This is an introduction blog in which will guide you through into finding the man that best suits you and how to be more clear in getting into your goal in life. You will also get to know more about yourself and will learn how powerful you really are.
You need to make sure the man you chose to date aligns and gets you closer to your actual goals in life, not further away from your goals with hopes, fantasies and dreams (words with no proof). You need a man who takes action to what he wants for the both of you to excel in life. You want a man who is a provider, a problem solver, protector, mentor, chivalrous, romantic and most importantly financially literate.
Most independent women do not know how it really feels to have a man fully provide in the relationship or how it feels to be truly loved and desired for. Many women have been providing for themselves most of their lives, so when women date men, they want to demonstrate to them that they are in control of their life no matter if he is in it.
Please ladies, stop with your big ego. I understand you've taken part of doing mostly everything yourself in life, but you need these men to fully provide to you, it just makes him more masculine and you more feminine. No, it will not make you feel weak around him because he knows how valuable you are since the moment he provides his full attention to you.
The gentleman will provide, protect and if he does wrong he will try to fix his wrong doings. Not everyone is perfect in any relationship because all relationships in life are different. You just have to communicate your wants, needs and desires at the very beginning. However your relationship starts in the beginning it will reflect on you both in the future. Until you both decide to make relationship agreement changes again, it's just best to always communicate it if your wants, needs and desires have changed. As we grow mentally, spirtually and physically our thoughts about life and the people that surround you change. You have to make sure that your partner still aligns with what you desire in your life. You can do verbal agreements and written agreements which will involve your lawyer to what you and him agree on when you both date.
If he continues to do wrong in the relationship, then he is selfish. When the moment temptation tends to occur, he will only think about his pleasureable desires with another woman or women instead of desiring only you. He will not think of jeopardizing you in life when he does wrong when he cheats. If your man cheats on you with another woman, then he is jeopardizing your life. Who know's if that woman is a psycho or becomes obsessed with him. Imagine you not knowing what's going on between them and she finds out about you or know's about you and does something evil to you both because of his selfish actions. Even though she might not be an evil person at heart but she can still have std's and put your life in jeopardy in that aspect because he was not careful when he was cheating.
Perhaps you found out he cheated on you with another woman and he has provided to you for so long in life. This same man made you excel for greatness and apologizes for his selfish actions but still plans to support you in life only if you forgive him, will you not want him in your life anymore since you were emotionally damaged? Will you have her keep him after he has cheated on you so she can now be provided by him and receive his love? Or will you create a verbal or written agreement and communicate with him about each others wants, needs and desires so non of this kind of situation will continue? In other words, will you work it out with him? Will you let her win?
If you let him go, does he have a home for you under your name and a business company in which you can survive with? Did you receive anything valuable at all out of the relationship survival wise while you dated him?
While you were dating him, did you learn to save all the money he has given to you so you can reinvest it in something you'd like to do in life to earn income? With that income will you be able to continue to survive and live the life of luxury without him?
If you did not receive anything valuable while you dated him, will you be more intelligent with the money he gives to you if you continue on dating him in your life after he has cheated?
Please do not always depend on his income for life. You have to learn how to create your own income as well. Have him teach you or use the money he gifts to you to begin your own streams of income.
Instead of requesting for designer brand bags, shoes, accessories etc. The first thing you need to do is create a source of income. Either create your own brand business, franchise or study something that will make you excel for excellence in life so that you will be stabled financially and also live the life of luxury.
Yes, it's possible to not depend on a man financially and just stay single with no mingling in life. If you plan to mingle and begin to have fling dates, one night stand dates, at least have him provide to you some value survival wise.
If you just begin to mingle date with nothing valuable given just simple pleasure as valuable, then he will continue taking advantage of more women like you. Before you get intimate entirely with a man even if it's a fling date, one night stand date, you still have to take precautions of std's. You can get oral std's as well. You need to becareful when you exchange saliva and makeout or when he gives you oral pleasure. Please always use condoms no matter what value he decides to give to you in life. Make sure that the std papers that he provides to you are legitimate with his doctor or your doctor. Most preferably if he took a test with your chosen doctor for the std's test to keep yourself safe.
