Edie's Ethos: Be remembered, be desired, be envied, and never, ever make apologies for your existence!

Every Woman Starts as Gabrielle Solis. Few Become Edie Britt.

…Gabrielle Solis and Edie Britt are both beautiful, but that’s honestly where it stops. Gabby is the fantasy. Being chosen. Being kept. Being admired from the outside. Her beauty works because it’s attached to something: money, marriage, attention. When those things start slipping, so does she. Her power depends on being wanted, protected, secured.

Edie is different. Edie doesn’t need to be chosen. She chooses herself. Her beauty doesn’t soften when things get hard, she sharpens. She isn’t maintained by anyone. She builds her own atmosphere, her own space, her own presence. Men orbit her. Women resent her. And she doesn’t adjust to either.

Gabrielle is pretty to look at but she’s decorative. Edie is built with intention. That’s the difference.

I used to love Gabrielle Solis. Who didn’t? Her hair, her style, her sexy attitude, the way she seemed to have it all. Rich husband, gorgeous house, endless parties, panties & drawer of lingerie! She looked like the fantasy girl; someone who could live life on her own terms. I loved that part of her. I loved the glamour, the way she carried herself.

But the more I watched, the more I realized Gabby wasn’t living on her own terms anymore, at all. Somewhere along the way, she got soft in ways that annoyed me. For the SEXYCHIC girl, Gabrielle Solis is a cautionary tale. She is what happens when beauty is your leverage, but not your foundation.

She starts out untouchable. Everyone wants her. She’s admired, maintained, dressed, praised. Her life looks expensive because someone else is paying for it, emotionally, financially, energetically. She doesn’t notice the danger at first because somewhere along her journey as a former supermodel, she equated attention for power. Being chosen feels like security.

But it’s conditional. The problem with being a Gabby is that her power lives outside of her. It’s tied to a husband, a lifestyle, a man’s desire, the room staying impressed. What happened when the attention shifted, when the money tightened, when the admiration dulled? She panicked. Not because she’s lost love, but because she’s lost leverage. She began to let herself go as a result. So she compromises. She clings. She performs. She gets louder, needier, sharper in the wrong way. She becomes bitter, two faced, fake without realizing it. The same beauty that once protected her now works against her, because it was never reinforced with self trust, independence, or strategy.

After the first few glamorous seasons of Gabby’s hypnotic beauty, she doesn’t age badly because she ages. She ages badly because she never built anything underneath the beauty. She confuses being desired with being secure, and mistakes luxury for power. She believes being kept is the same as being chosen forever. And when that illusion cracks, she doesn’t know who she is without the mirror reflecting approval back at her. That’s the warning.

Being a Gabby girl feels good early on. But it’s fragile. If your beauty depends on someone else maintaining it, you’ll always be afraid of losing them. If your confidence depends on attention, you’ll chase it. If your identity depends on being chosen, you’ll eventually accept less than you deserve just to stay picked.

She just became… forgettable. You could admire her, sure, but you wouldn’t fear her, envy her, remember her the way you did in the earlier seasons as someone who really owned herself. And that’s the danger.

Edie Britt, however, that’s different. Now that I’m 25 and more awake from the beauty hypnosis of Gaby Solis, I’ve come to see that I am more Edie than Gabby. She may not have her sisterhood like the rest of them do, but she’s not weak. She’s not making herself a victim because of the loneliness. She’s sharp, glamorous, flirty, sensual, irresistibly playful, unapologetic, and so, so envied. She doesn’t settle for less than she deserves. She knows what she wants and she takes it, without apologizing. She refuses to let the useless emotion that is shame run her life. Hot!

She’s envied (not just for her looks), but because she’s deliciously magnetic. Why should she let anyone manipulate her? I see myself in Edie. I see myself in her boldness, her loneliness, her hyper femininity, her magnetism, her unapologetic self. I see her in the way she decorates herself, her aesthetic, the way she dresses, the way she handles relationships. She takes what she wants, she doesn’t apologize, she doesn’t soften for anyone. Gabby clings. She bends. She lets love or fear run her life. Edie stands alone and owns it.

I see her in the way she handles relationships. She dates men like men date women. She doesn’t need them. She’s sovereign and she will away if it’s not right for her. This is why men love her. She’s a sexy rollercoaster. She is impossible to figure out. Confident and sexual without needing to prove herself. They’re all drawn to her energy, her fire, the way she moves through life knowing she’s desired, whether they admit or not.

I wish Gabby and Edie became closer. Maybe then Gabby wouldn’t of let a deadbeat version of love, or even the idea of love, run her life. If supermodel Gabby from the earlier seasons became sisters with Edie, then I like to think she wouldn’t of compromised herself for anyone else’s comfort or approval, like Edie didn’t. Edie stood alone, and she owned it. She moved through loneliness with confidence, knowing that being alone didn’t make her weak, instead it sharpened her. She made herself irresistibly untouchable because she knew exactly who she is, and she wasn’t going to let anyone else dictate it.

I also am obsessed with how calculated and scorpionic Edie is. She knows how to be petty and why it matters. She doesn’t scream or cry when someone crosses her. She acts. She becomes karma. Think of the way she handles Susan or Bree when they try to meddle in her life. She’s elegant with it just as much as she is dangerous.This and Gabby’s sexy attitude (which I initially loved) became day and night. In later seasons I kept seeing Gabby react, complains, stew. It was so disappointing to see! Edie should have given her notes on how to make people feel the weight of crossing her. Her ethos is very much: This pussy bites back! And hard. Meow.

Edie is the representation of feminine fantasy, and in that representation she’s also a mirror of projections. Women hate Edie because she doesn’t play by anyone’s rules. She doesn’t dim or dilute her aura to make them comfortable. She’s clever, confident, and she doesn’t care if they like her. She’s everything they want to be but can’t allow themselves to be. That’s why they project all those insults, misogyny and envy onto her, because her feminine magnetism makes her dangerous in their eyes.

Now let’s tap into my Libra rising and swoon over Edie’s house…. My glamorous dream. Her house is exactly what she is: sexy, deliberate, intentionally bold. Clean lines, modern but sexy, with pops of color that feel like eye candy.

I love that you can feel Edie’s energy everywhere. In her vibrant & sexy outfits, her heels that make her tower, her perfectly designed furniture. Her house reflects her aura. Walk in and you feel her presence instantly. Men want it. They want her. Women hate it. It’s envied, provocative, untouchable. It’s exactly what she is, and exactly what I want.

If Edie Brit taught me anything it’s: Be remembered, be desired, be envied, and never, ever make apologies for your existence. In a room full of ordinarys, be extraordinary 💋

So… who are you more like?

Be honest.

Are you Edie: sharp, fabulous, underrated, envied, a little feared?

Gabby: glamorous, dramatic, addicted to being adored?

Susan: soft, messy, romantic, always in her feelings?

Bree: polished, sovereign, controlled, desired, perfect on the outside?

Or Lynette: exhausted, capable, strong, holding everything together?

Tell me. I won’t judge.

(Unless you say Susan 😌)

xo

Enisa - SEXYCHIC

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