Hello everyone,
I was honestly going to take the day off—being Memorial Day and everything. Full transparency: I am full of BBQ, I’ve already had a drink, and taking the day off sounded really good, especially after surviving a 16-hour AI summit this weekend.
Then it hit me: this is exactly the moment, and the exact feeling, when I need to keep pushing even more.
"You can't solve a problem with the same mindset that created it."
I don't know who said that, but it is so true. That quote is simple and feels like common sense, yet many people don't even consider changing their mindset. Most just want things to magically change. For the lucky few, maybe things do—but for the rest of us, it takes being intentional with your thoughts, behavior, decisions, and actions.
Today, I'm choosing to do something more. I am choosing to continue to show up for you, my family, and myself. Yay me!!!
Let's Have a Petty Moment...
Even when you guys didn't show up for me with yesterday's blog, the comments, or the follows... that's okay. I love doing this, and I have faith you guys will show me the love one day.
But seriously, what was it about yesterday's post you guys weren't feeling??? Was it the AI aspect, or was it a woman standing up for herself that threw you guys off? I am hoping it was just the AI. Yeah, that’s what I’m running with, lol.
About the AI Thing — For Real Though
I know some of you saw my TikTok with the AI clone and had questions. Some of you had feelings. I get it.
But here's what I need you to understand: I'm not doing this because it's trendy. I'm doing this because the world is moving, and I am done watching it move without me.
I remember when I fought digital banking. I remember when I brushed off Bitcoin. I told myself, "That's not for me"—but what I was really saying was, "I don't believe I deserve to be ahead." Not anymore.
Learning AI isn't about becoming a robot. It's about using every tool available to build the life I always knew I was capable of—and finally believing I'm worth building it for.
What This Is Really About
This blog, this journey, the worksheets and workbooks in my store—none of it is about AI specifically. It's about the inner work that makes the outer work possible.
You cannot build a business, a brand, or a new version of yourself on a foundation of borrowed confidence. You have to do the work of knowing your worth first. That's what I'm still doing, every single day.
And if you're somewhere in the middle of your own war with yourself—trying to figure out if you're the angel or the devil, the dreamer or the realist—I just want you to know:
- You are allowed to outgrow the version of yourself that survival built.
- You are allowed to want more.
- You are allowed to become who you always were underneath all that hurt.
The oxygen mask goes on you first. Always.
This mindset is brand new for me. It's hard, but it is so necessary. I understand that now, and I hope you guys do too.
And if you need my help getting there, I'm right here. Click the link below if you're ready to choose to help yourself:
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