Remember health is wealth! Go to your doctor and take a Pap Smear test, HIV test, Gonorrhea test, Chlamedia test, HPV test and Sylphilis test. You can also check if you have cancer with your doctor.
I say this because you need to make sure you are aware of your health! If you have anything from the above, then don't panic! Your world hasn't ended, you must continue living but you must always take precautions of others. Don't tell them your business unless you trust them because they can take legal action if they catch something from you or exploit your business to the unknown world. If you feel more comfortable before releasing that kind of sensitive information, then have them sign an NDA. Signing an NDA means that they will agree not to file a civil lawsuit and receive compensation for particular matters. An NDA also prevents you from speaking to the media and going public about your situation, as well as discuss it with anyone else. However, an NDA does not protect a sexual partner from being reported for criminal behavior.
If you have anything just ask your doctor what you can do when intimacy occurs and just take that advice and learn to live with it. Make sure you always stay as healthy as possible, exercise, drink a gallon of water a day, take recommended vitamins from your doctor, eat healthy meals and healthy snacks.
Not only that, but also do yoga, join a fitness class, dance class, pole class, golf class, casino gaming lessons, tennis class, volley ball class, swimming class, modeling class, etiquette class, language class, grammar class, ged refreshment class and so on. Do something that will alleviate your mind from stress and evolve it drastically, so you can become the best version of yourself! You also need to learn how to be charismatic and network with high caliber people. Surround yourself with the people who you want to become. Change your attitude, your appearance, your wardrobe, your tone of voice to a more feminine angelic, soft and kind tone of voice. Learn to be more sweet, change your posture to a more elegant, confident runway model. Practice this everytime you have a date.
Do not feel afraid of a change! You are so valuable in life that no one has even told you your worth and I will! I believe in you. You are capable to change the world, if anything your world. You have the power to allow people in your life, either to grow you mentally, spirtually and physically. You are the CEO of your world. You know who are the people who will evolve and improve your life for the better. Life is truly difficult only if you make it difficult for your own self. You have the capability to transform into the woman you always desired to be in life but you haven't met her yet but you will if you start taking action and not be afraid of a change! You also need to get out of your comfort zone immediately!
If at any given point people treat you ungratefully, it's because they are truly miserable. They want you to be below them and have them feel like they are more superior than you. But you know what!? Who cares about them, they are just seeking your attention and you will not give those ungrateful people your love anymore! Why do you seem to ask? Because, your kindness is considered a privilege and if they don't see the value of it in the beginning, then they don't deserve your attention nor love any longer. Misery likes company! Don't be with those miserable people, they will DRAG you down from where you are. You want to be elavated. Don't accompany those who are too negative about excelling for greatness and surround yourself with people who are already experiencing greatness!
People will underestimate you. You will only show your true self to people who you think deserve you! You don't need to prove that you are valuable to the people who are dragging you down, nope! The moment you leave their life, they will be miserably lost in their own world again and want to drag others down with them. It's their habit. If they tend to be sneaky to see what you are up to in life so like that they can continue to plot a plan to drag you back down, then you have to talk to them more civilized (make sure you have any proof that you confronted for peace) and if they don't listen to your agreement to leave you in peace and how to, then give them a final warning and have back up by your side when you warn them (only if necessary), you can have an officer or officers by your side to give the warning to that person or people who don't want you to be at peace, if they still don't listen, (only if necessary) then plot a plan on them and exploit them so they can leave you alone, that way others can provide help to leave you in peace from your situation. If not take legal action! (Legal action is the best choice.)
