.


In our coaching sessions we'll discuss the parenting challenges you're facing and how to manage them in a way that feels right for you and your family. We'll dig deeper into the tools and practices you're learning, and adapt them to suit you, troubleshooting specific scenarios that come up.


PHASE 2: Understanding & Supporting Yourself 

You'll get to know yourself better, with a new level of self-awareness around what you need, to feel more like yourself and more present in your life, plus you'll learn tools and practices to support yourself, so that you can develop your self-trust and confidence.


In our coaching sessions we'll explore how you're feeling as a mother, your identity, your emotions, how you've been automatically reacting, and why, so that we can shift to building on who you actually want to be now and how you want to choose to respond so that you can lead your family, moving forwards.

PHASE 3: Understanding & Healing Your Inner Child 

You'll work through your backstory stage by stage, using specific inner child healing tools and practices to reparent the little girl inside you, who needed more unconditional love and validation than she was given. 


In our coaching sessions, we'll gently explore your childhood stories, the source of your triggers. We'll validate the little girl inside, who has been asking for attention your whole life and, most recently, been interfering in your parenting.


Based on my training, this program is a blend of methodologies:

My approach combines practical parenting coaching and life coaching frameworks, including trauma-aware parenting tools, and a classic inner child healing process.


This ensures you aren’t just learning new behaviours on the surface, but healing the deep root causes of your triggers so that you can confidently lead your family.


Before we finish our coaching together, I'll make sure you feel safe, confident and ready to parent in a way that feels right for you and your family.


And after our time together…


  • You'll have the most crucial parts covered as you guide your child to become a healthy well-rounded secure little person - confidently leading them through challenges and nurturing a healthy and loving lifelong relationship.


  • You'll enjoy moving through their childhood together, knowing you can make mistakes, pull it back with trust and safety, and find the teachable moment to connect on every time.


  • You'll feel a stronger bond with your child, because you're present and connected with them. They'll be happier, calmer and grounded around you because you make them feel seen, heard and unconditionally loved.


  • You'll feel like a real grown up (!) not pretending to keep up with everyone else - because you've released the survival techniques and triggers you were living with.


  • You'll finally relax into motherhood and parenting will feel so much easier, because you know that what you're doing works for your family without repeating how you were raised.

Virtual Tour

Hello 🙋🏼‍♀️ I'm Kerry, your coach


I’m passionate about making a difference ~ by supporting mothers, as they give the next generation a better chance to thrive. I’ve been where you are, which is why I now support other mothers who want calmer homes and stronger relationships with their children.


I’ve always been a big fan of self development, and thought I had ‘done it all’ until I became a mother! It was like a mirror was held up, showing me the generational baggage I was still carrying. I felt the pressure to get it right for my son.


From a very young age, I knew I wanted to parent differently to how I was raised, and break the generational cycle. But when the time came I realised I didn’t actually know how to do that and saw myself repeating the same patterns I promised I would end. I knew something had to change and fast, before my son’s childhood years flew by. So…


Desperate for a solution, I returned to Inner Child Healing, which I had briefly visited in my own self development before I became a mum, BUT I found it profoundly different with my motherhood hat on. I went deeper. Like a detective, I snooped around in my childhood, and my family tree.

I finally got to the bottom of why I was tense, snappy, and on the brink of blowing up at my child, and the people around me, far too often (pretty much daily)...


And on top of that I began to understand myself better than ever before.


After decades of assuming ‘this was just me’, I discovered that my people-pleasing habits, lack of boundaries, refusal to accept help, and my strive for perfection (to name only a few) actually came from the way I was raised. THAT gave me a powerful drive, even more than before, to change things for my son – to protect him from developing those same ‘personality traits’.


Motherhood has been an incredible experience ever since, and it still amazes me every day that we’re moving through his childhood together – in a way that feels right for us, not what works for someone else. I can see the HUGE difference it’s making for my family.


The combination of learning how to parent with confidence, how to heal from my own childhood, and how to REALLY break the cycle (not just try to) has been so LIFE-CHANGING that I decided to retrain and pivot my coaching business to help other mothers like me.


Now I run The Cycle Breaking Mama, where I help mothers move away from struggling to get through each day, while doing 'whatever works', to relaxing into motherhood and ending the cycle of out-dated parenting.

If my story sounds anything like yours,

I would love to help you too.

PRICING OPTIONS

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PRICING OPTIONS ⋆

PRICING OPTIONS:

Payment in Full: 8 Coaching Sessions + Lifetime Access to ALL Course Materials

£875

Payment Plan A: 8 Coaching Sessions + Lifetime Access to ALL Course Materials

£295
per month for 3 months

Payment Plan B: 8 Coaching Sessions + Lifetime Access to ALL Course Materials

£148
per month for 6 months

LET'S CHAT FIRST

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LET'S CHAT FIRST ⋆

You're welcome to book a no pressure chat with me

to check this is a good fit before you sign up

MY CREDENTIALS:


  • Positive Parenting Coach ICAHP, IPHM, CMA, CPD & NCCAP
  • Inner Child Healing Coach IPHM & CPD
  • Life Coaching Diploma CPD
  • Trauma Aware Parenting CPD


MY BACKGROUND:


  • 350+ clients supported through 1:1 & group coaching, workshops, trainings, resources and similar support roles over 15+ years -
  • Past clients include adults & parents, but also children, teens, and young people from 3-25+ years; through roles including house parent, head of boarding, college learning coach, and supporting roles in SEN education & SEN career support, as well as coaching individuals & groups