Hey yall,
I don't know if you can tell that the nature of the blog has shifted. If you haven't or if you are new here things have changed. I'm getting back to being a storyteller and focusing on your mind. Everyone is doing tips, but I'm convinced you don't lack the know-how, you lack the trust in yourself. So let's get into it, because that's right on time.
When I first ventured into the world of writing, I was passionate and nervous, but completely aware that it was in fact for me. However, the path was anything but clear. I had the support of an amazing publisher and the support of friends and family yet, beneath the surface bubbled a whole new set of fears and doubts, telling me stories of all the things I believed I couldn't do. LOUDLY!
But here's the twist in the narrative: amidst the mountain of "can'ts," there was a word I often overlooked—yet. This simple, three-letter word became my mantra. It transformed my perspective and, ultimately, my life. "I can't do this... yet" shifted the story. It opened my eyes to the truth that skills can be learned, talents can be honed, and gifts can grow.
Deciding to become an author was my leap into the unknown, the kind of scary decision that tests your faith and forces you to confront your deepest fears: like rejection. Sis, here's the thing about doing those scary things: they stretch you, challenge you, and reveal strengths you never knew you had.
I taught myself so much. When I started I couldn't write a synopsis to save my life, yet came. Then I could and then I was even able to do it for others. When I started I couldn't make a graphic that didnt make me cringe, yet came again. Now I get paid to create graphics and to teach people. I thank God for YET and you should to. Today doesn't mean you can't tomorrow.
So as I grew, so did my abilities. I began to realize that my gifts weren't just static traits I was born with; they were seeds that, when watered with effort, persistence, and a sprinkle of courage, could blossom into something. This realization was life-changing. Eventually, I quit my 9-5 to focus on writing while using my new talents to make some money as I penned almost 40 novels.
Starting this business was a direct result of embracing the "yet." It was a testament to the power of stepping out on faith, fully believing that while I might not have all the answers or skills at the moment, I was fully capable of learning, adapting, and overcoming. I guess this is also the Do It Scared mindset.
This journey has taught me that it's about turning "I can't" into "I can't yet," and then, eventually, into "I did." So what can you do to start changing your perspective?
Here are 5 ways:
Affirm Yourself and Potential: Begin each day by affirming yourself. Speak your capabilities into existence. "I am on a journey. My abilities are expanding every day. I can't do this... yet, but I'm getting closer with every step I take." Let these affirmations be the foundation of your daily routine.
Tackle One Fear at a Time: Focus on overcoming one challenge, skill, or fear at a time. This approach makes the process less overwhelming and more achievable. Rome wasn't built in a day baby!
Celebrate Every Small Win: Don't overlook the importance of acknowledging and celebrating your progress, no matter how minor it may seem.
Seek Inspiration and Mentorship: Find some people that inspire you or make you say "Ouu I could do this." Please don't copy but look around you, we are learning something from someone all day. There are so many free resources around. It's time to slow down and allow yourself to be a student.
Continue to DO IT SCARED!
I know that these pieces of advice seem familiar. I know you see them repeated over and over, in different forms, across various platforms. But there's a reason for this recurrence. When it comes to mastering your solopreneurship and authorship, the core principles of affirming your worth, manifesting your desires, and leaning into your community remain unchanged.
So, to anyone standing on the edge of a decision, teetering between the safety of the known and the potential of what could be, I offer this advice: embrace the "yet.". Remember, every master was once a beginner. Every expert had to start somewhere.
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