This world has many unhappy people but it's not their fault to be this way at all. It's the governments system. It begins when we go to school! I believe school should have an etiquette class, business class, survival class and a financial literacy class. Although, if we do have this as a law, then taxes will increase and everything will be very expensive. I would think if we do tend to have those classes, we will be able to afford anything since we will know how to be financially literate and will be able to afford what we desire. But this is just considered my opinion into why people act unhappy. I feel like we are all in a competition to survive in life and backstab each other for money. We should be supporting each other in life in a more lovable form.
You should really look into politics and what your state governor is deciding on for the whole state. What ever your state governor decides to do, it will reflect on you, your children or the next generations. In other words, everyone who is living in the current state! You need to know the names of these important people and what have they achieved within the state and what their on going plan is to have the people live comfortably. If they have an event, you should definitely attend, because your voice and vote matters! Who know's if you will meet high caliber gentlemen in those gatherings.
Also, please consider in looking into the president you are voting for, research their background history with what they have achieved for the people. Look at the negatives and positives. Balance it out and see if they are eligible to even be elected for president. Have a look in how they advertise themselves to the people to be elected and if what they've advertised to you is factual with real given proof! At times what they advertise is not always accurate, it is always best to do your research before voting. Research all the people that want a vote from you, everything is to improve the system of living.
I'm sure if we all pay attention to what these people in politics are up to we will live a much better life all together. This is the only way we can change how people think when it comes to surviving and being happier.
You need a high caliber gentleman to teach you everything about what is truly going on with the world. That is only if you are not in the high caliber catagory yet. If you are not, then it's best to learn from many high caliber gentlemen because they are all in a different system of survival. If you are not as successful as them, then you will have to invest in yourself to get to their level or higher than them, so that way you will be able to choose who you really desire to give all your love and trust to. If you have people who believe in you and that will have your back, you will have complete power over who ever. As long as it's for the good in life.
If you ever want to be in that high caliber woman standards, then just know you will have unknowns keeping an eye on you either for the good or bad. Be aware of that, always becareful and strategize your life correctly when you do get to the level of being a high caliber woman. You need to be intelligent, learn how to negotiate and deliver benefits to you and others. Please do not be taken advantage of! Stay safe. Invest in full protection where ever you go, even in your own home. This will include the people you love dearly as well as your pets and family pets.
If you have family photos, pet photos, your childrens photos, husbands photos, siblings photos, cousins photos or videos of your life in general on social media, just becareful because unknown people are already studying/stalking your life and you won't know if it's for the good or bad. If at any given point you do expose yourself on social media make sure that it's for a real good purpose and that it's worth it.
All social media platforms are a smart creative way to have people expose their true selves and thoughts to life etc. You are basically snitching on your own life on these platforms. Unknowns are all around the world. Remember, everything that you say or do in life will be held against you. The government teaches us that to have us be smart with the actions we do because we are all watched by them at all times without us knowing. The goverment will only bother you if it benefits them entirely. Usually they always have a plan before they do an action and they will give you a couple of chances to life. I had to inform that to you.
Not only that but even unknown people plot plans for you and you at times don't even understand why things even happen to you. You have to be more open with your surroundings and the people you allow in your life. You need to understand the real purpose in why they are in your life. They must have a good reason and give you value. You need to see actual proof of what the value they are portraying to you. Words aren't enough, it's about actions!
In life, us women are the most vulnerable humans in this planet earth and we try our best to show masculinity in us because we know how other humans can be and take advantage of us. We don't allow that whatsoever! Even when we have a man in our life we show our masculinity toughness when we are alone. It's best to know how to fight and how to defend ourselves intelligently verbally and physically. You will have to know your rights to situations and not commit crimes because nothing is worth your freedom. Never think hot headed! People can do that on purpose! Like I said before, people plot plans for you. So, becareful.
Another thing, If you keep whomever into your life you have to know about them, like, what's their full legal name, age, background, where do they live, write their plate number and their type of vehicle if they drive a car, what's their business title, zodiac sign, their full birthday date, also have a picture of the both of you having a good moment together or video. Things like that you should know about them and have. There's forms of getting their information in comfortable ways.
