Let’s talk about the elephant in the room: a 65-year-old foreign man walking hand-in-hand with a 22-year-old Filipina. Is it love? Is it creepy? Is it exploitation—or mutual benefit?
Some say love knows no age. Others say, “Come on, bro. You’re old enough to be her father—maybe even her grandfather!”
But let’s stop pretending. In the West, men over 50 are often ignored by women. Divorced, disillusioned, maybe even disrespected. Meanwhile, many young Filipinas genuinely desire stability, protection, and a man who’s not playing childish games. It’s not entirely about money even though if you had none no woman would want you.
Still, let’s not sugarcoat it. There are women who’ll fake affection for a green card or cash. And there are men who want nothing more than a submissive, pretty face they can control. BOTH exist. Let’s be honest.
But here’s the shocker: sometimes, these age-gap relationships work better than two jaded Westerners in their 30s battling over who pays for dinner and what pronouns to use.
Is it a little weird? Is he a glorified ''pedo''? To outsiders, maybe. But who cares what outsiders think? They weren’t there when he was suicidal after his divorce. They weren’t there when she was working 12 hours a day at Jollibee to support her family.
Maybe he offers her a better life, and she offers him loyalty, youth, and feminine energy he hasn’t felt in 20 years. Is that so wrong?
So let me ask YOU:
💬 Is a 40-year plus age gap a problem if both are happy and respectful of each other?
💬 Would you ever date someone 40 or even 50 years younger (or older)?
💬 Are critics people who should mind their own business because they are jealous, moral crusaders, projecting their own failed relationships, or are they right in thinking the guy is just an old perv?
Each to their own, I guess. Whether you are against it or not, if the woman is of legal age there are no laws being broken. Still, people have a right to judge and the people involved have a right to say ''mind your own business''. But what would these foreigners say if their real or hypothetical 20 year old daughter came home one day and said to their father ''Dad, I have fallen in love with a 68 year old Filipina guy and I am going to marry him''?
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