You’re Doing Just Fine — Embracing Self-Love God's Way
Have you ever heard the song "Just Fine" by Mary J. Blige?
If not, pause right here and go give it a listen — it's a whole vibe! It's all about letting go, loving yourself, and soaking up the beauty of your life right now, right where you are. That energy is exactly what God desires for us too.
Believe it or not, self-love isn't just a trendy buzzword — it's actually a God thing. God wants us to love ourselves deeply, purely, and joyfully. It's not prideful, selfish, or wrong — it's obedience to His heart for us.
The Bible says in Mark 12:31, “Love your neighbor as yourself.”
Notice the as yourself part? You can’t pour love out if you don’t first receive it inwardly. God is literally telling us: “Child, it starts with YOU.”
Self-love is about taking responsibility for your happiness, recognizing your worth, and intentionally living a life that honors the masterpiece God created — you!
It means forgiving yourself when you fall, learning from your mistakes, and welcoming love and support with open arms (and open hearts).
God didn’t design us to trudge through life beating ourselves up.
He created us to live free — fully becoming all He dreamed for us when He formed us in the secret place (Psalm 139:13-16).
When you love yourself the way He intended, it changes everything. Your joy radiates. Your light shines brighter. And guess what? It influences everyone around you too.
✨ Self-love is Kingdom influence. ✨
Here are some real and practical steps to live out God's kind of self-love:
1. Practice self-care:
Take care of your body, your mind, and your soul. Eat nourishing foods. Rest. Move your body. Worship. Pray. When you feel good on the inside, it beams outward like the sun!
(3 John 1:2 — “Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.”)
2. Challenge negative self-talk:
Every time a negative thought pops up, replace it with God's truth about you. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14)! Speak life.
(2 Corinthians 5:7 — “For we walk by faith, not by sight.” Even when you don’t "feel" it, declare it!)
3. Practice self-compassion:
Be gentle with yourself. God's not harsh with you — He's full of grace. So show yourself that same grace.
(Psalm 116:5 — “The Lord is gracious and righteous; our God is full of compassion.”)
4. Set boundaries:
“No” is not a bad word — it's a shield for your peace and purpose. Protect your calling. Prioritize your well-being.
(Proverbs 4:23 — “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”)
5. Practice self-reflection:
Get still. Journal. Pray. Ask yourself, Are my actions aligned with who God says I am? Organization leads to empowerment, and clarity opens the door to freedom.
(Psalm 32:8 — “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.”)
6. Celebrate your accomplishments:
Nothing is too small to celebrate! Every step forward matters. Heaven cheers you on — so you should too.
(Zechariah 4:10 — “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.”)
7. Surround yourself with positivity:
Your circle matters. Choose relationships that lift your faith, feed your joy, and challenge you to grow.
(1 Corinthians 15:33 — “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.’” Choose wisely!)
Please remember, self-love is a journey, not a sprint. It’s a daily walk with God where you wake up, receive His love, reflect it inward, and shine it outward.
You don't have to be perfect. You don't have to have it all figured out. You just have to stay connected to the One who made you and already calls you enough.
God delights in you. He wants you to love yourself. He wants you to live free. He wants you to dance through life with a heart that says, “I’m doing just fine — because I’m walking with Jesus.” 🌟
With so much love,
Jasmine Johnson