Style matters, your looks matter, sad to say but it does... what you wear matters! How you choose to style your hair matters! Okay you are going out looking busted nope you know that does nothing but hurt what you are thinking about, and those around you approach because they feel that they can and cause more drama for you, and your own life. Which is a NO NO!
And when they don't leave even though you've given off clues of uninterested. Then you can attribute what took place to your appearance. And that is how you dress, and style yourself, that by the time you are out, and you look well, not just anyone can approach simple. And if so do so with caution baby.
Is building easy no, it takes time to see where you want to find yourself years from now. Was it easy to give birth, NO, graduate, No! Is anything worth having easy, NO!
When you take out the time to see what you like, and how you want to likely move, then our journey will reflect that, and you will feel better, about ourselves, our looks, thoughts, and behaviors! Which is a good thing. When we are out and we find a style that fits what we need we should but I am scared, okay you are scared but buy it anyway.
If the item is not there again when our life allows us to come back then what, we feel as though we've missed out. And now we have a attitude I never get what I want and who wants to be around those people I am not up for it. And you know what secretly that you are not either. So make sure to come off as mindful, respectful of the time of others who are around you, if you see it get it then, in bulk.
Bulk is more than one: best example could be to buy it out, all that's in stock, if possible but maybe as many you may need, or more. Or we can go to the two's, two, four, six, or eight maybe if you can do three and leave the rest until later. Why is building wardrobes that help our confidence so scary it's because our attitude and mental state means that we are not sure we haven't done this before.
So we are not use to this, and when we do make our choices anyway especially when afraid we prove our own self worth. And not to them but to ourselves, our own mind. And yes people love to pick our minds and find fault with it, and make us feel less than so there is no need to help them, be mindful. Even when they aren't. That's how you are building confidence through your wardrobe.
In we are heart's in which that beat we grow to see that we are worth the beauty in our wardrobes, and that the confidence we earned by seeing that in us, allows who I am to understand that as truth. With time we may chose to give updates, maintaining a sense of freshness, is ideal. Which again makes us grow fond of what we cultivate inside of wardrobes, mentally, and physically as well, so both counts mindset, as we age, with style.
-- X.O.X.O., Mindset & Style Coach Antasia Shabria Armour, A. A., B. A. (2.5)
___ You've Been WARNED!
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