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This is for all the single ladies out there.
The best advice I ever received was from a Parisian French girl when I lived in Paris. You know French women are very good at getting the guy. Anyway, after she saw how devastated I was about a man and how it had ruined my being entirely, for weeks she said:
"If you want to attract a man or men into your life, focus on creating a life that you love, without the need of a man. When he sees how happy and amazing your life is, that will catch his attention, and he will be very curious about you. That's what will attract him & other men. You will have an influx of men”
So that is advice from her. Now I’m going to share my personal advice and why I don’t worry or even think about men, and feel complete and fulfilled without a man in my life.
- I believe without a doubt that if there is a man meant for me out there, he will find me, without me laying a finger to find him.
- I believe without a doubt that if a man is not sent my way it is because a, I have a greater purpose to purse or b, I am not yet the woman my man would want to be with
Number one is pretty self explanatory - I believe - so I have unshakeable faith that if there is a man out there meant for me, he will find me.
Number two
A) You have to believe in yourself and in the honor of your existence. You have to believe at all times that you have a greater and higher purpose on this earth. I don't care if you see it or not, you have to believe it. And walk with your chin up searching for that higher purpose until you find it, and until then, you believe it without a doubt.
B) Have standards, and apply those same standards to yourself.
What do I mean by this?
Be the man that you would want to date or marry.
These are my standards:
- He needs to be someone that doesn’t live the conventional 9-5 life / an entrepreneur
- I have to be physically attracted to him
- He has to be a kind-hearted, good intentioned person
- He has to be Godly - believe & fear God, read the bible and go to church
- He has to have class & dress well
- He has to be good with understanding, making, keeping & growing money
- He has to have deep admiration and show appreciation, affection & support for me
- There has to be chemistry between us
- He has to be open minded, cultured and always seeking to educate himself
- He has to have the yearning or believe to be the main provider for me and future children - want & take in the responsibility - part of his self worth
All the points that are self reflective, I need to apply to myself if I want to attract this man, I have to be him. So I believe, if a man doesn’t come into my life, it is because I am not yet the man I would want to date or marry.
This is basically the Law of Attraction.
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Lastly, at all times, act as if the man of your life could come into your life at any moment.
So how would this look like:
- Dress to impress at all times
- Activate your feminine energy at all times specially in public
- Get excited & feel that sensation when you are out in public. Even during the simplest, routine chores of the day like going to the grocery store, going to Starbucks, going to the bank, etc.
Feel excited to be out in public, looking your most beautiful self and activating your feminine energy. This will attract admirers from all corners of the world.
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