Why do you need their information you may ask? Well, for your safety you have to know whom they are. Don't be too trustworthy. I can't really say too much on here but just learn the people who you allow into your life, REALLY get to know THEM.
My "Date Verification Process" ebook, will be very useful for this kind of situation. You can look into it on this same website or you can contact me and send me a message on this website. I'm here to assist you if you need any guidance or help with whatever situation you are encountering in your life.
Relationship Advice:
A relationship works best when a gentleman provides for his lady & they both equally share their love, time & have extravagant life experiences together with no money issues because he know's how to manage & reinvest his money to deliver happiness for the both of you living in this world. Since he is financially literate, then he will help you in that aspect to learn his wisdom.
Dear goddesses, if you just started dating a gentleman. Don't provide intimacy. If he does ask you for intimacy or has that type of action towards you, then make sure he is providing to you upfront, proving to you that he is able to provide to his lady & make her happy. Don't always keep it intimate. Tease here & there, then fulfill his intimate desires. Intimacy is just a more exciting relationship experience.
If you politely decline for intimacy to occur, he has no right to throw a tantrum or hold it against you. You do not owe him anything. It is your right to provide intimacy when you feel the most comfortable & feel deep love for him. It has to happen naturally.
Remember this, as long as you know he is truly established, then you should know that everything you desire will be taken care of. But he will only stay with you longer if he sees that you do not waste his money on things that will not bring you value, survival wise. He would love if you reinvested his money into your business company, or something that will bring back to you more money in general or something of value.
He would love to see that you are able to manage his companies/investments. He would love to have an ambitious, intelligent, charismatic, fit, healthy, brave, elegant goddess by his side who is capable to provide help within his investments/companies. Because that is also considered yours too when he's gone from this planet earth but only if you are married to him or if he wrote a WILL that includes you within his companies and investments since you have the knowlege to function them from what he has taught you while you were with him.
If he sees that you are intelligent & capable at managing one of his companies or an investments, then he may surprisingly gift it to you. Of course if you tend to manage his company or investments, you'll have to earn a percentage before you even start to manage his company or investments. You need to fully learn about the company if they owe anything and how the company fully functions before it is gifted to you.
It is required to have a written agreement with your attorney if big business opportunities come to your life or anything comes your way for good or wrongs. You will also need a reliable, efficient, trustworthy CPA. You will need to hire your own team of people who will be willing to help you along your life's journey generally speaking. You need to be mentally strong minded. Hire a private doctor as well & keep yourself healthy & fit. Health brings wealth!
If he is faithful to you, then be faithful to him as well. It just does not make sense if you both waste each others time in hope of true love & full support. You will both need to make an agreement before starting a real relationship. Both of your time is truly valuable. Fully communicate your wants, needs and desires. Make sure that you both continue on aligning with what you both desire in life. Respect each other always. In life you really do need a person that will soothe you emotionally, because this world does get hectic for men and women. Do not be with a person who isn't benefitting you in life. We are all here to survive and be happy with the people who we truly love.
The next thing will be questions you should ask yourself about the person you are currently with:
With these questions, you will not waste your time in finding the gentlemen you are in search of. You will be more clear on what you are interested in when you date.
Identify the man you are currently dating by asking yourself these questions:
Q#1
Are you still with the guy that promises you a better lifestyle in the future and that you'll be living the life of luxury along with him?
Q#2
Has this same guy cheated on you plenty of times and you always take him back because you're always hopeful that he will some day change for you, respect you and not be selfish anymore in the relationship?
Q#3
Has this guy used physical aggression to manipulate you or assertive words to get his way and have you obey to his wants and needs in the relationship instead of being kind and caring?
Q#4
Has this guy helped you survive in life? If so, list what has he exactly helped you with and does he do this, daily, weekly, monthly, yearly?
Q#5
Do you see that this guy is ready to afford a family with you and also live the life of luxury with the whole family you'll create with him?
