When faced with a cancer diagnosis, people often ask, "How can I help?"
Finding the right response quickly can be challenging, so here are some suggestions to help you get started:
- Transportation: Driving to appointments, treatments or errands
- Appointments: Have moral support and have them take notes
- Household chores: Clean, cook, laundry, lawn care
- Meals: Have meals prepared or delivered, or accept a a meal-sharing service.
- Childcare or pet care: Get a break from responsibilities.
- Errands: Have groceries, prescriptions, or other necessities picked up or ordered
- Help with information: Research treatment options or support groups.
- Offer a distraction: Other people can suggest activities like watching movies, playing games, or going for walks.
- Finances: Assistance with bills, insurance, or financial paperwork.
- A listening ear: Request a non-judgmental space to share thoughts and feelings.
- Companionship: Spend quality time together, even if it's just sitting quietly.
- Request cards or notes: Something in the mail other than bills is refreshing.
- Respect your privacy: Understand that you may need time alone.
Remember, the best way to ask for help is to communicate openly and honestly with friends, family and other support members.
