My happiness was based on others. I struggled with my relationships controlling how I felt overall. I was not happy, and developed unhealthy habits that would not improve me life. A scripture came to mind that reminded me that I could think myself happy. (Philippians 4:8) I had the power to control what I thought, how I felt; I realized that I could improve my situations. My life improved, and now I am happy through the ups and downs of life. I want to share tools to help others take control of their life, control of their happiness. Stop outsourcing your happiness; control it!