Q#6
Do you see that this guy only thinks about himself and never includes you in events?
Q#7
Does this guy lower your high standards to meet his standards to be able to afford you?
Q#8
Do you feel uncomfortable when you make love to him because you think that he imagines other women he desires and is acting like you are them?
Q#9
When you make love to him does he look into your eyes, call your name, kiss you gently on the forehead and says he loves you and looks like he desires you fully, emotionally and physically?
Q#10
Are you in this lifestyle because the current guy you are with can't provide for the both of you to fulfill the wants, needs and desires?
Q#11
If he found out that you are in this kind of lifestyle, do you think he should be upset at you or himself?
Q#12
Does your guy feel hopeful that within 5 or 10 years he will be able to provide for the both of you and live the life of luxury?
Q#13
Have you caught him watching porn without your consent and desiring sex workers bodies instead of yours?
Q#14
Does he have comebacks saying "I am a man" as an excuse to do what he desires?
Q#15
Does he raise his voice to manipulate you to do what he desires?
Q#16
Do you feel like you've provided more in the relationship survival wise because he's been struggling?
Q#17
Has he paid you back plus more while he struggled survival wise?
Q#18
Has he mentally evolved your mindset to greater things and made you see different view points to life?
Q#19
Has he motivated you, helped you eat healthy in life and taught you how?
Q#20
Do you have legitimate proof of him not having std's?
Q#21
Is he putting you in debt?
Q#22
Has he taught you how to defend yourself physically and verbally when he's not around?
Q#23
Do you and him know CPR and are certified?
Q#24
Have you gone to a gun range to train with him?
Q#25
Is he a problem solver and a fixer in situations?
Q#26
Is he financially literate?
Q#27
Does he teach you how to manage your money properly, to save, invest and how to use money in general?
Q#28
Has he taught the family you created with him how to defend themselves once they are alone verbally and physically?
Q#29
Has he taught you your rights as a citizen to defend yourself verbally in under pressure situations or in any situation in life?
Q#30
Does he control all financial things that you both have and hasn't taught you or told you how he's been managing the money?
Q#31
Do you have written proof of documentations with a lawyer of all the things he promised you, like a house, car, company, land, etc anything survival wise?
Q#32
Do you both have a bank account together and also a seperate account or a joint bank account?
Q#33
Do you both have money just incase one of you passes away unexpectedly and need to pay the whole funeral process costs?
Q#34
Do you both have life insurance?
Q#35
Did you both create a will for each other?
Q#36
Does he have you under his medical insurance?
Q#37
Does he have you under his dental insurance?
Q#38
Do you both have a private doctor?
Q#39
Do you both know about etiquette?
Q#40
Has he taught you how to live the life of luxury without spending too much money?
Q#41
Has he taught you about the worlds different systems on how people survive in life?
Q#42
Is your guy in debt and wants to marry you?
Q#43
Does your guy have many evil eyes from people that he screwed over in life and wants to marry you and create a family with you?
Q#44
Is your guy financially stabled legally, illegally or both?
Q#45
Is your guy wanting to marry you without having anything to provide survival wise for the both of you and your future family?
Q#46
Are you both building an empire as a team and accomplishing your goals drastically together in a rapid form to live the life of luxury?
Q#47
Is he still chasing his dreams and is still on his journey to fully live the life of luxury?
Q#48
Is he already living the dream he always desired in life and is in peace and happy?
Q#49
Do you have full legitimate proof (documents etc) that he is currently living his dream?
Q#50
Is he lowkey wealthy or icon wealthy?
Q#51
Has he introduced to you the most important people you need to know in life that has benefited him?
Q#52
Do you know the people he is strongly connected to family wise and business wise?
Q#53
Has he taught you how to control and stabilize his empire if he is ever gone from this planet earth?
Q#54
Do you know where all his investments are located and have proof of it?
Q#55
Does he have you in the will to those investments and have a copy of that document?
Q#56
Has he tested out your loyalty, honesty, trust, love, respect and integrity?
