.....and life is all about choice, or having options.
Without choice, or options, it left that someone in a state of desperation - sort of itching him or her into that position of haplessness & helplessness.
To make things worst, there are at times when that little fellows are in those moments of helplessness & haplessness needing someone to pull them up, unfortunately - there you go, are scavenger of beings that sniffed around them, to detect and devour upon their newfound preys.
Never put yourselves to be in this situation; therefore, train your mind daily to challenge your limiting thought, stretch your heart into willingness to do things that others don't want to, and do it well; put your heart & mind into - not just doing things better - more importantly, make your SELVES better by equipping yourselves a varied of skills, aptitude, abilities, knowledge, proper attitude & behavioural patterns - to put yourselves always in the relevance of things and thus, giving you that edge of having market value wherever you are, and wherever you go.
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To do that, you need to become the person you never thought you can be; and to be the person you can be, you must always try new things, be in a new environment, explore new places in your travel & wandering; be opened to any learning opportunities and hell with having to care for your status, your conscious social definition, your perceived image by others, your personality or what there are that put your situation be in the 'control' of other people's view.
.....serve not their immediate concerns; serve first, your needs and what you must to make your life worthy, not be concern of what they say or would talk about you.
After all, when you looked bad, they'll gossip about you; when you're living good, still - they talked about you in jealousy & envy.
Learn to live life on your own terms, on your own needs and journey.
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Having said that though, be wise too to behave with respect of others, whoever they can be - be considerate and be opened - embrace everyone despite all there are - live life with a heart that put the understand about others too:
......those who are there to cheer you on by the pavement while you're running your marathon so as to speak, well - they are send to give you encouragement; those who stand by the walkway and jeer you on, they too are there for a function - to test your resolute, to test your tenacity and to put you into resilience shape and to help push you through of what you wanted doing, and what you must.
Each have their functions and reasons to be in your life; what's needed is not to hate them, but to accept & embrace their presence in light of their functions & reasons/purposes to be - a present - a gift - for you!!
Thank them for stretching your will to the straighten of things; thank them for putting the focus & concentration unto what you must, and thank them too thus for teaching thee the elements of not to be distracted easily nor be affected by the mirage of things that could be of deceitful to your well-being.
It all begins in the mind, in how we see and accept things in a way that bring us to greater things, greater control of our mind & thoughts, which then give us greater control of our reactions, responses toward things that in turn, would determine our behaviour about them; which then ultimately affect the kind of attitude within us that would have direct bearings to our own performances and results we dished it out through all of that:
The mind must improve; the quality of thought and the ability to think better - these are what they are all about.
So, read;
to be exposed with new ideas and new skills of thinking.
And write;
so as to clarify your mind, your heart - to grasp what you have digest and understand within.
Share it;
To give those learnings and embodiment of things into life & display in your life - via the creation of that setting throughout the influence you build in others around your world of view and life.
Your world is a better world, depending on what you're building after all through your influence.
Are you aware or in intentional consciousness of what you're building, of the life you're trying leading at?
If you are,
soon you'll have plenty of options.
The choice becomes a luxury of selecting the best of paths, not the rush of desperation into any paths or whatsoever; the former exhibits personal power whilst the latter only reveals self-limiting tendencies.
Invest in yourselves, and the best form of investment in yourselves, is always about the acquiring of:
SELF-MASTERY!!
The horizon Ahead:
Be Not Afraid, My Darling!!"
~ musafir,
THE INSPIRED MOOSE SERIES©
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