Widespread Toxic Love

Exploring the detrimental aspects of a widespread theme in spiritual activism.

What comes to mind when you hear phrases like: "Be the light," "Lead from a place of love," "Be love and spread love," or "Make love your mission"?

For instance, these sentiments can evoke frustration in some individuals. Consider Maria, who has consistently offered support and compassion to others throughout her life, often at her own expense. For someone with this experience, these seemingly positive phrases can actually trigger feelings of anger and cynicism. Maria immediately recalls the many instances where her love and compassion were not reciprocated, and when her empathy and repeated chances were met with disrespect.

It's important to remember that broad, inspirational statements don't resonate universally and can have varied impacts depending on individual experiences. While such messages about love might seem like ideal advice, they can be particularly detrimental to individuals with a natural tendency towards over giving, such as Maria.

What individuals like Maria truly need is to embark on a journey of cultivating unconditional self-love. They need to learn to say NO, prioritize their own needs, and establish boundaries.

Often, individuals such as Maria have endured emotional neglect during their childhood, resulting in them feeling burdensome, unnoticed, and believing their emotions are insignificant. Thus, concentrating on the art of receiving, rather than giving, becomes essential.

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