Q#57
Have you tested out his loyalty, honesty, trust, love, respect and integrity?
Q#58
Is this guy telling you to focus on your goals while he focuses on his goals while you both date?
Q#59
Do you have children with this guy and he cheated on you and you've decided to leave him?
Q#60
Did he decide to stay with the woman he cheated on you with and have you take care of your child alone and he didn't provide any help nor offered anything survival wise?
Q#61
Is he currently helping you and your children that you've created with him survival wise? If so, list what has he helped with with. Does he do this daily weekly, monthly, yearly?
Q#62
Is he wanting to provide to his children but you aren't allowing him to?
Q#63
What lesson are you teaching him while you set him apart of his child and you?
Q#64
Did he learn the lesson you wanted him to learn?
Q#65
Is this guy married to you and you both have children and he also has another wife and children in another country and tells you he is traveling for work?
Q#66
Is this guy cheating on you at his work place with his co worker or whomever?
Q#67
Do you think that even so his co worker know's your married, engaged or has children, she'll care and him as well?
Q#68
Does he have 2 phones? One prepaid phone for his platonic dates and one for you when you call etc?
Q#69
Does your guy have a best friend that is a woman that he knew for many years?
Q#70
Has this guy asked you to marry him yet and has proved to you that he is able to provide and wants to create a family with you right away?
Q#71
Does this guy just wants to marry you and enjoy the life of luxury along with him and not have children what so ever?
Q#72
Have you taught him how to consistantly provide survival wise to you both or does he already know how?
Q#73
Does he work smartly and have people work for him so you both can be able to live the life of luxury and have time to do so? Freedom of time.
Q#74
Does he depend on your income since you have a higher financial opportunity level than him?
Q#75
Does he have a job but doesn't seek to be promoted or to create his own company and is comfortable with his current title at work?
Q#76
Has he learned how to invest his money from his job to the career path he wants to be in?
Q#77
Has he taught you how to use other people's money to survive and live the life of luxury along with him?
Q#78
Has he taught you about the digital world and how it works?
Q#79
Has he taught you how to be an investor?
Q#80
Has he taught you how to invest, save and spend wisely?
Q#81
Has he taught you how banks work in the system?
Q#82
Has he taught you how politicians work in the system?
Q#83
Has he taught you how the real estate system works?
Q#84
Has he taught you how virtual trading works?
Q#85
Has he taught you how to successfully win at casinos?
Q#86
Has he taught you how goods and services work in the system?
Q#87
Has he taught you why taxes rise up, as well as goods and services?
Q#88
Has he taught you how to properly negotiate and buy your vehicles?
Q#89
Has he taught you how to negotiate with car insurance companies?
Q#90
Has he taught you how to buy homes and earn profit?
Q#91
Has he taught you how to not buy homes and still earn profit?
Q#92
Has your guy been reading books and learning from many mentors so that you and him can live the life of luxury immediately?
Q#93
Is he going to school and is in school debt and has no plans in how to pay it off after he graduates?
Q#94
Is he able to pay off his school loans and also provide for you both survival wise and live the life of luxury?
Q#95
Will it happen right away or within 5-25 years for him to fully pay his school debt and provide for you both survival wise and to live the life of luxury?
Q#96
Has he learned how to make millions in school after graduating?
Q#97
In school did they teach him how to be a worker and not an employer?
Q#98
Has he learned how to make faster money with reading books and hiring mentors?
Q#99
Is he networking with successful entreprenuers?
Q#100
Is he a successful entreprenuer which people need advice from and at times he gets paid for his advice?
The next thing you will learn is how most men act and how to identify if you are dating or have met a man as such.
A man will tell you anything you want to hear just to get intimate with you. They know exactly what a woman wants to hear from a man, so they'll persuade you with their words, so they can fulfill what they desire from you. Once you give him what he desires, you basically were a part of his plan, to see if that tactic worked to complete his desires much faster from women.
