The 7th house, which is naturally occupied by Libra, refers to all of our 1-on-1 committed relationships. When it comes to romantic relationships, this refers to long-term committed relationships and marriage.
As a tarot reader and astrologer, the number one question I get is, "When will I get in a long-term committed relationship?"
There are two main things that keep people from getting into a long-term committed relationship: 1. Not being emotionally, spiritually, physically, mentally, and financially ready to be in a relationship and 2. Timing.
Pre-Relationship Category One
Most people fall into category 1. Many people are struggling or unhappy in their own life and want someone to come and "save" them, make them happy, and make all their problems go away. People think that if only they could get in a relationship their life would be so much better.
This is simply not true. You are going to be the same person single that you are in a relationship. If you're struggling personally or unhappy, you're going to struggle to be attractive to someone in the first place. Even if you do attract someone, it will be hard to get them to stay and commit for the long-run.
If you find yourself in this category, the best thing you can do to attract a long-term committed relationship in your life is to make a long-term commitment to yourself and dedicate yourself to creating the most amazing single life possible. That way, when someone special comes around you, you actually will have an exciting life to offer them. You won't be bringing negative energy to their life and placing too high of expectations on them.
What can you do right now to start becoming relationship ready? You would benefit most from regular tarot readings that can help you resolve your relationship blocks. Click here if you're ready to start becoming relationship material.
Pre-Relationship Category Two
Then, you have category 2 people. They are secure and attractive. They check all the boxes:
- They take care of their wealth, health, and happiness
- They have good hygiene and make it priority to be attractive to the opposite sex
- They live an exciting and fulfilling life with friends, family, and hobbies
For these people, it's just a matter of timing. They may have one or two blind spots, but there's no major red flags. The big thing with them is they don't need someone, but they want someone!
Category Two people normally need to make some type of life change to meet their person. They typically are not in the right careers, living in the wrong place, or not aligned with their destiny.
What can you do right now to position yourself better for relationship? You would benefit most from regular astrology readings that can help you align your life in a way that welcomes relationships. Click here if you're ready to start positioning yourself for love.