Where to Meet Filipinas: A Guide for Foreigners
The Philippines is a vibrant country known for its beautiful beaches, rich culture, and warm, friendly people.
But the truth is, the majority of overseas visitors are not coming for the culture. They are coming in the hope of meeting Filipinas, usually in order to find a life partner, Of course, there are some sex tourists too, but most visitors are decent men looking for a traditional, feminine Filipina rather than the now mostly masculine,self-entitled Western women.
1. Online Dating Platforms
Online dating is one of the easiest and most efficient ways to meet Filipinas, especially if you’re not yet in the Philippines. Many Filipinas use dating apps and websites to connect with foreigners. The best dating site with the least amount of scammers is Christian Filipina. Click here to join https://www.christianfilipina.com/?affid=1029 (if link is not available copy'n'paste it in your search browser)
When using online platforms, be respectful and upfront about your intentions. Take time to understand the person beyond their profile picture. Be careful they are not scammers. Some red flags are if they tell you they ''love you'' in the first week or two of chatting to them, and also if they ask you for money for anything.
There are thousands of Filipinas making money through dating sites and Facebook from gullible, lonely and desperate men. Never ever expose yourself on an online chat camera masturbating, as tens of thousands of men in the past and present fell for that scam. The Filipina will expose her body on the camera and ''play with herself'' thus getting the guy horny and then she asks him to show his penis and many do, and then they start to pull themselves on camera not knowing she is secretly filming it. Shortly after she sends him the video of him and threatens to extort him of his money by sending the video to all the guy's Facebook friends, which could include his wife, family members, boss etc. which she took a record of. One young man from England caught in this scam recently committed suicide! Just don't do it!
2. Social Events and Gatherings
Filipinos are highly social, and attending local events is an excellent way to meet people. Check out:
- Festivals: The Philippines is famous for its colorful festivals like Sinulog, Ati-Atihan, and Panagbenga. These are great opportunities to interact with locals in a lively atmosphere.
- Cultural Events: Art exhibits, music events, or theater performances often attract an educated and creative crowd.
Filipinos love to see foreigners appreciating their culture, so participating in these events shows genuine interest and respect.
3. Cafés and Malls
Filipinas are often found in urban hubs like malls and cafés. Shopping malls in the Philippines are more than retail centers—they’re social spaces where people hang out. One reason being the Philippines is a hot country and many people cannot afford air conditioning so they go to the malls. Popular malls include:
- SM Malls: SM Mall of Asia in Manila or SM Seaside in Cebu are excellent spots to meet people.
- Ayala Malls: Known for their upscale ambiance and popular among young professionals.
Cafés, especially those near universities or business districts, are also fantastic places to strike up casual conversations.
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4. Churches and Religious Events
The Philippines is predominantly Catholic, and religion plays a significant role in many Filipinas' lives. Visiting churches, especially on Sundays or during special occasions like Christmas and Holy Week, can be a respectful way to meet women who share similar values.
Approach this setting with sensitivity and respect. Starting conversations after a service or during church-organized events is often more appropriate. But if you are not religious this is not a recommended way to meet them as no-one likes a deceiver and it will end badly.
5. Workplace and Professional Networks
If you're in the Philippines for work or business, your colleagues or local connections can introduce you to Filipinas within their professional or social circles. Many Filipinas value intellectual and professional growth, and meeting someone through work can foster mutual respect and understanding. If you are a digital nomad there are plenty of shared workspace set-ups.
6. Gyms and Fitness Classes
Fitness culture is growing in the Philippines, with many Filipinas participating in activities like yoga, Zumba, or CrossFit. Joining a gym or fitness class can provide a relaxed and health-oriented environment for meeting new people. But just be aware that many females who go to gyms can be combative, masculine types or narcissistic self lovers. Some Filipinas are no different to a lot of Western women.
7. Nightlife and Bars
For those who enjoy nightlife, cities like Manila, Cebu, and Davao offer a vibrant bar and club scene. Some areas to explore include:
- Bonifacio Global City (BGC): Known for its upscale bars and clubs.
- Makati's Poblacion District: A trendy area with a mix of local and expat-friendly venues.
- Cebu IT Park: Popular among young professionals.
While nightlife can be exciting, be mindful that not everyone in these settings is looking for long-term connections. Approach with caution and avoid making assumptions. Beware of freelancing sex workers as they abound in these places.
8. Travel Groups and Tours
Joining local travel groups or organized tours is a great way to meet adventurous Filipinas. Many locals enjoy traveling within their own country and are eager to show foreigners the beauty of the Philippines. Look for activities like island-hopping tours, boat parties, hiking groups, or cultural heritage walks.
Tips for Success
- Learn Basic Filipino Phrases: Even a simple “Kumusta ka?” (How are you?) can go a long way in breaking the ice.
- Be Respectful and Honest: Filipinas appreciate sincerity and kindness. Avoid being overly aggressive or making inappropriate remarks.
- Understand Cultural Values: Family and religion are central to most Filipinas’ lives. Showing respect for these aspects will leave a positive impression.
- Be Patient: Building trust and rapport takes time. Don’t rush the process.
Conclusion
The Philippines offers countless opportunities to meet amazing Filipinas, whether through online platforms, cultural events, or everyday interactions. By approaching your search with respect, patience, and an open mind, you can form meaningful connections that transcend superficial encounters.
Remember, Filipinas are more than their outward beauty—they embody warmth, resilience, and a strong sense of family. Treat them with the respect they deserve, and you might just find the relationship you’re looking for.
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Cheers,
Jeff
Admin ''Philippines Fun Expat & Filipina Hangout'' FB group