Who you are and Whose you are - Signed Paperback Edition

Who are you when the life you expected is derailed? Or what if you've never really known who you were?

Maybe you've spent so long adapting to other people's expectations, surviving difficult circumstances, or becoming who you needed to be that you no longer recognise yourself. Or maybe you've never had the opportunity to discover who you were created to be in the first place.

For years, you’ve probably been asking, "Who am I?" and searching for the answer in your past, your pain, your performance, or the opinions of others. But true identity can never be built from the outside in.

Before you can ever hope to find your way back to yourself, you must first answer a much deeper question.

Whose are you?

Because knowing who you are begins with knowing Whose you are. When you discover where you truly belong, you can finally begin to separate the things that have been spoken over you, done to you, or you have believed about yourself, from the truth of your divine design.

Woven with Amanda Nicole’s own story of an abusive marriage, Who You Are and Whose You Are explores the profound intersection of faith, psychology, neuroscience, and trauma recovery. It examines how trauma can shape the way you see yourself and the world around you, why what happened to you can affect the way you think, respond, and relate, and why knowing truth intellectually isn't always enough to change the way you live. Ultimately, it is a roadmap for uncovering who you truly are beneath years of pain and striving, whether you are reclaiming the identity that was buried, or finally discovering the one you never had the chance to know.

Through ten foundational themes, Amanda Nicole explores what it means to know God, understand who you are in Him, recognise the ways trauma can affect the brain and body, and break agreement with destructive patterns. It is not about pretending the past didn't happen. It's about learning to see yourself through the lens of the One who created you.

This book is for anyone who has ever questioned their worth, lost their voice, sacrificed themselves to please everyone else, felt trapped by what happened to them, or wondered if their story has disqualified them from the life they were meant to live.

For the person who has spent years surviving, this is an invitation to begin living.

For the person who has forgotten who they are, this is a reminder.

For the person who has never truly known, this is a beginning.

You are more than what you have done. You are more than what was done to you.

Your past may have shaped you, but it doesn't have to define you.

Who you are matters.

Whose you are changes everything.