Men know that we get emotionally attached, so they try their best to make you fall in love with them. Once you fall in love, then they are able to manipulate you and have you in their palm of their hand because you are at a vulnerable state. You had built trust in them entirely and will put him first before yourself so he will not leave you! Meaning, you'll put his feelings first before your feelings to things and situations.
Before you marry this man and decide to have children with him, you first need to make sure he is able to afford that with you financially speaking. If he is still on his journey to financial freedom and freedom of time, then he needs a high caliber woman mentor, so he can get to his goal much faster. There's many women who invests their time and love to these kind of men who are in the process of financial freedom and freedom of time.
There's also men that are stabled financially and can provide to a woman but have a big ego problem. He had many women that has boosted his ego and feels like you are not as valuable as the other women he has dated prior. He expects you to lower your high standards because you don't deserve the lifestyle that you are asking for. Meaning, like you are not catagorized in his eyes to even ask for what you desire from him or within a man in general.
He will begin to manipulate and lower back your high standards with making fun of your requestments to survive in life and how you desire to live in life with the man you will give your time and love to. He know's that if he can control you emotionally, he will give opportunities to other men in his catagory or lower that will take advantage to wonderful women like yourself.
Incase you decide to leave him, he will plant that seed in your head, so it can begin to grow. You will start thinking about his belief towards you and will approve of it that you perhaps were asking for too much from a man and that you should lower your high standards to men including him so you can date.
These kind of men will have you be unhealthy in life. He will want to feed you unhealthy meals and snacks. Basically, you will be over weight. He will also not help you mentally. He will give you or allow you to take drugs so you can feel dumb, paranoid, lazy, sleepy, make you have anxiety and so on. He will seem to not care with what you consume or do with yourself. He will not motivate you to workout. He will want you to be further away from high caliber men and from your goals in life. He will want you to ONLY depend on him to survive in life. He will be very controlling of you. Perhaps he doesn't realize that he is doing this toxic action towards you. Maybe he is also lost like you when it comes to treating a woman or how a woman should be treated generally speaking. It all begins how both of your parents treat each other and that's how you are both influenced. This also goes to parents, they perhaps had bad parenting as well and it repeats. You both have to break that continuous cycle to improve each other for the better because you both love each other and need to learn how to treat each other good. Don't use manipulative and aggressive actions what so ever!
What if maybe his intention was not to be toxic to you because he is not even at a good state in life himself. Who knows if he did want you to date high caliber men and he gave you the worst relationship with him so you can finally search for that high caliber man you've desired in life because he needs to fix himself first before allowing you into his life.
Even though if he acts unfairly to you. You should remove him out of your life and not feel hopeful that he will change or else he would've been that high caliber man in the beginning of your relationship. He will have a dictator personality. He will be very confusing with his actions and feelings. At times he will be aggressive and will create tantrums towards you so you can emotionally get controlled by him. Or he will use his tears and persuade you to stay with him. Don't have these kind of men fool around with your emotions. Don't teach him that with doing those kind of emotions he will get to keep you and have access to you once more. He will reuse that same strategy or use it differently so he can get what he desires from you or to other women.
If you are not capable of handling this kind of man in your life, then you need to allow a high caliber woman to teach him the correct way to behave around women. You can't be with a man as such because you perhaps are not experienced in learning how to show this man how to treat you because he keeps on not listening to your wants, needs and desires nor understands it. He is stuck in his selfish world. For him to be even considered to be a high caliber man, it will take you perhaps years to teach if he acts this kind of manner.
It's up to him if he wants to change drastically for you, NATURALLY! But just know if you still decide to stay to teach him how to value you, to act proper and civilized, then you can try it out. But you must know about etiquette and proper manners as well. It will not make sense if you begin to teach him about etiquette and how to treat a woman like yourself when you clearly haven't experienced how to be treated in this kind of way from a high caliber gentlemen.
