Let Me Honest About Dating As a Christian Woman
Like you, I once felt lost on my journey to love as a single Christian woman. I wrestled with questions like:
- How can I date with purpose while staying true to my beliefs?
- What does God expect from me in relationships and as a future wife?
- How can I create healthy boundaries and find a real spiritual connection?
With no one to guide me, I often doubted myself and made painful mistakes. In retrospect, I hadn’t done the self-discovery work to understand what I truly wanted. I needed to empower and equip myself first, with faith as my compass.
That realization birthed my coaching program and the Before the Husband coaching program.
Join me for this 6-week group virtual coaching program
Class begins on Thursday, April 25th at 7 p.m. CST
You will also receive an additional 1:1 session before the 6 week program completes.
A Glimpse Into My Journey
My husband and I discovered each other online. Our journey is rooted in intentional dating guided by scripture, accountability, and purity. Today, as we navigate the joys and challenges of marriage with two little ones by our side, I recognize the hand of God intricately weaving our purpose together.



Sis, I understand the longing in your heart intimately. Reflecting on my path, I had to rebuild my confidence, peeling back layers to confront my struggles and embrace the woman I am, aspiring to become the wife God intended. Now, I invite you to join me on a transformative journey. The Before the Husband Coaching Program is more than a program; it's an opportunity for self-discovery, growth, and the crafting of your unique love story. Just as God authored mine, I believe He can script your love story too.
Are you ready to begin this 6-week journey?

In Just 6 Weeks, You'll Gain Insights Into:
Self-Discovery: Uncover your true self, leading to a deeper understanding of what you seek in a future husband.
Confidence in Dating: Develop the confidence to navigate the dating world with poise and purpose.
Relationship Building: Cultivate relationships rooted in intention, leading to love and lasting commitment.
Communication & Dating with Purpose: Learn to communicate effectively, fostering connections that stand the test of time.
Marriage Mindset & Spiritual Preparedness: Embrace spiritual growth, preparing yourself to enter into a Christ-centered marriage.
This 6-week journey will provide you with:
- A thoughtful workbook with reveal who you are at the core and what that means for relationships. You’ll gain clarity about your non-negotiables when it comes to love.
- Weekly live coaching circles for discussion, troubleshooting concerns in a safe space and keeping each other accountable. You’ll receive my guidance tailored to your needs plus feedback from women who understand the landscape you are navigating.
-You'll gain insight focused to empower you in relationships, as well as benefit from my husband's perspective to provide additional understanding of the male outlook when building connections.
- Most importantly, this program emphasizes self-knowledge, spiritual alignment and intentionality when seeking love. You will learn to date from a place of wholeness rather than lack, tapping into intuition while evaluating partnerships.
I invite you to join our circle of growth and sisterhood, starting Thursday, April 25th. Invest in yourself because you, a remarkable woman, are worth it!
Who is this for?
Women who yearn for a faith-centered approach to dating, providing guidance on maintaining spiritual integrity while seeking a life partner.
Women who want to develop a powerful mindset that empowers you in your journey towards love and commitment.
Women who incorporate self-exploration and vision-building, providing clarity on individual values and a purposeful vision for the future.
Women seeking fun and intentional dating experiences that will lead them toward long-lasting love
Women who seek to establish a supportive community and emphasize accountability, ensuring progress and growth in both personal and relational aspects.
Who this is NOT for:
Those Looking for Quick Fixes:
If you're looking to quickly snag a partner without putting in the necessary work behind the scenes, attempting to cure loneliness overnight, or wanting to rush through the process without investing in personal growth and self-discovery
Individuals Unwilling to Challenge Comfort Zones:
If your primary goal is to date without delving into a transformative exploration of self and relationships, this program may not align with your intentions.
Individuals Not Open to Spiritual Growth:
If you're not open to exploring or deepening your spiritual connection
Those Not Ready for Accountability:
If you're not open to having supportive figures in your life who can hold you accountable
Payment Options
Two Payment Plan
Due to the nature of this program, there are NO refunds.
The introductory price won't last long. Give yourself the gift of self-discovery and growth!
If you would like to have a chat and speak with me 1:1, feel free to schedule a FREE 15-minute Dating with Clarity Call. Click here.
Hear From Other Single Sisters
I enjoyed the going through the Before the Husband study guide. It allowed me a chance to dig deeper into my relationship with God and my relationship with myself. Lucretia is so engaging and kind! I'm so grateful for this study and highly recommend it!
— Reshida
I did finish watching and I completed the deep dive workbook. It felt good to write it all out. Journaling gave me permission to be honest with myself. Even a bit brutally honest perhaps. It was real and messy and the accountability was encouraging. I am concentrating on my spiritual walk and deeping my relationship with Christ. His plan is always plan A. Although I'm still working to discover my purpose, I know He knows it. I just need to have faith and trust in Him. Thank you for opening my mind and my heart and putting a positive spin on this 'before the husband time of my life.
— Jill

Lucretia Haley, M.Ed
Speaker, Author, Podcast Co-host, Purpose & Relationship Coach
Lucretia is the C.E.O. of CreSpeaksLife, a purpose and relationship coach, educator, podcast co-host, and inspirational speaker. She is the author of "Before The Husband: A Seven-Day Devotional for Single Women Pursuing Purpose" and a contributing writer for Super Single Activate and Testimonies to Inspire and Uplift the Single Woman. With a passion for empowering mindsets, Lucretia specializes in teaching single Christian women how to date with confidence and cultivate relationships that lead to lasting love and commitment. As the co-host of the When Marriage and Purpose Collide Podcast, she shares valuable insights and advice on merging marriage and purpose. Through her unique life experiences, Lucretia delivers compelling talks and engages audiences with her inspirational storytelling. As an author and coach, she is dedicated to helping others activate their purpose and achieve fulfillment in their lives.
For any questions, please contact lucretia@crespeakslife.com