Tears caressed my cheeks as I recalled the parts of me I left behind while pursuing life as a people pleaser. I sacrificed possibility and potential to achieve a goal that really didn't resonate with me.
In my present state, I am integrating and embodying my fullest most creative self to achieve my desired reality.
Today I want to share with you why and how to honor the sensitive you, in that process.
First, take a moment and answer these questions:
- What parts of you are beautiful/attractive?
- What parts of you are powerful?
- What parts of you are sacred?
The beautiful and attractive parts of you have nothing to do with your physical beauty, it's more so your journey of returning home to yourself.
It's your aura and energy when you show up for your passion and purpose.
The root of this beauty is your love for yourself and the work you do.
Ask yourself if the love for yourself and your business is conditional. If so why?
When we follow this conditional love we get caught in the #1 myth and mental barrier--- the "when/then" myth.
This sounds like...
When I get my first/next client then I'll be happy/fulfilled.
When I make the $5K months then I'll be successful.
When my business is successful then I'll take time to rest.
or my personal favorite
When I get more followers then I'll be more consistent.
These are all conditions for taking loving actions toward your passion and purpose-driven vision.
When you remove the conditions and take consistent loving action to make your dreams happen.
So what makes you powerful?
You may begin to describe yourself with titles and personality traits.
This is usually very easy because we've been in a condition to label ourselves in order to relate to the community we're a part of or building.
Take some time to reflect on the following questions:
- What do I love about myself?
- what comes easy to me?
- When you doubt yourself, what do you fear others will find out?
- When you think about your future what do you envision?
Answering these questions will lead you to the very sacred parts of you. We've been led to believe that our power should be only used to protect ourselves instead of balancing power and peace of mind.
Analyzing your power will reveal your sensitivities to the environment and circumstances you experience firsthand. These are the parts of you, that you protect the most. We practice honoring the sensitive self when we have clear boundaries in life and in business.
The sacred parts of you are the parts that most people around you either enjoy or they try to take advantage of, depending on your environment.
As you continue to grow and develop like everybody else in the world, be sure to prioritize your sensitive nature first.
Do not sacrifice or leave behind this version of yourself, you will need your own support throughout your journey.
I have a 2-day Mastermind coming up on March 21 & 22, where we dive deeper into these concepts and how to earn with ease.
- You'll get access to the training and tools to support our life and business evolution.
- You'll be added to a community of entrepreneurs who are navigating their own sacred journey of selling and showing up.
Learn more here
Looking forward to seeing you inside the mastermind!
xo,
jl