Controversial Blog That Will Shed Light on Why You Keep Meeting Hurtful People.

Stay with me... this blog may stir controversy as it delves into why you keep meeting awful people.

As many of my readers are already aware, I, Oriella Verdi, have evolved my persona through the practice of female domination. Along this journey, I have witnessed a variety of experiences that have left a lasting impression on me.

One particular incident from a few years ago stands out as relevant to what some may consider the "normal world."

It was an evening at an alternative lifestyle event when I paused to observe a scene...

A young man was bound to a spanking bench while a woman dressed in PVC, the sadist, administered punishment with a striking tool. This was perfectly normal considering the environment.

However, what caught my attention was the young man sobbing with every strike she delivered. I could sense his pain with each hit. Once his time on the spanking bench was over, she lovingly untied him, hugged him tenderly and consoling him with compassion.

At that time I was confused. I couldn't grasp that the young man's only way of releasing his buried emotional pain was through physical pain. The ritual wasn't about her cruelty towards men out of hatred; she was the conduit for his emotional release.

Be prepared for a provocative yet thought-provoking exploration of this intriguing moment.

Connecting to "Normal Life"

So, how does this relate to what many refer to as "normal life"? You know, those so-called "normal people"? 

Think of the nasty and unpleasant individuals you have encountered. Each time they inflict pain on you, what past wounds and trauma are reawakened, taking you back to that vulnerable state?

Trauma can be defined as any event that has shocked and disrupted your nervous system and sense of safety.

So, you find yourself getting angry and hurling insults at those who have wronged you, and rightfully so I might add. You hope that the next person or people you encounter will be...you know...kind, good, supportive, caring...

However, you fail to address the deep-seated emotions you have been avoiding or find too overwhelming to confront. Difficult-to-deal-with emotions and unacceptable beliefs about what you deserve are typically buried in your unconscious.

It's important to note that the subconscious and unconscious are not the same.

Now, imagine those awful types of people you can't seem to escape as sadists that you can utilize as instruments to help you process your suppressed pain and emotions, and uncover hidden beliefs.

I am not suggesting you send them a 'thank you' note. But I am stating that these individuals can be leveraged to free yourself from the circumstances that are keeping you trapped in a life you long to break free from.

This notion may sound outlandish to some, but if you are willing to open your mind and have the courage to audit your life with honesty, you may discover that this is indeed a viable reality.

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