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What I Learned Interviewing 3 Romance Authors in My First Year — Advice I'm Still Using 50 Books Later

For her 5th author anniversary, Zee Irwin revisits the advice Merry Farmer, Caroline Lee & Kate Sadler gave her in year one — and how it built 50 books and 5 years later.


This year marks five years since I hit publish for the first time — and while digging through my YouTube channel, I found buried treasure: three interviews I hosted in my very first year as an author, back when I was running a little writing sprint group and nervously asking established authors how any of this worked. Watching them now is surreal. I was taking notes then. I'm still using the advice at 50+ books. Here's what each of them taught me — and what five years of small towns, billionaires, and hockey hotties have proven true.


Read on for a few highlights from each interview.


Watch all three on my YouTube interview playlist.


For her 5th author anniversary, Zee Irwin revisits the advice Merry Farmer, Caroline Lee & Kate Sadler gave her in year one — and how it built 50 books.


Merry Farmer: "You write alone, but you market as a group."

Merry Farmer writes historical romance — Victorian, Regency, westerns, and more — and had 100+ books out when we talked, nearly all of them connected. Three things she told me that became load-bearing walls of my career:


  • "You write alone, but you need to market as a group." Five years later: my author friendships, sprint groups, and plot calls are the reason I'm still standing. This advice is the whole ballgame.
  • Pick a highway, not a lane. Merry built a literal bridge series to walk her western readers into Victorian England. If you've ever wondered why all my small towns connect on a Road Trip map — now you know who planted that seed.
  • "You either are a writer or you're not. And if you're a writer, write." Advice given to young Merry by an Academy Award-nominated screenwriter — yes, from THOSE Gyllenhaals — and passed down to me. It still gives me chills.


Merry also plots so thoroughly she writes 8,000 words before 10 a.m., which I mention only so you understand what the rest of us are dealing with.


Watch the entire Merry Farmer interview on YouTube.

Visit her on the web at www.merryfarmer.net/



Caroline Lee had 78 books out when we talked — sweet westerns, steamy Scottish romance (her words: "we heard you like sex, well, let me show you these books"), and some of the biggest multi-author projects in romance, including a 65-book series that accidentally ended up with four heroes named Jack


Caroline Lee: "You might already be living your goal."

Caroline Lee had 78 books out when we talked — sweet westerns, steamy Scottish romance (her words: "we heard you like sex, well, let me show you these books"), and some of the biggest multi-author projects in romance, including a 65-book series that accidentally ended up with four heroes named Jack. What she taught me:


  • Always write the next book. One book can't carry a career — readers take three months' work and read it in a day, bless them. The backlist is the business.
  • Collaborations are borrowed wings. Join projects with authors bigger than you, tie your book to your own series, and their readers become yours. Generosity as strategy — and it works.
  • "You might already be living your goal." Caroline chased money milestones until her uncle pointed out the RV trips with her kids WERE the goal. I think about this one on deadline weeks, usually around 11 p.m.


Watch the Caroline Lee interview here on YouTube.

Visit her on the web at: www.carolineleeromance.com




Kate Sadler writes urban fantasy (her Fairy Files series is set in a martini bar, with titles like Fairy on the Rocks and Fairy-tini — I remain jealous) and small town romance. Ours was the quietest conversation of the three, and it left me with some of the most practical wisdom:


Katharine Sadler explains the Jane Austen Toast Theory

Katharine Sadler writes urban fantasy (her Fairy Files series is set in a martini bar, with titles like Fairy on the Rocks and Fairy-tini — I remain jealous) and small town romance. Ours was the quietest conversation of the three, and it left me with some of the most practical wisdom:


  • The Jane Austen Toast Theory: Austen wrote her novels in the years when her only household duty was making breakfast toast. Writing needs quiet space — and in a world that won't give us any, we have to build it on purpose. Kate uses meditation; I use my car. Same church.
  • Keep a series bible from book one. By book five you WILL be asking yourself what you named the high school. (Fifty books in: I can confirm. Aunt Minnie's Pie Shop, please don't ever change.)
  • A prequel is "just a chapter that happens before the book started." The single best cure for freebie-writing paralysis I've ever heard.


Watch the Katharine Sadler interview on YouTube.

Visit her on the web at www.KatharineSadler.com.



Five years, 50 books, and eight small towns later, the through-line is obvious: none of this happens alone. Every one of these authors was generous with a newbie holding a webcam and a list of nervous questions back in 2021 — and that generosity is the real secret of the romance author community. (And yes... I've been thinking about dusting off the interview mic. Stay tuned.)


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