You will have to teach him what your likes, dislikes, your wants, needs and desires are. To be honest, he has to learn all of this himself! If he really loves and cares about you, he will not make you teach him how to love you and how to treat you nor value you! He has to show the effort and demonstrate to you that in the very beginning of your relationship. He should not be delivering a hard time to you at all! You are not here to teach him all your life how to treat you correctly, it should be natural!
To me all this process sounds immensely depressing for a beautiful woman like you to decide to teach this kind of man how to value you in life. You only have one life and you have to stop living the life of misery and begin to enjoy the life of luxury with a high caliber gentleman that will naturally know how to treat a beautiful woman like you!
Your time is truly valuable! Give your time and love to men who will take initiative to appreciate all you have to offer to him and to this current world. Just always remember to be cautious with giving your love to anyone and to love yourself first before others. You can't be able to love anyone until you love yourself, meaning when you are good mentally, spiritually and physically.
Once you fall in love with someone, you will feel vulnerable and will be easy to manipulate. Always remain cautious to love. When real love has entered your world you will at least know how to not be taken advantage of. When you have real love, you will both feel at peace, with no drama nor stress whatsoever! It will be truly amazing because the both of you will have this intense connection in which you will feel like you met him before in another life. Like a soulmate. This massive feeling is so incredible that you and him will have no worries about each other. You will both naturally love each other and do things for each other in which you both haven't done before for any other person.
To find the high caliber man that you desire, you will have to be in high-end areas where high caliber business people network and enjoy time together. You have to not give up in your wants, needs and desires. If you go around high-end places you have to look like a high-end business person as well. If you want to surround yourself with high caliber people, then you need to seem like one too. Invest in yourself first to get the man you desire in life! If your standards are high, then look like those high standards too.
You need to study what high caliber gentlemen look into within a woman and become that woman. You should first invest in women mentors in which they will teach you their own way in how they attract high caliber gentlemen. Every mentor will guide you through their experiences so you can get the gentlemen you desire to date.
Women mentors can't assume or give advice to you unless they actually get to know you with an interview because everyone is experiencing a different dating journey in life. Once mentors understand what you are in search of and the steps you need to take to get there, they will recommend their guidance or if you are in a different journey than them, then you will be referred to another dating mentor to get you to your main goal.
This is the way you will begin to invest in yourself by learning from other women. In my opinion, I don't recommend getting dating advice from straight men, but if they are gay, then possibly. When my mentees read my ebooks and take my mentorship guidance, they already achieve results drastically when it comes to dating. Everyone goes at their own pace, it is all a process. First, you need to become the woman you desire to be and you need to love yourself.
The purpose when you start dating is to love yourself! Take care of yourself. Transfer the love to yourself, your needs, wants and desires. The man will be considered an option to be in your life because you allowed him to be. He will be evolving you mentally and spiritually into the woman you always desired to become in life. He is just extra for self improvement. He will see the potential you have and will love to become a part of that journey. He will demonstrate his support to you immediately because he is a man with actions not only simple words. He will give you proof of his words.
A high caliber gentleman will not be struggling financially whatsoever, because he is financially literate. He is very wise with the investments that he does in his life. He will not be in debt of any kind. He will be already living his dream but wants to settle in a relationship now. Even if you are making your own money on the side for survival and you are able to afford what you desire for yourself, he will still give you big allowances, valuable expensive gifts and will provide fun extravagant adventures for the both of you to enjoy.
You will be living the life of luxury along with him. If you marry him and god forbid in the furture something happens to him and has evil eyes, is sick or is about to leave this planet earth for any other reason, then he must tell you how to manage his investments so you can take charge and manage his investments. That is ONLY if he wants you to. You need to be in his WILL for you to take over his investments and whatever else he wants you to take control of. Before you get on his WILL you need to understand step by step how to even manage his investments, properties, what he owes etc, you need to be fully responsible when you accept to be in the WILL. If you are not in his WILL, then you will have to learn to live on your own without him and try to continue to live the life of luxury with the investments that you currently have.
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